Hurry, hurry! How do you convince a high school student to go back to school?

He's still around, right? If yes, then thankfully! Such a boy must have a strong self-esteem, and he is reluctant to go back probably for fear of losing face, but how can he let others know about this, he can only be strong.

However, there should be friends who make him so "persistent" to cheer him up, either directly by inducement or by unwitting envy - there are almost no students nowadays who really love to learn! With these mixed school dropouts acting around them, they're just feasting their eyes! In short, the negative impact of classmates and friends cannot be ignored!!

He should ignore his parents now and get angry at every turn, right? Because the parents are very anxious, the act of persuasion will also be intensified into the result of anger and anger, and there is an urge to beat him, but he can't bear it, so that he beats himself, blames himself, and cries bitterly, but he seems to be indifferent, so the parents are desperate and ......I think this situation should have happened, first of all, please believe that the child will be sad, but he will not tell you his thoughts, because your reproach will make him feel a kind of loneliness and pain that the closest people are far away from him! Believe there must be something that can't convince him to go back to school!

This may be the reason of the parents themselves, but please believe that the possibility of this situation is very small, and most of them may be angry outside and have to sprinkle it on the parents, so please think carefully and don't make mistakes in yourself! Instead, you should stand on the same side as your child, and believe that he needs you! Even if he has a strong mouth and hard teeth.

However, please don't blindly persuade him now, it will be in vain, and it will not break your relationship, even to the point of no return!

At this time, parents should take a step forward, do not quarrel with the child senselessly, what you have to do is to accept him now, whether he is willing to return to school or not, the acceptance of parents is the greatest forgiveness and care for the child, because he is in the most depressed period! No matter how many friends he has, if he doesn't have the acceptance of his family, he's still lonely (attention!). He will not show it, even deceive himself!

The way to accept him is not good words, but ordinary but caring homely words, as long as the child is steadfast, the goal has been achieved! This is done to take the next step to understand the reasons why your child is dropping out of school, and why they are reluctant to go back to school. Because only when the child's heart is calm will he say what he wants to say to his parents for a long time.

That's when you can really understand his mind, and you're halfway there. The other half is to find a solution to his problem with him, so that he has no scruples, at this time, you persuade him to return to school, the chances of success will be much greater!

All in all, what I want to tell you is: please stop blindly doing the persuasion work that anyone can do, otherwise you will isolate him, accept him from the bottom of your heart, and stand on the same front with him, and work together to overcome the problems that have always plagued him!

Easier said than done! Please also ask parents to make more concessions, remember that the goal is to persuade their children to return to school! I wish you all success!!

Scolding is probably the best way to solve the problem...Let him deeply realize that he doesn't read....What an impact it has on myself and my family...People can't be so selfish....If you don't want to study, you won't study....Is it that the family sees that you are so depraved and doesn't want to support you, so they can't support you...Of course not....Because it's the family's responsibility to you....And reading is also your responsibility to give back to your parents!

See if he doesn't want to study, has conflicts with his classmates or teachers, or simply wants to play. Let's talk about the necessity of working in the future, and then talk about the importance of academic qualifications in work, so that he can take care of him and care more about him.

Move with affection, know with reason. If that doesn't work, violence is also a solution to the problem, but it's not too much in favor.

Let him go out to work, or let him work, when he is tired, he will want to study, and he will be several times more serious than before! I have a friend who dropped out of school in the second year of junior high school, and was later called to work in the field to do farm work, and after working for less than a week, he wanted to go back to school, and he was several times more serious than the first year of junior high school, and I heard that the score of the high school entrance examination was quite high! It's a good idea, you can try it, and I wish you success.

First find out the reason why he is reluctant to go to school--- if he just does not want to study, it is because he does not see the usefulness of knowledge, and does not feel that he is in the midst of blessings and does not know blessings. Let him go to the poor mountainous areas and orphanages--- let him learn to cherish and be grateful. He himself knows how to do it.

Of course – the first thing you have to do is to be his friend, make him approve of what you say, and make him think you're right. Otherwise, he is very rebellious, and it is useless for you to kill him.

I'm just a high school student, in fact, you don't have to say anything, but you think you're annoying if you talk too much You first ask him what he thinks If he wants to go out to work or something, then you let him go Find him the kind of job that is the most tiring and hard, and doesn't earn a lot When he can't stand it, he will think about his future and think about what he wants It turns out that our classmates are the same as him, but he came back not long after he went out, and he has changed a lot, and now he is studying very hard

Aren't you usually too arrogant, you're from the city, right? He should be allowed to endure some hardships, such as finding a part-time job at a construction site, letting him experience the hardships of the working people, and then letting him see the living conditions of the civil servants in the office. Tell him that the current society has no culture, and can only survive by physical strength.

Is it going to school or. Trust him to make an informed choice. Break a leg!!

Then you must know why he doesn't go to school, don't say too much to him, give him more care, understand the basic dynamics of his heart, and you can also understand his current environment

1.It's been two months since I dropped out of school, and to tell the truth, it's really hard to persuade me to go back to school. In fact, I think it's not necessarily a high school, the university entrance examination is the way out, if the child likes it, he can learn something else, go to a technical school or contact the society in advance (provided that the adult has to be correctly guided, don't blindly let him go out to contact), it is a good way.

2.If the child's grades were originally good, but he was a little tired of school. Then it is up to the parents to talk hard, and enlightenment is the best way.

I'm a boy, college student.

I'm not here to ask you this question for any purpose, such as getting bounty points, etc.

Remind you to think carefully about the future of this child.

If his personality is like that, and you force him to go back to school, will his heart be there? Will he be happy?

