Why can t men stay single for long?

Because men generally can't control their emotions well, they will feel a little lonely and unbearable in many cases. I want to find someone to accompany me, so I can't stay single for a long time.

Because men are very dependent and are also to meet some of their biological reasons, if they are single, they will not be satisfied, and they will not be able to adhere to such a state.

Nowadays, whether a man is unmarried, he doesn't want to get married too early, and he always thinks that the only single life is what they are pursuing! But what Zihan wants to say is that although the single life is cool, we who are born as human beings, once we remain single for a long time, there will inevitably be many harms!

To correct it, a man can be single for a long time, but a woman can't, because even if a man is older, he has the capital to be single but a woman cannot.

Because as human beings, we all have that need, even if we don't get married, we need to be in love to meet our emotional needs.

Because men generally have poor self-care ability, they need a woman to help him, and men are more likely to spend their intestines, so they can't stand being single.

It is because if a man remains single for a long time, he has no desire to get married. Because being single is really free.

Because they have a very heavy responsibility, and the family instills different concepts in them, it will make a big change in their lives.

The main reason is that if a man is single for a long time, he may be particularly distressed, and he will face all kinds of marriage urging.

Because men are generally naïve and not particularly mature in their thinking, they need to be accompanied by someone so that they will not feel lonely.

If a man remains single for a long time, he will become incapable of socializing, become very cold, and have no feelings.

Because staying single for a long time is likely to affect your judgment of things, you can't be single for a long time.

This, it is estimated that the body is too good, and the average girl can't stand it. Simply.

Twenty-four years of singleness... 50 minutes at a time··· I feel that I should be similar to the national football team, and I don't shoot sick... Tired and don't love anymore.

It depends on the age, after the 35-year-old man, if there has been no one to pursue it, it needs to be considered.

If you are over 40 years old, you can't do it, and a man after the age of 45 plans to be a bachelor for the rest of his life without a wife.

Because they can't get married because they're all wonderful...

Do you want to follow your feelings! It's okay for personality reasons! Single by strength.

Because no one wants it? Just kidding?

Men will become more and more closed, which is completely different from the previous cheerful personality, which shows that men have suffered the blow of long-term singleness, and men have no love, and he will increasingly care about the eyes of others, for fear that others will talk about him behind his back.

What are the disadvantages of being single for a long time?

If a person has been single for too long and has been in a window period, then the pressure on the whole person will be greater. Normal contact between men and women can not only make both parties feel relaxed physically and mentally, but also make men more attractive and masculine.

On the contrary, if there is no interaction in this area,Then the man may become more anxious, his temper will be more likely to get angry, and he will even become less and less confident and appear more depressed.

The face will become darker, and it is also prone to acne and some dark spots. Don't think that only women have dark spots on their facesIn fact, if a man has been in the window period, the health of ** cannot be guaranteed, and the whole person will look older.

On the contrary, those who have a good relationship with the husband and wife after marriage consume a certain amount of physical strength before going to bed, so that the body has some tiredness, the body and mind are well relaxed, and the sleepiness will come faster, so that the sleep quality of both husband and wife can be improved.

When a man is single for a long time, some changes will also occur inside the body, and the quality of sleep will be affected. Moreover, men in the window period will choose to play games at night to kill the lonely time, so that staying up late has become commonplaceThe biological clock is seriously disrupted, and there are more and more cases of insomnia. When you finally fall asleep, you may be awakened by nightmares.

For male friends, relaxing their body and mind appropriately can not only delay the aging of the body, but also benefit the body's metabolism and blood circulation, and reduce the pressure in all aspects.

If there is no interaction for a long time, then the man's physical sensitivity will also decrease, which is also a huge damage to the man's self-esteem and is not conducive to the man's physical and mental health.

A man who is single for a long time is harmful both physically and emotionally. There are plenty of real-life examples that show that physical health is built on the foundation of inner emotional well-being. Nowadays, many boys (including them) can't get rid of the torment of love; There are many reasons for choosing to be single for a long time, for example, I have not been in contact with love for a long time because of an experience, I think all love is fake, and I don't want to believe in love.

As a result, if you are single for a long time and pursue a girl now, you will feel uncomfortable and it will be difficult to accept another girl. From my own experience, I have the following points on this:

1. Adjust your life

According to his own summary, a man who has been single for a long time has a slightly irregular life, which is not conducive to emotional communication with others. First of all, adjust your mentality, arrange your own schedule, live regularly, and exercise more. A man has a good regular life, a healthy body, a positive attitude, read more books, and cultivate a good attitude.

