What were boys thinking during the Cold War?

In fact, they didn't think about anything, they just wanted to be calm, they didn't want to talk to women more, they didn't want to talk to women, so they didn't want to talk, and their brains were blank.

It varies from person to person, in fact, the psychological activities of men and women in the Cold War are similar, girls will have male thinking, and boys will also have female thinking, so I actually don't think there is a big gap between men and women in thinking at all. If you care so much about him at that time, instead of having a cold war with him, it is better to talk to him directly, which is the most direct and fast way to break the deadlock and then you get back together.

During the Cold War, most men complained about girls, and they would think: How long do I think this woman can do it? She wouldn't really ignore me, would she?

During the Cold War, what men were thinking about was that they could finally be quiet for a few days, and then apologize after a few days, but what was the reason for the quarrel?

I think every time I admit my mistakes, I have to admit my mistakes even if I am not wrong, this time I will not admit it, killing your sharpness, the big deal is to keep the cold war.

In life, we will find that after a quarrel, men are most afraid of women making noise, and women are most afraid of men being silent. For women, the Cold War is often a harbinger of the disintegration of relationships, and women are the most likely to be cranky during the Cold War, while what will men think about during the Cold War?

If a man feels that it is not his fault, he may be reluctant to accept it for the sake of face, and he feels that if a girl comes to apologize, he will immediately forgive him.

I'm not a man......I really don't know what men are thinking. But I'm standing in this girl's position, I think the cold war of men is actually quite naïve, the reason why women have a cold war with you should be that you are not doing well, you say a few nice words to coax people and girls, and your own women still have to coax themselves.

Personally, I think during the Cold War I would have thought about what had happened, why it had become a Cold War, and whether I should coax her or not.

I feel that whether it is a man or a woman, divorce will hurt a lot. There's no comparison, unless that person hasn't loved each other well at all and hasn't given anything in the relationship. Then, this person will not do any harm.

The only thing he or she can do is hurt others.

My boyfriend said that he didn't think about anything at all when he and I were in the cold war, and went to the Internet café to play games.

Reading guide: The Cold War is a stage that every woman will go through. Women will always vent all their dissatisfaction and emotions on men, and treat men as a good object to vent.

However, men also have their own way of venting. When you encounter a little problem in love, you like the cold war, but what happens later? And what about men?

What do they think?

1. I feel that I haven't done anything wrong, but I was wronged by the other party, and I am trembling with anger and want the other party to apologize to myself.

This kind of person is the most terrifying thing in love. What they fear most is to get into trouble with each other. If two people are together without communication, it will only lead to escalating conflicts.

If this happens, the first thing a man will think of is not that he was wrong, but that he wants the woman to apologize to him. Why is it that I have done something wrong, but I am still wronged by a woman? Do women think men are stupid?

So they will all choose to use the cold war to make women apologize to themselves.

Second, the man is thinking: Maybe, it's useless for me to do this, and I don't want to live with her anymore.

It's not that the man really doesn't want to live with you, he just feels that the relationship between the two of you is not suitable and that you are not good enough. He just thinks it's useless to have a cold war with you, and women won't leave a way out for themselves if they do this. Men want to solve problems and want to solve problems with you.

But if you want to solve the problem, you feel that what you do is useless. I don't even feel the need to take the initiative to argue with you at all. Men do this only to make you unhappy and feel that there is something wrong between you.

So what do you think?

3. The man is an impulsive and irritable person, and he is still thinking about how to save this relationship?

Women are very emotional, and women will also have unconfidence in relationships, so they often stumble on themselves. They themselves know that women are very unfriendly to them in this situation, but they are very eager to have a stable relationship. So he deliberately created some small problems for men to vent.

However, when the man vents his anger on the woman to make trouble, he immediately becomes very irritable and keeps losing his temper with the woman. They will even beat each other.

When two people choose a cold war between couples, most men will want to relax for a while, and want the two people to use distance to produce beauty. Boyfriends want to relax for a while and live with their girlfriends for a long time, because the conflicts between each other will make men unable to realize the importance of girlfriends. Wait until the end of the Cold War to get your girlfriend to apologize to you, and men can relax appropriately during the Cold War for a while, and they can also go out to play with their good friends.