There are many ways out, even if he finishes high school, will he continue to go to college?

Talk to him, make friends, ask him what he thinks, discuss together, the road is step by step, the wonderful life is lived out by yourself, you can persuade him, you can mediate, but you can't force him back.

If I told him about the difficulties of today's employment and the hardships of his parents, I think it will be fine, mainly because of his ideological work

I think if he goes out and suffers, he will naturally know the importance of reading.

Throw it to Shanxi and Guizhou to dig coal for a few months, and he knows why the flowers are so red.

It's hard to say how you don't want to say it, so let him be

Let him see this post of yours and let him know what people think of his behavior!

Get straight to the point, tell your parents what you think, and tell them about the current form, so that they know that going back to school is necessary.

Personally, I think that there are some things that you can't learn in school, and that's called social practice, and if possible, you can also choose to learn by yourself. )

Let's just say that going back to school will be very helpful for my future development.

In the future, when you have a chance, you can let your parents live a good life.

said that studying is for his own future, and also for his parents to get the rest of their lives.

It is said that the diploma is not enough, you need to deepen the exercise, and it is difficult to find a job if the diploma is low.

What did you graduate from? High school? University?

You can't be impetuous in learning.

Show your determination and trust your parents to help you.

I think you can actually live on campus for two years, and then do an extra house in the third year of high school, or at least live for a year in the first year of high school, and then not live in the second year of high school. You just don't like the accommodation right now, so you don't want to live there, but the university must live in the dormitory, so you must use this opportunity to force yourself to adapt to the accommodation, even if you don't like the accommodation, there is only the good and the bad is not bad, and it will make you focus on your studies and be nervous. If you go to school, you can easily get distracted by things on the street or at home.

One thing I want to tell you is that all high school accommodation conditions are very difficult, and the ones you mentioned are also in our high school, and the same is true for the dormitory, so don't be mentally unbalanced. But I suggest that you do a dormitory in the third year of high school, our side is basically all the first year of high school students to live in the dormitory, the second year of high school will have a few people who do not live, and there is basically no accommodation in the third year of high school, and the whole class adds up to less than one dormitory. The situation that your father said is too absolute, biased, the third year of high school is already tense academically, at this time you are not easy to be disturbed by things outside, doing a dormitory will not make people worse, in the third year of high school, our teachers have advised us not to stay, parents rent a house next to the school to accompany the study, the most important thing is to supplement your nutrition, the food cooked by parents is definitely better than the school cafeteria, and you can also urge you to study, the pressure of learning in the third year of high school needs the company of parents.

And it's more convenient for you to live nearby.

I'm afraid of heights, and I feel dizzy when I look down from the balcony on the third floor.

But I've been to bungee jumping 100 meters high... Although the legs have been shaking afterwards!

Therefore, there is a reason for his existence in life, and since we cannot stop it, then try to do it according to our own wishes, to dominate, to control.

However, since you have thought about dying and proving that you are not afraid of anything, then what are you afraid of in this world?

Are you afraid of bringing happiness to your loved ones? Are you afraid of making new friends?

It's the best time of your life, and despite your anxiety, you've had the most difficult time of your life. Although I am as anxious as you, but I am not as open-minded as you, no one will want to take me to a psychiatric examination, and even say that when I confide in my parents, they will only think that I don't want to learn, or scold, or bring up those old things, my father's brother and sister-in-law, please allow me to call them that, because no one tells me what to call them, but I can't learn from my mother and grandma to call them biaozi, just because they have hurt them, Because my father's brother's daughter once had mental problems, my mother and grandmother have always treated it as a laughing stock, repeating in front of me, I can't bear it, who can live smoothly, who hasn't been able to withstand the pressure and anxiety, is this a mistake, can't this be said, I also want to study hard, but after all, because the pressure is too much to bear, the pressure is okay in the first year of junior high school because I have just entered a new environment, and the second year of junior high school has changed, I will often stay awake all night, and then worry that I will not sleep all night, the more worried I am, the more I can't sleep, so that the new day has not yet begun, I am always thinking about whether I can fall asleep, I grew the first gray hair in my life at a young age, I cry every night, but who knows, the third year of junior high school is the most nervous time, but at this time I have entered the best state, because I learned to relax, learn to be careless, learn to ignore it. But how can life spare me, a year of high school, because I was admitted to a key middle school with top grades, the pressure became greater, so that I fell into different abysses again and again, sometimes I would give up on myself, sleepy before nine o'clock at night, sometimes I would be because of my own incompetence heart beating violently, and because I was worried that I would not be able to listen to the class, it evolved into a quiet mind, in fact, I never thought about the reason, our common reason is that we don't believe in ourselves, too good at reasoning but push ourselves into the abyss, we can't understand the future, so don't ** the future, we don't know ourselves, all we need is self-confidence, believe that we will be able to overcome difficulties, sometimes know how to bear is also a kind of growth, our life is destined to be full of dangers, this buffer is for us to make a better jump next time,,, believe in yourself, we are all talents...

I once thought that one day I could ignore my parents' obstruction, when I really couldn't bear it, stay away from this place, go to the welfare home to be with the children, self-taught, without having to bear the pressure, and I also thought about simply sliding to the last place and then experiencing the feeling of chasing everyone, but I don't have the capital, so I said that you are really blessed, you can slow down the pace of life and experience the scenery that you have never seen. Believe in yourself and I believe in you, and we work together ... fighting！

Dear, I am also a high school student, I sympathize with you, your illness needs your own treatment, you are currently very afraid and anxious, listen to more soothing songs, relax and go to another place for a walk, communicate more with your family and classmates, they will help you, you want to open your own heart, and your heart window is also lit Come on.