2. Cultivate interest

If you are single for a long time, your life is often relatively monotonous, and such a life will give people a sense of loneliness. The main problem is that when girls are chatting and communicating, it seems very monotonous, which will make the conversation very boring. So being single for a long time, in other words, is, closing yourself off for a long time can be said to be a negative thought.

You can participate in more social activities and increase your social network.

3. Open up your inner world

Open your heart, let your heart can accommodate more people, and keep the sunshine in your heart. If you have been single for a long time, you can try to socialize with girls more, and the expression of emotions can change your opinion. And socializing with girls more is conducive to improving your emotional intelligence and expression skills.

Being single for a long time is not conducive to the expression of one's inner thoughts, and for a long time, it is very harmful to one's health. For long-term men, if they are single, they should first start from their own problems and think about external problems.

Some people think it's good for men to be single for a long time, but I don't think that's actually the case. People who have been single for a long time will bring many negative effects to themselves, such as the following.

One. The burden of thought will be heavy

If a man has been single for a long time, whenever you see someone else having a partner, you don't have one, especially when you go home and meet relatives who ask you if you have brought a partner back, you will definitely feel pressure.

Two. Being out of place with someone of the opposite sex can be felt

Because you have been single for a long time, you will have less communication with the opposite sex, and you will feel unable to communicate and have nothing to say when you suddenly come into contact with the opposite sex. After a long time, you may still feel lonely, and slowly you will feel self-prepared and will not get along with others.

Three. The rules of life are very bad

A person who has been single for a long time may just make do with his daily life, without any rules. Especially for people who are not self-disciplined, they eat, sleep and sleep every day, and may even be able to sleep for a day on weekends.

First, the standards are getting worse and worse. At first, your criteria for finding a partner may be either 1.7 meters, or highly educated, or fake like Lin Chiling's sister, or a little fairy with long hair, but as you stay single, your facial features have changed, and slowly become almost the same, as long as it is not less than 1.6 meters, and in the end it becomes a woman, a female, and alive. The longer you are single, the more anxious you are to get off the single, and the more anxious you are when you look at the people around you in pairs.

The second is to fall into the comfort zone of being single. Because of being single for a long time, I am used to being alone, watching the people around me fall in love, and I feel that it is troublesome to chase girls, even if we are together, I have to coax when I am angry, and the two of them have to run in, and I can do everything with my left and right hands, what do you want your girlfriend to do? fell into the comfort zone of being single, and did not like to go out to contact the opposite sex, and even had the opportunity to get rid of the single, but would also reject contact with the opposite sex.

The third is that there is no goal and no motivation. As the saying goes, the old bachelor feeds himself and the whole family is not hungry. The boy who has been single for a long time, he doesn't need to plan for the future, and he hasn't thought about getting married and having children.

He is very satisfied with the current situation of life, too comfortable, his little dead salary is enough for him to eat, drink and have fun, no house, no savings, and no work is motivated, almost enough, never considering competition and promotion and salary increase.

The fourth, no friends. Just imagine, it's okay to be single in your 20s, because the friends around you haven't gotten married and have children, you eat, drink, play, play games, brag, and don't delay anything, but when you are single to your 30s, everyone around you is married and has children, and after you get off work, you can't make an appointment if you want to find a friend to come out for a drink. They work during the day, take care of the family at night, cook, take the children to kindergarten, and don't have much energy and time to come out and play like before, your focus is still on yourself, but their focus is on the family.

When it comes to the reasons why everyone is single, the reasons may be different, but basically the following situations are the following.

1. The evaluation of himself is too high, so the requirements for the other half have been increased accordingly, which has also led to his range of mate selection becoming very small.

2. I used to have a relationship, but I was seriously psychologically hurt when I was in love, so I didn't want to talk about my feelings anymore, and I was afraid of recalling that sad memory.

3. Have a very negative evaluation of yourself, can't see your own merits, have no self-confidence, and don't think that the opposite sex will really like you.

4. Tong Fan, a natural personality model, does not like to take the initiative to contact the opposite sex, does not understand the subtext of the opposite sex, and has very low emotional intelligence.

5.Physically impaired, stammering or disabled.