What should I do if I got into a fight with my best friend?

Because you had a fight with your best friend, you may be in a hurry right now. I'm afraid of losing a friend because of such a small thing, maybe we can calm down, wait for a calm time, communicate our thoughts with a friend, tell her what you really think, tell her, you like to be friends with her, you like to be with her, and you don't want to lose a friend. If it's really a good friend, I believe she will understand, and in the end, the result we want is not her apology, but the reconciliation of the friendship, which will be more intimate because of this, if she refuses to reconcile, and doesn't want to hear what you really think, at this time, should you seriously think about you, are you really good friends?

Are you really suitable? Believe in your sincerity and will move your friends. I hope you all get along quickly!

Many people have such a bad habit of finding fault in others. After a conflict between the two parties, they usually don't think about whether they are at fault, most of them feel that the fault lies with others, and it is natural to wait for others to apologize or compromise. In fact, for both sides of the conflict, everyone has the conditions to contribute to the conflict, after the quarrel, the mood calms down, you can use the method I often use, think about the problem from the perspective of others, so that you can see where you are wrong, find out what you are not doing, and apologize to the other party.

When it comes to apologizing, many people feel that others are at fault first, it is a shame to apologize to him, this kind of thinking is redundant, apologizing is not a loss of self-esteem, apologizing first can avoid a long period of stalemate and tension in the relationship, especially the conflict between friends, and do not have to ruin a friendship for that little face. Of course, for those who think they are supreme, this face carries more weight than her life. It is inevitable that there will be some friction between friends in daily life, and after getting along for a long time, there will be some inexplicable contradictions between each other, maybe the change in the other party's personality may make it difficult for you to accept, or maybe you begin to slowly discover the shortcomings of the other party and feel disgusted, these are the objective factors that intensify the conflict.

People must learn to reflect, learn to be submissive, learn to tolerate the shortcomings of friends, and can also be tactfully proposed, don't let disgust occupy your brain. I also often dislike some of my friends' tempers, but I choose to be tolerant, between friends, friendship is above all else, and playing tempers over a little thing will not only hurt the feelings between friends, but also make myself miserable. Don't choose to be alienated because of someone else's change, and don't ruin a friendship because of your temper.

Learn to be tolerant, learn to understand. Learn to look at problems from the perspective of others, learn to be decisive, treat people with heart, and treat friends with sincerity.

Calm down with each other. Some people have a more impulsive personality, and it is easy to say some hurtful words when they quarrel, and if they quarrel with each other, they must calm down with each other first, so as not to let the impulsive angry words make each other estranged. Proper calmness can also make each other think seriously about this quarrel and make each other reconcile better.

Find the reason for the quarrel. Everything has a reason, and there is a fuse in the quarrel between friends, which may be because friends ignore themselves or because friends care too closely about other people. Some girls are more sensitive in their hearts, and they get angry with their good friends but don't explain the reason, and if they want a better reconciliation, they must seriously look for the reason for the quarrel.

Heart-to-heart conversations. If good friends quarrel with each other, then it is recommended that two people find a suitable opportunity to have a heart-to-heart conversation with each other, be honest with their inner thoughts, and understand each other's dissatisfaction, so as to better reconcile.

Sincere apologies. It is normal for good friends to quarrel with each other, and small quarrels can help promote the relationship between each other, but after the quarrel, friends should sincerely apologize to each other, so that friends can release their previous suspicions, so as not to keep the estrangement in each other's hearts during the quarrel. A sincere and formal apology can make friends feel their sincerity and want to continue the relationship and help each other reconcile better.

Active reconciliation. If good friends quarrel with each other, and each other realizes their mistakes, but refuses to take the initiative to apologize to each other for the sake of face, this will affect each other's friendship, and even break the friendship. Learning to take the initiative to reconcile after a quarrel between good friends is a sign of caring about this friendship, which can make friends closer to each other.

Seek common ground while reserving differences. Each person's personality is unique, and it may be that the personality difference between two good friends is quite different, which leads to the difference in views on some things so much that it causes quarrels. Good friends should respect each other's character, and they can't force their friends to become their favorite characters, so they can better maintain their friendship by seeking common ground while reserving differences in their personalities.

Quan Fan Bureau Hui Heng's boyfriend and friends. Good friends are often inseparable from each other, and if they talk about a boyfriend, then they will spend a lot of time with their boyfriend, and good friends will inevitably have some "jealousy" or even unhappiness. At this time, the two of them each took a step back, balanced the time with their boyfriend and friends, and neither snubbed their friends nor their boyfriends, so that they could better maintain their friendship with each other.

Learn to be honest with each other. As the saying goes, "people are separated from each other", even close friends can not immediately read each other's thoughts, usually unintentional behavior may lead to the other party's disgust and they don't know it, such a situation will accumulate more quarrels, so friends should be more honest with each other, what is unhappy about themselves.

1. You should apologize sincerely in a timely manner, because if you really regard the other party as a good friend, you will not want to lose this friend, and you must abandon your face and apologize to your friend no matter what.

2. Say "I'm sorry" sincerely. You know that simply saying "I'm sorry" won't solve the problem, but say it. With this auspicious appearance, it is possible to understand how angry and sad your lover is.

Then we can figure out what to say. Then tell your friends why you reacted the way you did. If you know that you are wrong, you need to understand that it is your responsibility to tell her why you did that.

In any case, in the face of your friends' doubts, you have to give answers and explanations.

3. Do something special. You also know that you will not be forgiven if you only apologize verbally, so you need to do something to show the sincerity of your apology and make your friend feel that he is very special to you and that he is important in your life. That's when they might consider giving you a chance.

1. The apology must be timely.

I've seen a story before:

There are two people who have played since they were young and have nothing to say to each other, and they can be said to be each other's best friends.

After entering the workplace, the two entered the same company and were assigned to the same department, which can be said to be very fateful.

However, once when they encountered problems at work, the two had different views, and they fought for a while, and neither of them was convinced.

At that time, they both had the idea that the other party would apologize first, and neither of them took the initiative to make it clear.

After a few days, the knot grew bigger and bigger, and the friends who used to be good faded away, and they were no longer so good.

It is very normal for friends to have disputes, and the key is how to deal with the problem.

When you need to apologize, even if you can't apologize immediately, you must find the right time to apologize in the future and save this rare friendship.

As the poem says, "Tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much".

Whether at work or in life, when you need to apologize, you must ensure that it is timely, and don't wait until the relationship fades before you remember.

In this case, even if the other party accepts your apology, the relationship between the two parties will not be able to return to the previous state.

2. Apologize with sincerity.

If you want the other party to forgive your wrong behavior, you can't giggle in apologizing, but you have to bring your own sincerity.

However, some people will not notice this when they apologize, and they can see at a glance that it is not a sincere apology.

Often this kind of behavior will only deepen the anger in the other person's heart and make the relationship worse.

It turns out that it only takes a little effort to repair the relationship, and no matter how hard you put in at this time, you may not be able to return to the time when the book was good.