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The only thing you have to do is go out and relax yourself, boost your own guts, and get out and meet more friends!
What are you afraid of? Will someone laugh at you, or bully you, or whatever? What kind of psychology do you not want to meet people?
In fact, life will tell you silently many times that you are not as important as you imagined, and the eyes of the people around you will not always follow you!
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Learning is a good thing, it's up to you, don't regret the path you choose, you mentioned that you are afraid of living with strangers, this is also a very normal thing, I have been very timid since I was a child, and the time when I just went out is the same as you, I have been out for a year, and now many things can be let go, in fact, there is nothing, don't think about others very bad contact, are not credible, this is not a way. Each one is not as you think. If you don't take the first step, then you can say that you will never make progress,,, friends hope that you can make a good choice, take the first step to be afraid of strangers, and give you courage!
Friends wish you happiness and joy!
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No matter what, you have to face the future, people in the society is to deal with people, then naturally you have to exercise your ability in this area, if you always run away from it, then what to do when you work in the future? So how can you survive? I suggest that you can learn a computer professional technology, I am here in Chongqing, only know more about the school here, I know that Chongqing Weixun, is a professional computer software development technology, after learning will recommend a job, and the way of learning there is different from the way of learning academic education, the management method is semi-enterprise management, so that you can exercise the student's adaptability, will definitely exercise for you, you can go to understand it.
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You don't have a job? It should be annoying at work, please don't be discouraged, because everyone is already happy in this world, think more about doing more things about your own happiness, remember that the most important thing is to smile, to smile.
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a) ...... at this moment
What am I bothered about? I'm annoyed, and it's really helpless to change jobs. I changed to a poor job, went to a month, didn't have a New Year's red envelope, and I was still very lost in my heart, plus I climbed a big building to work every day, walked into a dirty office, and faced a group of low-quality people, when will this page of life be turned over?
Why is Gome so poor and dilapidated?
Most of the people in Gome are pensioners, people who have been mixed up, one by one, crooked melons and twisted dates, you go to him to coordinate something, he is coaxing, pushing three obstacles and four is not counted, and he is full of shelves. Most of them are immersed in their own three-point sesame officials.
Second, look at the meeting, from top to bottom smoke, copy a large mouthful of Guizhou dialect, roll Bu scolded the mother and flew all over the conference room, it is said that a few people who speak Mandarin are ethnic minorities.
Look at my leader again, drink egg soup, the people below say that he is incompetent, can't grasp the key points in everything, has no assertiveness and sense of innovation, but when something happens, he will only arch out the employees of his own department, but the class ideology is particularly vulgar, the official tone is strong, and there is a popular saying in Gome, "The official big crushes people to death", the fact is like this!
If you continue to do this kind of work, you will have to fall in value, if you don't succeed in changing your eyes after the year, give yourself a year at most!
b) ...... at this moment
What am I bothered about? The New Year is coming, give my mother-in-law 10,000 yuan, there is not much left, last night let Mr. Yang and I go to get money, he showed disgust along the way, I usually use money I am a little extravagant, no budget and moderation, but such a big family, food and clothing, which is not money, not only to raise children but also to support the elderly, in addition to buying a few clothes for myself, what did I buy? To put it mildly, such a family is a drag.
Tired, go to ** to find a place to perch!
c) ...... at this moment
What am I bothering about?
Nested in the bed, thinking a lot of causes and consequences, sometimes no matter how simple things are, I can't figure it out, just like "I have learned a lot of big truths, but I still can't live this life".
I think I'm too cowardly. When encountering things, I always lack a sense of security and confidence, and even retreat, I dare not face it, such as starting a business, always looking left and right, not daring to start, and wanting to live a stable life, and now it has become like this.
I think my willpower is too weak. spent more than 10,000 yuan to apply for the graduate school entrance examination, the process was as slow as a snail, and now I am still memorizing words, wasting time, and in the end I was wasted by time......
I watched "The Plan of a Life" before, the direction and goal have been found, that is, to persistently persevere, although it is difficult, but taking a step back is the abyss, where should I go in my thirties?
Next, fight inertia, fight inertia, fight inertia!
4) The past days have passed, grasp the present, in order to change the status quo, with diligence, with early risen, with courage, with persistence to weave the desired future.
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Troubles are brought by others.
Happiness is found by yourself.
Happiness is also a day.
Pain is also a day.
Why don't you be happy, happy, and happy to live each one.
Sky. Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how to make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain.
What about getting up? I think true happiness comes from the realization of pain, because you can't feel happiness in a life without pain, we only have.
Facing it correctly, analyzing it rationally, affirming that we should affirm can negate what should be denied, only in this way can we learn to give up and understand.
You have to cherish it, in order to remember what you should remember, to forget what you should forget, to analyze the pain in life, and to make it a kind of wealth and a period of your life.
Experience, a memory, a realization instead of pain, so that we can calmly look at the past, open life, happy life, no regrets life, life can be truly happy, not to escape and cover up, let alone force joy. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape. Do what you love, listen to **, go out for a walk and look outside.
