I think I m a strong man, I guess I have a limited IQ, and now I feel like I m committing suicide

You go for a walk in nature, look at the flowers and plants, there are very beautiful roses, jasmine, but there are also those inconspicuous flowers, even dogtail grass, they have never lived with inferiority, never ask why I am not a rose, because they will not compare, so the happiness of life is those who do not put pressure on their thoughts, are those who do not compare with others, of course, I am not saying, forget it, you don't want to study, it is not that you have to rely on college, in fact, many college students are not necessarily powerful people, I'm talking about you have to adjust your mentality first, whether you go to college or not, it doesn't matter, the key is to do anything, just do your best to do it, what the result is, it doesn't matter, maybe in the end, I didn't become a scientist, I didn't become the ideal person, but I worked hard, so I don't regret it! My life is not meaningless, when I don't compare myself with others in the process of pursuit, I am enjoying my pursuit, learning, not letting my pursuit, learning become my pressure, pain, and even despair of life, so let go of comparison, be true to yourself, you will be happy, the hurt of the people around you is a fact, but to learn to forget, learning to forget is also a blessing.

First of all, don't think that you are a strongman, no one wants you to be a strongman.

As long as you can be an ordinary person, your family and friends will be happy.

Secondly, your current predicament is not the most miserable, and there are many people who are worse than you.

You're just hitting a low point in your life right now, and it's good to cross it.

What you need most right now is a friend, and confiding in a friend about your predicament may ease your pain.

Reorient yourself to rediscover the joy of life.

Does it work for you to commit suicide? What else is a waste of your father's money, if you have learned something, it is not a waste, it is a return on investment! Your aunt said that if you are not a college student, you are not as good as shit, so didn't Bill Gates also graduated from college? Clinton still failed the exam.

Believe that you are the truth, and treat other people's words as shit!

You are a very strong man, but the heart is very fragile, you hope that you can achieve something to repay your parents shows that you are a filial person, but have you ever thought that if you choose an extreme way to solve the problem, it will bring more harm to your parents, relatives, friends, 18 years old is still very young, the road ahead is still very long, the world is not like your aunt said that you are useless if you don't go to school, many successful people are not necessarily graduates of famous universities, of course, I don't mean that knowledge is uselessI have been teaching myself programming some time ago, many times I wanted to give up, but I stood up again and again, I am currently working as the head of the engineering department in a company, and I am a college graduate, it is the kind of 3rd rate junior college, the reason why I have today is all self-study, I believe you can succeed!

Fuck, brother, lower your requirements and understand that people's minds are complex, and when the people around you are demanding of themselves, you will feel that you have no interest and no face. Even when you are beyond your means, you blame yourself.

Lower your demands on yourself and your extravagant hopes for the future.

Find out what you need right now and go for it.

Even if you can only use 2 years to get back a little sense of accomplishment and strong self-confidence, and you can't make a lot of money, that's nothing!!

To hell with what others think!!

I was born to be useful. Everyone has their own specialty, but you may not have noticed it. Don't go to school? Bill. Gates University didn't finish and dropped out, how is it now? There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, I am still young now, and there are many things I can do.

It can be seen from your words that you are not afraid of death, since you are not afraid of death, are you afraid of others insulting you? Get out of those sensitive self-esteem, because no one can really not be afraid of death, but you are not afraid, then you can put this part of the courage on changing yourself, academic qualifications do not represent ability, and literary reviews do not represent level. What you have to do now is how to make yourself believe in yourself, and if you do that, you won't have the same thoughts as you do now.

Then there is the fact that suicide hurts, although you are not afraid of death, it does not mean that you are not afraid of pain.

Everyone starts to debut in society, they feel like they are nothing, but after a few years, it would be good to have a little work experience and technology, and people will be confident. I also felt the same way as you, but after working hard, I can live a good life now, and my feeling is that an offensive life is a happy life. It's best to start working and don't care about any work, and if you have a job, you will improve.

I wish you a speedy return to your confident life.

I can feel your pain, I'm 19 years old now, I'm a girl, my experience is similar to yours, it's a long-term accumulation, probably from elementary school, I began to be autistic, I can't remember the experience of elementary school, most of them are painful memories, but my grades are about the same, and then I went to a good middle school, autism became more and more serious, loneliness seems to have become synonymous with me, I rarely communicate with people, I don't know how to speak, I don't know how to speak, At that time, I thought that running would relieve me, and I ran and ran as hard as I could, until I felt that I was still very lonely, and I didn't have any friends, because I was weird and didn't talk. I don't know how I was inexplicably admitted to high school, I didn't think high school would change, I'm used to being lonely, I rarely communicate with people, and I rarely look at others, I'm just like a zombie repeating what I should do, and few people make me friends, because I don't have any interest at all, wood, sluggish that state is like my shadow, but I have tried, but more of a failure and different from others, which makes me feel extremely inferior and hopeless. I often think that maybe I came to this world as a scourge, not only to help my parents, but to harm my parents for our free work, but this is how I still live in this world.

But I still haven't given up on myself, I have to fight against my own broken life track and broken life character in the way I use, I try to make myself happy, try to reduce tension and pressure, sometimes I play Yu Chong, find myself helpless and desperate, but I am still at the age of flowers, there are still many things I can enjoy, and there are many happiness waiting for me, low IQ and low emotional intelligence, this is a fact. Admittedly, but can this be a reason to die? At least we can still think, and we can change this damn inferiority complex on our own, and we can rewrite our own destiny book.

