Can we break free from the shackles of the ideology instilled in the West?

(1) By excavating and inheriting the cultural traditions of ancient Greece and Rome, we will pursue the emancipation of individuality and freedom of thought, and stimulate the spirit of the new era. (3 marks) (2) Humanist thought. (2 points).

3) The ideological emancipation movement of the bourgeoisie knocking on the door of modern society. (2 points) It promoted people to discover the real life and the real world, promoted the progress of European education and culture and the accumulation of knowledge, and promoted the formation of modern bourgeois ideology and capitalist spirit. (5 points).

This question examines the historical facts of the Renaissance. "Finding a way to understand the material and spiritual" in Material 1 refers to the pursuit of individual emancipation and freedom of thought through the exploration and inheritance of ancient Greek and Roman cultural traditions, and the stimulation of a new spirit of the times. In material 2, "all success or failure is in ourselves" embodies the idea of humanism.

The ideological essence reflected in the above-mentioned materials "the main part of the civilization of this era" and "all success or failure is in ourselves" is the ideological emancipation movement of the bourgeoisie knocking on the door of modern society. The significance of social progress at that time: to promote people to discover the real life and the real world, to promote the progress of European education and culture and the accumulation of knowledge, to promote the formation of modern bourgeois ideology and capitalist spirit, and to produce a large number of "giants" in the ideological, artistic, scientific and cultural circles.

In real life, door-to-door is actually very important.

1. The gap between the rich and the poor.

Everyone will naively think that love trumps everything, but love can't escape reality after all. When you find a partner whose family conditions are very poor, and he is so poor that he can't even afford a car, let alone a house, will you be willing to marry him?

2. The gap in learning.

The difference in knowledge between two people directly determines whether there can be a common language between two people. Try to think about it, your knowledge is different from the other person, you have received a higher education, and many ideas are more advanced.

3. The gap in vision.

A person with an open heart and a wide vision may see, hear, and touch things that may be beyond the reach of others. If a person goes abroad to study, travels across the ocean, and has experienced the customs and etiquette culture of various places, while the other person is a frog at the bottom of the well, always only looking at the most immediate interests of the recent and short-sighted, then these two people are contradictory in both words and deeds.

4. Differences in family environment.

The family environment determines a person's growth, the cultivation of a person's character, and the quality of conduct have a great relationship with the family environment. A person who grew up in loving, harmonious family relationships, his personality is definitely caring, helpful, optimistic and positive.

5. Differences in the circle of friends.

If a person's friends are high-level people, everyone usually gets together to enjoy wine and flowers, discuss financial investment, etc., while the other half of the circle of friends are friends who drink and drink, only know how to eat and drink, do nothing every day, and have no taste for life. The friends of these two people can't get along, and these two people can't integrate into each other's circle of friends.

I don't think so.

A friend of mine said that marriage is a kind of transaction, you can find the right person, why look for a bad one, and others don't owe you! Listening to her words, I was more angry. Why are men and women so selfish today, what's the point of a loveless marriage?

At least you have to have love when you're young, and talk about it when it's not suitable, and you have to be worthy of your youth, both men and women in my family! Especially me, I'm still talking about love at such an old age, isn't it in line with today's times? But I like it, I don't have much money in this life, I have always had love, and it is not in vain for me to come to this world once!

I'm never particular about getting things right!

If marriage really pays attention to the right family, I think the right person should not only be in the rich and poor in modern times, but should be equal to the three views, I bought two suites myself, but I didn't ask the other party how to be rich, but the three views should be correct, at that time there was a saying that my girl bought a house before marriage, and then buy it together after marriage, I just removed him!

In fact, marriage does not have to be the right person, and the most important thing is to be happy in married life. There is no absolute right thing in marriage. If a couple of men who are the right man form a married family.

How can the loss of a woman in marriage and having children be calculated? What I'm afraid of is to talk about fairness when getting married, and after marriage, it is a woman's obligation to say housework and children, and the loss of having children is also due.

Men, in particular, are not qualified to require a woman in a marriage to be the right person. If a man asks the woman in the marriage to be the right person, can the man live with his parents-in-law and take care of the responsibilities of the elderly (including taking care of daily living and financial support)? Is it possible to take on the housework equally, instead of asking the woman to be virtuous and macho herself?

Can I have a child with the woman's last name? Is it possible not to ask the woman to have a son, as if there is a throne to be passed on in the family?

The social status of women is a little worse than that of men, and the families of origin of the vast majority of girls are already less than the boys in the family in terms of the girl's upbringing, academic training, marriage expenses, and marital preparations. So a man can't ask a woman to be right with you.

A woman, if she has the ability, has a job, and can have children, what is the use of a man, and after marriage, most women take care of the family's life while going to work, take care of the children and even the elderly, and a few men can help to share, so complaining is selfish, if you are really considerate of women, you should not post this kind of article, life is that no matter who you are with, you should share the burden and understand each other.

In fact, for marriage, don't pay attention to what is right. If a woman can bear the pain of giving birth, a man must be able to bear the hardship of supporting a family, and a dull life is the happiest marriage.

This idiom first appeared in the Yuan Dynasty, and later extended to an important standard for marriage.

People with a little bit of culture know what this idiom represents. But in reality, whether ancient or modern, the meaning represented by this idiom is a difficult mountain to climb.

In ancient times and modern times, the marriage of the lowest people is indeed in line with the family--- everyone is poor, and there is no room for choice. But as long as there are certain conditions, such as economic status, such as social status, it is difficult to achieve.

