At the age of 20 5, I have no job to find yet, and I have lost some confidence in life

You just need a little faith, stick to it, and you will reap the rewards. Life is more exciting than you think.

Do a good job of career orientation.

Positioning is the unity of self-positioning and social positioning, and only on the basis of understanding oneself and one's career can we accurately position oneself.

Examine your personal traits (1) Desires and the ability to do things) What do you really want at this stage of life? (2) Ability What are you good at? (General Techniques and Special Techniques) (3) Personality Traits (Temperament, Nature) (Temperament, Nature) What type of person are you?

Under what circumstances is there the best performance? (4) Assets (tangible and intangible) What do you have an advantage over others?

Each group of people needs to be positioned, and the purpose is to ensure that they continue to develop. But the focus of each group's positioning is different: the focus of positioning is to clarify what you have.

Overestimating or underestimating oneself, attaching too much importance to one's diploma or one's own achievements, and underestimating one's potential too much, so it is necessary to analyze oneself carefully and understand more about social needs in order to position accurately. In most cases, the right way to think is to do what you should do, not what you love.

Finding a job, like doing anything else, has methods and skills. Many people can't find a job not because they don't have the ability to do things, but because they don't use the right methods and certain skills in the job search process. The so-called skills mainly include three aspects:

Know yourself, including your knowledge, skills, personality, hobbies, and physical condition. Before looking for a job, you must have a comprehensive understanding of yourself, and you must know what kind of work you can do and what kind of work you are not suitable for. If you want to do a job that you don't have the ability to do, you will definitely be turned away.

Learn about your chosen career and industry. Understand the work content, nature of work and the requirements for the quality of practitioners. You can ask people who have done the relevant work from friends and family, or you can ask others who are engaged in this work, they have rich experience, deep experience, can provide you with instructive information, their failures in the process of work, you can play a preventive role, and their successful experience is something you can learn from.

Self-referrals. On the basis of knowing yourself and your job, you start looking for a job. Job hunting is the process of finding and getting a job, which usually includes obtaining information about employment, obtaining interviews, talking, signing contracts, etc.

Finding a job is like selling a product, to get customers to buy your product, you have to tell the other party how high the quality of your product is, how fair it is, in order to attract people to buy this kind of product. Similarly, when looking for a job, it is important to focus on "I am truly capable of doing this job, and my requirements are very reasonable". Be sure to learn to market yourself so that others will recognize and hire you.

It's okay, just don't worry too much.

In fact, you are in a similar mood to someone who has just retired, suddenly idle, and doesn't know what to do. Another difference is that you have to worry about finding your next job. Twenty days without a job, I can't simply say long or short, all I can say is:

You have to always believe that there will always be a suitable job waiting for you, and you need to keep working hard to find it, don't get discouraged, and don't give up. Hard work may not have results, but if you don't work hard, you will definitely not have results!

In addition to continuing to look for a job, you can also take advantage of the rare "holiday" to take a break, go around, relax and not be too nervous. If you feel that you are starting to get bored and in a bad mood, you can talk to a friend, don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't be too depressed, otherwise you may really be depressed

A while ago, one of my brothers was fired by the company, and he was also very depressed, he still has to support his family, and he will definitely not succeed without a job. Now I've got a good job, and I'm doing a good job.

This shows that you are too lonely alone, get married, raise children, you will not feel meaningless... Don't tell me I don't have money to get married, I don't have money to raise children. Isn't that how my parents came back in the first place?

This is mild depression and requires a correct state of mind.