Why, when I m in a bad mood, I always use my boyfriend as a punching bag?

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person is not lonely ..

That's the difference between a man and a woman.

My girlfriend and I are the same.

If she is unhappy, she must be accompanied by me, otherwise she will be sad.

But if something happens to a man, especially a bad thing.

I don't want to talk to my girlfriend.

Because many men subconsciously think that they should take care of their girlfriends.

If you return to her because you are unhappy, it feels awkward to talk to her.

Because the roles are reversed, the other party is the one who is taken care of.

And men generally have to be strong in front of their own women.

If he wants to tell his girlfriend that he has been wronged, he is very troubled when he is in trouble.

He will feel very shameless and shameless.

It's usually boring by myself and thinking of a solution.

At this time, if you insist on him speaking out, you will run into trouble.

He will be very unhappy and irritable.

So don't be angry with him and ignore him at this time.

Because this will hurt his heart very much.

Should be a little more empathetic.

Let him know that you know he's going through something unhappy.

But you are a wise woman and will not bother him.

Don't ask anything.

Don't try to coax him.

Just take care of him.

And then wait for him to get through it.

I will be grateful to you and feel more needed for you.

I wish you all happiness.

yi？Upstairs names and mine are so symmetrical. Hehe.

The philosopher Immanuel Kant said, "There is only one mistake that man makes in this life, and that is that he cannot control his emotions." "It's because you can't control your emotions that you fall into a state of pain, sadness, arrogance, madness.

It is precisely because you can't control your emotions that you will lose more opportunities and make wrong judgments again and again. It is precisely because you can't control your emotions that you will fall into the trap of others and shoot yourself in the foot.

Your boyfriend is always like this, his emotions suddenly change, and it makes you very scared, then you have to be careful, you are only in a relationship now, he already does not know how to manage his emotions like this, and it will be even more troublesome after you get married in the future.

Maybe your boyfriend is tired of you, so sometimes he doesn't tell you about some annoyances, but just acts very emotional, and if it gets to the point where it scares you, it proves that the problem is a bit serious.

Know why you're scared? Because you can't predict when his emotions will explode, and you are in fear all day long, so you want to please him, wronged yourself, and live with trepidation every day, so you will be very unhappy.

**Independent. At this time, you need to communicate with him seriously, tell the truth, talk about your worries and fears, see how he reacts, and then decide on the next move.

If you understand the reason why he is in a bad mood every time, then you have to prescribe the right medicine. After a period of observation, if he is still like this, he may really be bored with you, and the more you care about him, the more you ask him, the more annoying he becomes, and if so, you will have to consider breaking up.

Otherwise, when the conflict escalates and worsens in the future, it will be unfavorable to both parties, and you will break up unhappily because of constant quarrels, and finally turn love into hate.

In fact, these performances of your boyfriend are caused by not knowing how to manage emotions, it is normal for a person to have emotions, we will encounter a lot of troubles every day, either work or life, life in the world is constantly in the process of problems and solving problems.

Therefore, the most important thing is to learn to manage your emotions, know how to vent negative energy reasonably, and vent your emotions with the aim of not affecting others.

**Independent. Each of us does not lack the opportunity and ability to succeed, but often lacks a cool head and self-control, and many people fail because they can't control their emotions, so they end up being led away by emotions and making bad judgments and decisions.

02 Let me share the importance of emotional management:

General Eisenhower was once asked: "What kind of opponent in your life has scared you the most and had a headache?" General Eisenhower replied very frankly: "My own emotions." ”

In the face of the ups and downs of life, we often show great joy or great sorrow, when things are good, we often feel happy and carried away, and once we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we are pessimistic and disappointed, and lose confidence in life.

Everyone has their own emotions, sometimes affected by the outside world, at this time you ignore your boyfriend, wait for her to be angry, you talk to him well, tell him that he has lost his temper for no reason, and it also directly affects your emotions and lets your boyfriend know how you feel.

People will feel much better when they see beautiful things, so people's emotions have a direct impact on the external environment.