The sky, in fact, is also full of comfort. It's fun to hang out with friends and talk to each other. In fact, everyone has their own problems to face, and.
The troubles in life always seem to be with you, whether you think about it or not, the days still pass day by day, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, people must learn to adjust their mentality, or use a psychological suggestion to make themselves happy, you can say it out loud to yourself.
I'm really happy, I'm really happy, I'm really, really happy, why not, think about what you have, what others don't, be content and happy.
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The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.
Even if you go on like this.
Not to mention that there will be no good results.
Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.
Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.
At the very least, you have to get the approval, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it.
It just takes a while to forget.
To let go. If you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well?
Yes, every truth is difficult to do.
Maybe it's easier said than done.
But all I can say is.
If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?
Maybe I was like you in the past.
Time really can change everything.
Learn to be strong.
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Troubles are brought by others.
Happiness is found by yourself.
Happiness is also a day.
Pain is also a day.
Why not be happy, happy, and happy to live each day.
Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how to make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain.
This? I think true happiness comes from the realization of pain, because you can't feel happiness in life without pain, we can only be right.
Only in this way can we learn to give up, to know how to cherish, to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, to analyze the pain in life, and to make it a kind of wealth, an experience, and a part of your life.
Memories, a realization rather than pain, so that we can look at the past calmly, live openly, live happily, live without regrets, and only then can life be true.
Positive happiness, not evasion and disguise, let alone forced joy. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to run away from me.
We can be sad, but we must not indulge and run away. Do what you like to do, listen to **, go out for a walk, look at the sky outside, it's actually full.
Cozy. It's fun to hang out with friends and talk to each other. In fact, everyone has their own problems to face, and the troubles in life are good.
Like always with you, whether you want to open it or not, the days still pass day by day, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, people must learn to adjust their mentality, or use a psychological suggestion to make themselves happy, you can say loudly to yourself:
I'm really happy with me.
It's really pleasant, I'm really, really happy, why not, think about what you have, what others don't, and be content and happy.
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We live in this complex, impetuous and materialistic society, and we will inevitably have such and such troubles and exhaustion, which may be life!! So we should think about it, how can we be happy if there are no troubles??? It's just that when you are worried, you must learn to self-regulate and learn to release your boredom and tired emotions!!
It is recommended that you go out for a trip and change to a new environment, which is easy to let yourself jump out of the original environment and circle, easy to release your mind, easy to open your mind, and naturally calm down when thinking about problems;
2. Find good friends to get together, drink and chat, and vent your depressed mood through alcohol, which is also a way of catharsis;
3. Find an exercise to do and persist for a period of time, so that your heart can temporarily forget everything, immerse yourself in sports, and divert your attention, so that it is easier for you to see your own situation more clearly and make correct judgments;
4. Of course, you can also find someone who no one shouts loudly, which may also release your mood;
Of course, everyone's situation is different, and I hope you can find a good adjustment method according to your own situation!!
Finally, I wish you a happy !!
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Hello, a bad mood is generally a matter of mind, everything is born from the heart, in fact, you know what you are bothering about, if you have something on your mind, you can communicate with your friends or relatives who are worth it, listen to other people's suggestions and views, from which you may be able to give you inspiration, this may be a solution to the problem, and do something that interests you to divert your attention, it is also helpful to relieve the troubles of the mood, and your understanding of things is the best medicine for troubles. In terms of entertainment, you can go online to play some games, but you can't indulge in it, you can also watch sketches, comedies, listen to **, sing, go shopping, shopping. Tomorrow is a Saturday and Sunday, it is recommended not to stay at home during the day, first put your troubles aside, make an appointment with a good friend to go outside for a walk and play, breathe fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, I believe that you will come back to feel different, I really can't stand it and can also take some healthy ways to vent, such as asking a good friend to go to the song hall to sing, you can go to a place where no one screams a few times, or cry bitterly.
Open your heart and be original.
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When I dig into my troubles, it's boxing, and I shout it out loud, shouting out all the bad luck and depression, and venting it well. Just in case you try it too! It's very effective!
But I also know that chatting is the best medical treatment, you might as well find a friend of the opposite sex or your best friend to play and talk, speak out loudly and bravely, don't want to scold people's scattered gods, and don't curse the troublesome things, you can also shout out loudly in an open place, and shout out all the sadness and troubles in your body, so that you will feel really relaxed and comfortable.
Actually, let's put it bluntly! It's best to find someone to talk to to you, pour out all the things you want to say, the unhappy, and the annoyance, so that you will feel that there is really nothing left, don't think about it anymore, it's all history, why do you want to do this! Isn't it?
It's you who makes you change your heart, be an optimist, is there anything that can make you unhappy?
Well, isn't it? So, say it, shout it, you don't have to play, you don't have to listen to songs, it's just to talk, to say everything that is in your heart...
Depression is not a disease, the main thing is how you get out. It's up to you to choose!
Hope you are happy! Be an optimist.
May you be happy and happy every day friends!
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