How to communicate effectively with a 6 year old

How to communicate with children is a common problem for all parents at present, and the following will tell you how to communicate effectively with children.

In general, effective parent-child communication is based on empathetic communication, tolerant understanding, and unconditional acceptance. Many parents do not express their love and care correctly because of their relationship with their parents, resulting in the same "copying" of their children's education. This is not desirable, we should try to break through, try to change.

Children are little angels given by God to parents, there are no unkind children, and there is absolutely no parent who does not love children. However, parents are not early to go through the "training" of Lu Di to take up the post, we need to summarize in the reflection, in the summary to try the communication method suitable for their children.

Individual parents are stricter, and they themselves are rarely facing up to their own advantages, often blaming themselves for some wrong things they have done, and how can a person who attacks his heart communicate well with his children?

Children love to please their parents and crave their parents' approval. Growing up in a reprimanding family for a long time, the child will often be depressed emotionally, which is not conducive to the child's physical and mental development in the long run, and the child will become habitually hiding his thoughts and suppressing his emotions.

Parents should communicate with their children, praise and praise more, and encourage children to accept their various emotions and be their true selves. Encourage your child to express his inner feelings, not to laugh at him, and to give him respect, support and companionship from the perspective of a friend.

Parents can occasionally "show weakness" to seek help from their children, Sakura finds out the child's progress, and can also ask the child more, "This question mother can't, can you tell the mother how to answer?" If the child can't do it, parents can guide the child to learn with themselves, and this behavior can also make the child feel needed and recognized, and enhance self-confidence. Only by being true to themselves, learning to accept their emotions, and expressing themselves bravely, can parents lead their children, communicate with them benignly, and guide their children's physical and mental health development.

1. When the baby is in the 6-year-old rebellious period, parents should not yell at the child, otherwise it will cause the child's disgust, which will make the child more resistant to what the parents say, and then exacerbate the child's rebellion. Therefore, parents should be patient when facing their children's rebellious period.

2. Parents should not impose their own ideas on their children. Because even if the children are relatively young, they still have their own travel ideas, and sometimes the children are right from their own point of view. Parents need to communicate with their children and put themselves in their shoes in order to understand their children's ideas deeply.

3. Parents should care about their children's lives, otherwise after a long time, children will think that you are dispensable. And when the child reaches the rebellious period, the baby will not take your words seriously at all. Parents should listen more to their children's thoughts, deepen their understanding of their children, and listen more to their children's confiding.

It's best to be friends with your child, so that you can better guide you.