The art of language, the art of speaking appreciation of famous sentences as spoken by celebrities

Elegant speech is an art, and good expression skills can promote people's career and social development in a better direction. The art of conversation can help you open people's hearts, soften people's will, make you an object of interest in all kinds of situations, make you comfortable in social situations, bring you customers, and have a regular partner. But the "art of talking" is not as simple as it seems, and many people are troubled by the fact that they can't "talk", even if they are eager to say what is in their hearts, but they just can't express it properly.

In fact, people who usually don't express themselves are often because they lack ideas and don't have dry goods in their heads, so they lead to a situation of "having nothing to say". If you want to improve your ability to express yourself, you must first enrich your mind. So how do you quickly fill your mind?

The American poet Longfellow once proposed: "Every day read some good **, listen to a beautiful **, or read a famous poem." Set aside half an hour or an hour a day to read a book, and stick to it like this for a year, and you will have a spark of thought bursting out of your mind all the time, and the usual accumulation has become a treasure that even you will be amazed.

In other words, we can enrich our minds through study, through art and books. In addition, the author also gives us several conversations to avoid that readers can use as references: 1:

During conversations, try to avoid talking about yourself, and don't talk about your career and social circle. Two: Don't talk about your pain and grief casually, say as little as possible, no one will be interested in your pain, people will only be impatient with your frequent complaints.

Three: Try to avoid talking about family trivialities and relationships with your servants. Four:

Don't talk about serious religious topics in public social settings. Five: In conversation, don't have too strong "self-awareness", the so-called self-consciousness is to show yourself everywhere, blindly showing off, falsely confidant, and boasting are the most disgusting.

In addition to being able to chat, listening is also an esoteric art. There's nothing more pleasing to someone than to let him know that you're listening to him with great interest and interest. And being a good listener is second only to being a good talk artist.

So while learning the art of talking, learn to listen.

1. Speech is the most effective prescription used by human beings. —Kipling, "Speech."

2. Silent expressions have five times the communicative effect of spoken speech. ——Wang Fuxiang, "The Mysterious Language of the Human Body".

3. The eagle stands like sleep, and the tiger walks like a disease, which is exactly the way he grabs people and eats people. Therefore, a gentleman must be smart and talented, so that he can have the strength to shoulder the throne. - Hong Yingming's "Caigen Tan".

4. To convince people, a word is often more effective than **. —Democritus, Fragments of Writings

5. Language, by its very nature, is a public thing. —Hume, Meditations

6. Thinking is my infinite kingdom, and words are my winged props - Schiller's "Essays".

7. To a person who has an opposing opinion, it is necessary to speak modestly and tactfully. Otherwise, it is like sprinkling salt into a wound, which will deepen his preconceived notions. —F. Bacon, On Life, On Speed

8. Being able to spit out a proverb is a comfort. A roar is a comfort for a wolf, wool is a comfort for a sheep, a white-cheeked bird is a comfort for the forest, love is a comfort for a woman, and Proverbs is a comfort for a philosopher. - Hugo, "The Smiling Man".

9. Your rhetoric is enough to reveal your emptiness and weakness to those who know you. —Shakespeare, Henry VIII

10. A lie that settles things is better than a truth that tells the truth. - Sadie, The Rose Garden

11. The secret to being an annoying person is to tell others everything. —Voltaire, Seven Speeches on Poetry Above Mankind

If you speak from the heart, you can penetrate into people's hearts. — The Nizami language belongs to one era, and the ideas belong to many ages. - The Karamsin controversy is the best catalyst for ideas. - Pavlov.

Words are supposed to be servants of thought, but they often become masters of thought. - The state of mind revealed by Krulau's tongue is no less than the state of mind that is revealed. - Colton is better to speak thoughtfully than to be eloquent, and appropriate is better than to compliment.

There is only one way for Bacon to be a good rhetorical person, and that is to learn to listen to others. - Morris.

It is better to speak thoughtfully than to be eloquent, and to use appropriate words rather than compliments.