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Hello friends, the invisible troubles are brought about by life and society, as if you see anything, you think of anything, you will have troubles, and the solution to this is to enrich yourself happily every day, and every day you have to have continuous things to complete yourself, so that you can first solve the troubles in your life, and the troubles in society should often participate in meaningful activities, make yourself feel not very lonely, let the society accept you, and help everyone around you to live like this You should also set your dreams and goals from time to time, establish your own career and studies, find more interesting things and items, regulate your sensitive nerves and your brain, and also have enough rest time, often do some exercises with reason for your brain, change your view of the world, treat your outlook on life, society, and world view correctly Here, I wish you happiness every day, happiness every day.

In love, you need to trust, you love him, you should first believe in him. Trust is the cornerstone of love and can make you go further.

Understand, you love him, you should also understand him, understand his difficulties, understand his suffering. Communication, you love him, you have to know how to communicate with him, to explore his heart, to know what he thinks in his heart, what he needs? Respect, if you love him, you should respect him, be democratic, don't try to control him, he also needs his own space.

Don't arrange everything for him. Material, when it comes to love and talking about material, some people may feel vulgar. But I want to emphasize that material is important.

Philosophically, we say that matter determines consciousness. That's what we can say here. Love without material foundation is like a flower without a foundation, which will wither sooner or later.

Taking a step back, even if you are willing to be poor, you don't want him to suffer with you, right? Happiness is in our hands, and it depends on us to understand it with our hearts and learn to manage happiness.

Because you know too well, you will find each other's shortcomings, and the shortcomings will be contradictory when you look at them for a long time When everyone starts to get along, it is not easy to find each other's shortcomings, even if you find it, you don't care, but after getting along for a long time, there will be a period of boredom You will care about his shortcomings very much, and then you will start to complain and be dissatisfied, and there will be contradictions Or think more about each other's good, think about getting along well, don't always care about his shortcomings, what contradictions and differences can be sincerely talked about, Since you are very familiar with it, you should say something, and you can also express your feelings while joking There is friction It is normal, but you must learn to resolve the contradiction Because there are any misunderstandings and contradictions that cannot be piled up, they must be solved in time, if you carry it for a long time, it will not be good for anyone I hope you can get along well and resolve the contradiction as soon as possible! You can get along very well! Blessings are sent!

Everyone, after a deep relationship, knows each other very well. I feel that there are many contradictions, maybe it is just a momentary misunderstanding, or a resentment caused by an unhappy mood! If it is really a contradiction, it may be that you care too much about him, and then use very domineering and direct sentences to talk about the other party, hoping that the other party can understand the truth of the matter.

It's easy to contradict this way. I once had a fight with a good friend like this. It would be nice to think about it afterwards......

But if it's really a contradiction, then you should say it's an emotional crisis......

Why are there so many contradictions? This is inevitable, and this is a good phenomenon, which shows that the more contact between the two, the more you understand, the more so-called contradictions. Let's learn about dialectics.

Just ask, what kind of contradiction can you have with a stranger, it is precisely because you have more contact that it will bring about the so-called contradiction, and it is also a good thing to change the perspective.

However, I hope that the landlord can tolerate each other more, being together is a kind of fate, how many years later, looking back, you will find that some of the contradictions in the past and present are actually not a problem. In many cases, it's just a passing passerby or a sight. Think about it.

'Inclusion' is the fundamental way to solve this problem. Don't always stare at other people's shortcomings, which will be infinitely magnified.

The nature that should be bad will be exposed over time, people are not perfect, tolerance is the most important.

The longer you get along, the more you get to know each other, people will inevitably have shortcomings, as long as you find a solution, the contradiction will naturally be resolved.

Because I found the shortcomings of the other party.

Maybe at first, she thinks that you meet her requirements in some aspects, but after contacting you, she finds that it is her delusion, and she feels that you are not what she imagined or liked, and she slowly became cold.

Or she finds it better and more in line with her requirements.

Or maybe the range conditions she likes have changed.

Or maybe she just has something more important to do.

It's all quite normal. In the beginning, we would play with a lot of people, but gradually, we would pick a few of them to play particularly well, and the others would become general friends.

As long as you feel like you're not wrong, there's no need to change or worry.

Just stick to yourself.

When you first get along, you have beautiful ideas, sometimes the imagination is very beautiful, but it will definitely be different in reality, at the beginning of the show is the beautiful side of the other party, you will feel very comfortable, enjoy while you ignore the unbeautiful, the longer the time to understand the deeper, not beautiful you also see so you feel that have changed, forget all the good only remember the bad problem. So in the process of getting along, two people need to run in with each other, and everyone has shortcomings, mainly how you look at and understand.

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

What do you think love is?

A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

The subject of love is life, living together.

Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

How do you go along?

Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

Ask yourself, do you love so much?

Are you willing to hurt both?

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

Life is not a good life for one person.

It's how two people live well together.

But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

Can't you keep it for love?

Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

Is this the end of my life?

If it is true love, it will never give up.

Because you see the shortcomings of the other person and magnify the shortcomings of the other person.

