I don t want to hurt someone who loves me, and I can t imagine that I hurt the person I love the mos

Do you love him? That's the key!

If you don't love, how can you hurt? Don't refuse now, regret it even more in the future!

If you love him, see how much your husband loves you? If your husband doesn't love you, you won't get divorced! Also think about it, what if he is a man who can't afford to play? It's going to get you in trouble!

I advocate that you can play, and you must be able to afford it on both sides!

Since you are married, you will definitely reject him, I don't know if he loves you, but even true love can't be with him, if you hurt one person to fulfill another person, it may not be too much to say, and you have to ask yourself, if you don't want to destroy the family, then, you reject him, don't think about it.

First of all, you're not putting the position right. You have never said anything about your "husband", what kind of person you are, and whether you have a good relationship with your husband. If it's good, you don't have to hesitate, you have to be responsible for your family, and you have to be responsible for yourself!

You should focus on your own family, women like a complete family, if you destroy your own home with your own hands, will your husband agree? Would you say yes yourself? Will your child say yes?

Although you don't want to hurt him, you can't bury your marriage Even if you become a lover with him, if you are found out by your husband one day, what will your husband think of you, and even if you regret it at that time, it will be too late You know what?

Since you are married, you have to be responsible for your own home, be loyal to your husband, and be responsible for your children. Or your mountain alliance and sea oath would have been so vulnerable? Don't be someone's lover, or you won't be spurned by thousands of people!

Ask yourself what family is!

I grieve for you, and so do you. Alas

For a married woman. Family is the most important thing!Don't look for a lover, you should love the person next to the pillow!

Hey, now that you have a family, you have to put your family first, and think about whether it is important to have a family or a man who has just met for a short time.

Dizzy, there are so many troubles to do with a family, I like you the first time I see you, and then say I love you, is it true, it's a little too impossible, you also have a home and what else do you love each other, you were wrong at the beginning, married people, you should focus on your family, think about how you and your current husband came together, is it easy? Which do you think is more important than him or your home? Do you want to build a new home?

If yes, then I really don't have anything to say!

Don't, be a responsible woman.

Be a regular friend! You can't talk about love!

Marriage and family are a responsibility! ～～

Shameless, still be someone's lover,

Tell him, there is no grass at the end of the world, you are so affectionate and righteous, you will definitely be able to find your her, I already have a master, so it is impossible for us, you will definitely find a better than me, and I will bless your ...... when the time comes

In the face of the person you love the most, you can't control your temper and show the bad side to each other, the person you love the most is very important in each other's hearts, and a small injury will make the other party sad for a long time.

Remember the story of the farmer and the snake, the farmer exists in the world, and the snake has never been able to be kind to people, this is their nature, even if there are no fangs, it will attract companions to hurt the farmer, even if you give them all your sincerity, you can't change the coldness of the snake, you can't warm their blood, and you can't change the psychology of revenge from beginning to end.

The farmer tries to exchange sincerity for sincerity, but selfishness and greed are part of the body, just like a poisonous snake that needs the farmer's warmth, it will not take his life, and will bite him back when he is unprepared, catch him off guard, and even lose his life before he has time to react. The value of benefits is reciprocal, but some poisonous snakes only want to hurt others and obtain the benefits they want, and in the process they disguise kindness, so that the farmer can easily believe that they have no fangs, and even have good friends with him.

The farmer's warmth was obtained, and the poisonous snake hurt him mercilessly, watching the farmer's painful poisoning, the farmer still had illusions at the last moment of his life, feeling that the poisonous snake was accidentally hurting himself, because he didn't want his kindness to become stupid, and he didn't want to let himself pay the price of life and regret, and the farmer finally left regrets in his own world.

The farmer saved the snake, but lost his life, hurting others at the same time, maybe the snake's fangs also left traces, that is by other people's lives, in exchange for the spoils, the snake is carried away, too late to feel, but lost his snake gall in the hunter's trap, the snake at the last moment still wants to struggle desperately, but the hunter never gave it any chance to escape, I wonder if the snake will think of the pain when the farmer dies?

If the hunter also has compassion, he will not survive, one hurts others, one is hurt by others, probably all encounters, are a kind of repayment, snakes do not like to be hurt, and later they are hurt by hunters, the farmer neither wants to hurt others, nor wants to be hurt by others, but fate can not let go of the kindness of the farmer, but also brings danger to him, know how to protect himself at the same time, so as not to be hurt by others.

There is nothing wrong with loving one, you will give everything for your lover, even if you would rather be hurt than let your lover be hurt, and you would rather be sad than make your lover sad. If the person you love is happy, then you will be happy, and if you love it, you will be unhappy. There's nothing wrong with loving someone, and there's nothing wrong with giving for someone you love.

It's just that some people are worth paying for him, and some people are not.