In ancient times, the beautiful daughters of poor families were willing to give concubines to the children of rich families, and the low-power families were willing to marry their beautiful daughters to the children of powerful families, even if they were concubines.

In modern times, more ordinary people marry from two families with different economic and social status. Every family wants to change the status quo through a marriage. Therefore, men who can't afford to buy a house are rarely able to pass the mother-in-law's pass.

Compared with ordinary people, business circles, entertainment circles and other groups, it is easy for them to achieve door-to-door matching, this is because the characteristics of these circles are determined. Ordinary people want to plunge headlong into it, and the only one who is hurt is themselves.

Of course, there is also a modern interpretation of the family pair: the children of two families with similar economic and social status have the same education and values since childhood, and their marriage is more stable when they are united.

There are two interpretations of this sentence: first, the parents of both sides do not pay much attention to material conditions, and do not think about letting their children marry more powerful people all day long; Second:

The two families already have a good economic and social foundation, and the two children do not have to worry about the future, and the two are more in love.

But it can only be said that there are really not too many such marriages. This is true even in both ancient and modern Western countries.

The values of the two are very different, which is what we say, not all the way, it is difficult to get along!

Teach you how to get your husband to do the housework for you? Does it matter to be the right person?

I heard the elders say that true love should be two families supporting another small family, rather than one family helping another family turn over.

I don't think it has to be the right person. Marriage is something you want to do. If the marriage is really the right match. I don't think the couple's marriage will last. On the contrary, it will only ruin two families.

I want to climb the high branches, I want to fly on the branches and become a phoenix, although my family and the people in the city can't be the right person, but I can make the right balance by myself. Therefore, women, if you want to fly on the branches and become a phoenix, you must have the ability to fly, and you must have the ability to make men dare not underestimate you, otherwise, there will be no happiness in that kind of marriage where the door is not right. It's so important.

The door is right.

Door to household is a very important criterion for people to choose a couple, basically most people are like this, just imagine, a new Chinese person and an undergraduate student will be happy after marriage, an ordinary people's family and a rich family marriage will be equal, I am talking about most of the situation, not absolute, there are also some marriages with large conditions gap are also very happy, but very few, so if you want to be happy in marriage, it is better to find the right family.

Quite important! If you are a child of a poor family, not only will you be looked down upon, but you will also be looked down upon with your parents. It's not wrong that parents are mediocre all their lives, after all, only a few people in the world are successful, but it's your fault for letting them look up to others as children.

If you are a child of a rich family, please disturb the life of ordinary people, even if you don't care, your parents don't care, the circle you live in will bring a sense of oppression to the other party's elderly.

Finding a partner is to be the right person, so the success rate is high.

It mainly depends on the concept of both parents, in the era of free love, the parents of both sides can give you white eyes, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to do, and when you meet more stubborn in-laws, equal conditions can also strengthen your family status, and you will not be truthful because of your birth.

But this situation is mostly in ancient and old societies, our era of relying on independent ability, men and women are equal, as long as you are willing to endure hardships, not a vase and not a lazy man, who cares about your noble status, marrying into a wealthy family depends on talent, marrying a rich girl depends on ability, so, your dignity is only in yourself, do what you can.

Of course, it is very important how realistic the current society is, especially if a family is a rich family and a peasant family. It is especially necessary to be a door-to-door match.

The so-called door-to-door pair, in my opinion, is the ideological door-to-door pair of two people. But one thing we have to be clear about is that if a child from a poor family is a child from a rich family, their thoughts and opinions are certainly different. If you think a bag of a few hundred dollars is expensive, people will think it is cheap.

Therefore, in love, it is very important to be the right person.

It doesn't have to be the right person, as long as he is true love for himself, and he will never be the kind of person who is the next Chen Shimei. Because you can wait a lot to see people's hearts over time. Moreover, the twisted melon is not sweet, it will not be happy, and it will not last long, and it will definitely be a person in the future, a resentful woman, a yellow-faced woman, because the person who is together has no true feelings and no true love, and will not feel sorry for himself.

In the end, some people may end up in a catastrophe, which is marriage, a wrong step, a wrong step, and there is no turning back. But in the beginning, he was the happiest person in the world.

I think it's important to be the right person. Only when the education, family background, and economic foundation are at the same level, will the married life be stable. Husband and wife will be on an equal footing.

The economic base determines the superstructure. If you don't get it right, one side will be at a disadvantage. When love is still there, you can endure for love.

But in the contradictions of daily life, love will be polished sooner or later.

In fact, in the eyes of young people, they may think that it is a shackle to love, and they think that as long as two people love each other, it will be fine. However, when you have experienced marriage, you will understand that if the difference between the two family backgrounds is very large, then the outlook on life, world view and values of the two people will be very different, and it will be difficult for two people to live together.

Therefore, it is still very important to get married.

Is it important to be a door-to-door pair? When you start to fall in love, you may feel that it is not important, and two people can truly love each other. But after really getting married, firewood, rice, oil, and salt will find it very important, especially in this society now.

Your poor family (man or woman), especially the other person's mother, will dislike you when your father is fine, and the same will be true for your close relatives, although they usually don't show it explicitly (some do).

The rich circle is different from you, you may not care too much at first, but there will definitely be comparisons, if you have not improved, you will definitely be complained by your partner or family and relatives, and if you have strong self-esteem, there will be contradictions.

Finally, you, including your parents, will always be dwarf, because you feel that you are not worthy of others before you are married, and when your parents have a conflict with your wife, you will be finished, she loves you but does not necessarily love your parents, she will not look down on you if she loves you, it does not mean that she will not look down on your parents.