Two people will definitely have friction after getting along for a long time, at the beginning everyone did not have a deep understanding of each other, once they began to fall in love for a long time together, slowly the shortcomings of both parties are naturally manifested in front of each other, and if these shortcomings are not tolerated by both parties, then there will naturally be contradictions. In fact, these things have to be tolerated and understood by two people, or no one can tolerate what they say, then it is inevitable that they will quarrel all day long.

Because the two know each other better, the novelty is gone, and there is a sense of disgust, so there are many contradictions.

Because life forces you to find each other's faults.

It's what you said, get to know each other more and more, know that the other party and yourself are not integrated enough, then there will be some contradictions If the contradiction is good, two people slowly accept each other, understand each other, understand each other Two people will become more and more integrated!

But I don't advocate changing myself for the other person, why is a small change not so good! Because he loves the you at the beginning, not the you after the change! I think if two people are really compatible, it is enough to be understanding and tolerant!

At the beginning of being together, most of the understanding of each other is their own fantasy, and after getting along for a long time, everything about the two people slowly shows up, and what you think you don't understand is just that you feel different from what you think, in fact, this is a process that is slowly and really understanding each other.

Don't feel this way after not talking about anything for a long time, so the two of you should communicate more.

Because both sides have reservations, they deliberately hide their true thoughts from each other.

The most unclear thing is the relationship, and there is a saying that when two people have nothing to say when they are together, that's when the relationship ends.

In the past, a master said that after learning the technology for a year, he thought that he would repair everything, repaired for three years, and thought that he could only repair 80% of the faults, and after ten years, he thought that he would only be half, and now he feels that he will not repair it, and he is slowly changing to the end of not understanding.

There is a good saying, that is, to be together because you don't understand, and to break up because you understand.

You are no longer restrained, and you have completely let go of yourself, which means that you are not suitable.

Because he or she may have liked someone else.

Let's learn the arts! Stranger to familiar things and reproduce their inner beauty.

I know each other, so I don't understand.

The more I find out, the more lonely I become

It's like you don't know yourself.

It's normal, after getting along for a long time, everyone's tacit understanding has also been established, and they know each other's personality traits very well, many times they don't need to explain more, they understand each other with a look and a movement, but I think real friends are like this, even if two people don't say anything, they won't feel embarrassed when they sit quietly, but they are very at ease.

I think it's because we've been together for a long time, we know each other well enough, and we know each other enough things we like, even if it's the same hobbies, and we tell each other what we can tell each other, and there's nothing else we don't know about each other, so we have more and more nothing to say.

I don't know if there is a misunderstanding between you, maybe you have done something you may not care, but hurt him, if you want to be a good friend, I think sometimes it is to say that you are not satisfied with each other**, can accept appropriate changes to play together, if you can't accept it, you will disperse, and there is always friction to get along with people to run in. ‍‍

Because I was too speculative at the beginning, I was happy for a few days, and everyone had a sense of freshness, and I felt bored and tired. also saw that the other party began to perfunctory to himself, so he had a knot, so he also began to perfunctory the other party. Perfunctory, I feel bored, I don't want to talk anymore, I feel that he (she) is not in the same world as myself, and then I have nothing to say. ‍‍

When we first met, we were always curious about each other because of strangeness, and the differences between two people would be more likely to stir up ripples in life, but as two people got along longer and longer, we became more and more familiar, and some things did not need to communicate and understand each other, resulting in fewer and fewer topics.

Others say that the relationship is good or not has little to do with the distance, in fact, it has a lot to do with it, the people and things around you are different, there is no common topic, when there is no common topic, everyone will appear to be interested, especially when you hear complaints, and then you are not clear about his recent situation, you can't observe what you say, the impact on him in different moods will be different, for example, you have been smooth sailing recently, and he happens to be very unlucky, I am deeply touched. ‍‍

No one takes the initiative to find anyone (too much face), I think people will mind who cares about who after all, you take the initiative to lack his interest, or forget to reply for some reason, it will make you unable to raise your interest and look for him again, over time.

Maybe it's because after getting along for a long time, you can understand each other's thoughts, and you can understand what the other party wants to do with one look, so there is no superfluous words to say.

I think it may be that a certain tacit understanding has been cultivated, that is, the heart is connected. Even if we don't speak, maybe the other person will know what I mean with a look.

Later, I didn't like to talk, but I liked to hide things in my heart and slowly ferment, and all the paranoid recklessness became exclusive**, and no matter how warm the human feelings and things in the world were difficult to move. ‍‍

The closer the distance, the easier it is to have conflicts, so no matter who you are, you must keep a certain distance, a certain amount of personal space and privacy. ‍‍

Usually I feel that when I say it, the other party doesn't understand it, and I say it in vain. It's best that even if you don't say it, the other party can understand it and have a good heart.

Because the two of them have been together for a long time, they have finished talking about the topic, and there is nothing to say later.

Because everyone has their own shortcomings, at the beginning, they don't understand each other very well, and it may also be because they are in a hot head, and they don't pay attention to each other's shortcomings. After a long time, their respective consciousness is calmed down, or the emotional foundation is solid, their shortcomings will be inadvertently exposed, and over time, the contradictions will be stimulated, and then they will escalate!