Unlike those low-level animals, such as pigs, they can only accept to eat delicious food, and then wait for death, no matter how hard they struggle, they can't change it. You must know that when you are having a hard time, you must learn to save yourself, and you can try any way. And there is a famous sentence that says:

Heaven will descend on a great task, and it will suffer its mind, strain its muscles and bones, starve its body and skin, empty its body, and act in chaos as a Buddha, so it will benefit it from what it cannot. Isn't living in the world about accepting pressure, pain, and hurt, and then actively alleviating the damn heavy burden one after another.

The time for posting has now passed.

For nearly ten years, I hope you have become a mother and your family is happy and healthy!

Then I'm going to talk about the inner monologue now, after reading it, I really think that you are a good girl who is both filial and kind and brave and hardworking. I'm as low IQ and EQ as yours, and I'm a boy. has no education, no friends, no love, and has been ridiculed a lot since I was a child.

Every time I work hard, I still have poor results, and how can I work in the future to make money and go out. If you can't do a good job, change what you're interested in, and if you can't do it well, if you can't do it, then you will stick to it until the meeting, and if you can't do it, you will be forced to make a living and do some simple jobs, the kind that works hard. As long as you have an income, you can find a hobby, such as **, language, calligraphy, sports, my sister remember, we came to the world to enjoy life, live, don't be afraid of us.

In fact, I used to be too, like an ugly duckling, I never knew how to put it away freely, and I would only drift with the flow. I worked hard to learn to dance, but I was always half a beat slower than ordinary people, and even I put more effort than others, but it was just an empty joy.

I'm also often forgetful, and I don't remember what I did a second ago......

But I felt a sense of pride in literature, it gave me a sense of accomplishment that I had never felt before, and I knew it was the only talent I could put on the table.

My science studies were also miserable, and I often spent a lot of energy just failing (I won't tell you that I used to have only a few points in science) and I worked very hard.

First of all, I want to say that you are not confident, I have been hit by others to say that my IQ and EQ are low, maybe others joked, but at the time it was a little sad It may have really hit my heart, saying that I have low EQ, even if it is, IQ has also declined, maybe this has something to do with personal experience, no matter where I go, I feel taken care of, so the idea may be simpler, but I think as long as my family is happy and healthy, these negative words may affect my mood, but I don't care, as long as I have paid, even if there is no gain, at least I have worked hard, although I am a little confused now, but it is very comfortable, because I can work in my hometown and be next to my family, people need more companionship to live, not to let the family worry about you.

As a boy, I am in a similar situation to you, and I have to carry my family and career. I'm not pushing myself through it yet. At the moment, I am still living a hot life.

I have realized that my EQ and IQ are low, and I have not yet come out of the shadow of inferiority. Some lazy habits have also come up. I want to kill myself, too.

It's so modest to be able to go to college and say that you have a low IQ.

I have the same problem as you, IQ and EQ are low and very inferior, the worst thing is that I got married and gave birth to two daughters, and the relationship with my in-laws is very bad, and my husband also loves to ignore it all day long, I want to divorce and I am reluctant to have children, because of my inferiority complex and cowardice, I have not achieved anything in my life, I am particularly painful, I always feel that I am particularly useless, I think of my children and feel sorry for my children, I don't know what to do.

I think at least a third of the smart people earn through hard work. That's what he cares about, isn't he originally a genius boy, patronizing himself and feeling that he was a genius, and later he became no different from everyone else. Is the Mensa test as authoritative as it is?

I haven't heard of it, it's a little familiar) You can feel how you normally feel. If you feel that you are not smart enough, it is always some of your personal observations, and there is a part of it (not excluding the part of the prejudice that has an inferiority complex), and if you improve this part, you will become smarter. It's enough to be satisfied with yourself, as for being smarter than what?

There is always someone who is smarter than you, better at and harder than you, and there is always someone who is smarter and harder than you are in some way. Learning is good, the natural high IQ is a minority, smart people can also be "surpassed", although there are few all-rounders in morality, intelligence, physical beauty, and beauty, they can also be achieved step by step.

Low self-esteem is sometimes a sign of incompetence. Okay, so let's admit you're stupid. "Comparison" refers to a higher IQ than you are satisfied with.

There's nothing wrong with being stupid.,It's fun to be stupid.,Fat cats or something.,Aren't there a lot of them.。 Be open-minded. Depression can also affect your IQ, comrade.

Hapi Hapi, be happy, have pursuits, and be smart is a matter of time

I feel that those IQ tests are too virtual, is that what you think in your heart?

Do you feel worse than others? There is a saying that the stupid bird flies first, you have shortcomings, don't you have your own advantages?

Mensa members can solve intellectual problems, anyone can become Einstein, I feel like you are not confident.

I suggest that you communicate with people more, exercise your social skills, meet all kinds of people, and you will definitely find your strengths.

What does a high or low IQ prove? That bullshit test doesn't prove anything, the computer IQ is high, right? Will it think?

Will you cry? Will you laugh? Can I eat?

Can you walk? Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, don't slander yourself, just believe in yourself, you are you, you don't need to prove anything.

4 tops, first of all, if it's one, the first time the person turns off the light, he will slap himself, because everyone else is a white hat, and the pit must be his black hat.

If it is 2, then the person who turns off the light and wears a black hat for the first time finds that another person wearing a black hat does not slap himself, indicating that there are 2 black hats, and the second black hat must be on his head, if it is 3 The first time, the second time no one slapped himself, he will understand that there are 3, and if he only sees 2 on other people's heads, then the third must be on his head, so the third time the lights are turned off, someone will slap himself.

So if you turn off the lights for the fourth time, it's 4 tops.