Men in the Cold War Couples in the Cold War, most of the boys want to change a girlfriend, especially when two people quarrel, they will find that their girlfriends are quite unreasonable and want to replace their girlfriends. But before the replacement, he didn't find a suitable next family, so that the boy didn't dare to look for the next one easily, so he could only continue to endure his current girlfriend. Only when he finds a suitable next family, will the man dare to discuss the breakup with his girlfriend wantonly, and if there is no suitable candidate, he will continue to stick with his girlfriend.

The cold war between husband and wife After entering married life, men's thinking will be very different from when they are not married, and the cold war between husband and wife is mostly due to the fact that it is normal for two people to have disputes. As long as there is no divorce because of the Cold War, there is no need to coax your wife. After entering married life, men also realize that they are married to their wives, and their wives will not easily file for divorce because they have children.

As a result, men are reluctant to admit their mistakes to their wives even if they have done something wrong. <>

Things that men are thinkingThe man recalled the bits and pieces of the two getting along during the Cold War, and thought that his wife was obviously very domineering, and he did not apologize to himself for doing something wrong. Men must also be asked to coax their wives, and men are unwilling to compromise for the sake of dignity, and two people can only choose cold violence to solve the problems of two people in a cold war way. When two people in a husband and wife relationship get along, they must reduce the time of the Cold War, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between husband and wife.

They are thinking about when a woman will come to them, give them a step, when they will be able to ease the relationship, and in their hearts they will find the woman annoying.

Men who like the cold war are generally cold-hearted. The reason why he has a cold war with you is that he doesn't care much about your feelings, in other words, he doesn't love you that much. The man in the Cold War wanted the woman to show weakness in order to achieve his goal of controlling the woman.

I think they are all thinking that girls are trouble, and they feel that as long as they are cold enough, girls will not keep making trouble.

<> "What were boys thinking during the Cold War?" In terms of these 4 aspects, there are several common situations.

Emotions and love face.

Some of the choices of boys are rational in most cases, but boys sometimes have emotions, after all, people will have tempers. He may be angry or upset, thinking that you are not doing something right, and wants you to give in and show weakness. Or it is that you know that you are doing something wrong, but you don't want to admit your mistake if you want to save face.

The length of this kind of cold war is related to the degree of persistence of the boys, it may be a day or two, it may be four or five days, but it will definitely not exceed a week.

Guys are rational and don't get emotionally controlled for too long. Therefore, in the various situations of the Cold War, purely because of emotions, only a small part of them.

Escape the problem. The fuse of the Cold War may be a quarrel or a disagreement, but behind this incident there may be some small problems that have accumulated for a long time, and small problems will become big problems if they accumulate too much, such as small things such as being too close to the boy's first answer, not dating on time, etc., he minds in his heart but he doesn't know how to solve it, and he is worried that putting forward opinions will cause greater contradictions.

When you want to solve a problem between you but you don't know how to solve it, you don't know how to speak, and you have a fluke mentality that the other side can make a change, so there will be a cold war.

Grasp the psychology. This kind of boy actually knows very well that the Cold War is not good, and he thinks about things clearly, he wants to pinch you in this way, the reason may be that there is something that you make him unhappy, and he does not change it many times, he wants to use this method to make you worry, let you remember, "give you some color to see".

I want to break up. In the worst-case scenario, he wants to break up, which is rare, unless there is a major conflict between you, such as parents disagreeing, there is a junior, etc. Once this happens, he rationally analyzes that you will not have a good result, but after all, you have feelings, and he is reluctant to say it directly to hurt you, so he uses the cold war method to not contact each other, and in the end this relationship is over.

In any case, the Cold War is a hundred harms and no benefits, pay attention to "under any circumstances", two people together, the most important thing is communication and mutual understanding and tolerance, there are problems to communicate and solve problems, if it can't be solved, just pick it out and say, don't hurt each other in the Cold War.

I would like to give you a suggestion, when there is a contradiction, two people are locked in a room, and no one can go out if they can't reach a consensus, this method can face the contradiction head-on, avoid the accumulation of problems, and is conducive to the long-term stability of the relationship.