Why is it that the bigger you are, the fewer friends you have!

When you grow up, people's personalities, temperaments, and aesthetics will be different. Everyone has their own personality, 'I don't want to change, I just want others to cater to me' this is everyone's idea, so gradually some friends will gradually separate, and then there will be a gap in the heart, not wanting that person to be their friend, they will gradually distance themselves from each other, and some even speak ill of each other. In addition, as I grow older, I will go to different schools, and the good friends I have made in three or four years will soon be separated again, and there will be few people by my side in the end.

If you feel like you have fewer friends, that's fine. Since you can't be friends anymore, don't put yourself in the center of tangled emotions, and in the end it is yourself who will be hurt, and 'giving up' is a good way.

I recommend you two songs, which may be a bit girly, "Hello Tomorrow" and "The Older You Get, the Lonelier You Are", and finally send you two sentences: "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water" and "The feast that will not be dispersed in the world".

Because the bigger you think and do, the busier people are, the less time they have to make friends. After all, human energy is limited.

The older a person gets, the more things they experience, the more they naturally think, and the more they think about other people, and they inevitably have one or another bias about other people, so there is a gap between them, and so the relationship gets worse and worse.

Take more time to contact friends on holidays ** information greetings and q chat is OK, in short, friends should be in contact often.

As we grow older, we have our own worldview and values, and we also take on more and more important responsibilities, and the more we have, the greater the sense of gain and loss, just like being an official, the bigger the official, the greater the scope and interests to be taken into account. But not necessarily, if you treat your friends with sincerity and heart, you will not have fewer and fewer friends.

Because the older you get, the more lonely you become.

When you grow up, you will mature, and then you will be a little scheming, so the older you are, the fewer friends you have.

What's big? Big prostate?

Recently I've been in a depressed state of mind, and the reason for this is because I've noticed that as I've gotten older, I've had fewer and fewer friends, and sometimes I even feel like I don't have any more coincidental friends.

I think back to the days when I was younger, when friends always came together and we enjoyed each other's company all the time. We went to school together, played together, and had countless happy times together. But now, these fond memories seem to exist only in the past, and now, my circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller.

Maybe it's because of my busy schedule, I don't have much time to maintain friendships. Every day is filled with the stress and busyness of work, leaving me with no time for other things. And when I finally had the time, I realized that my friends were not as close as they used to be.

They had their own jobs, families, and circles, and gradually became estranged from me.

On the other hand, I also found myself becoming more and more closed-minded. When I was younger, I was always happy to meet new people and to communicate and share with the Lord. But as I got older, I became more and more reluctant to take the initiative to socialize with people, and even became hostile to social activities.

Not only did I miss out on meeting new people, but I also lost the friendships I already had.

This state of having no friends made me feel very lonely and lost. Friends are our companions on the road of life, we are the ones who share our joys and sorrows, and without friends, life becomes boring. I started to reflect on myself if I should be more socially engaged, to find new friends, or to reconnect with some old friends.

Anyway, I decided to try to change myself, get involved in social activities, and take the initiative to communicate and meet new people. I believe that if I want to, I will be able to find true friends and rebuild that precious friendship. When people reach middle age, it doesn't mean that we can't have friends, but we need to take the initiative to pursue and maintain.

I want to tell myself not to give up the opportunity to find friendship, because friendship is an indispensable and important part of our lives.

As we grow up, we find that as we get older, we become separated from some of our friends and have fewer and fewer friends around us. This is due to the lack of a common language due to the different experiences of friends, the fact that I grew up seeing friendships more thoroughly, and the fact that I interact less with friends as I get older.

1. Friends have different experiences and have less and less common language with each other.

When I was young, I had similar experiences with my friends and had a lot of common language, so I couldn't interact with each other. ......However, as we grow older, different people will have different experiences, which makes the personal situation of friends more and more different, and the common language between each other is less and less, which will eventually make some friends gradually estranged.

2. As you grow older, you have a more thorough understanding of friendship.

When I was young, my understanding of friendship was that good friends had similar interests. ......But as I grow older, my understanding of friendship becomes more and more profound, and I pay more attention to sincere communication in the process of making friends, so that those friends who do not meet my requirements will gradually leave me, and my friends will become less and less.

3. My interactions with friends become less and less as I get older.

When I was young, I had a lot of time and energy to socialize with my friends, so my relationship with my friends was very close. ......But as I get older, I am not as good as before in terms of time and energy, which makes me have less and less contact with my friends, and the relationship between them will gradually fade, and eventually I will break off contact with some friends. ......It is precisely because of the above reasons that we will gradually lose some friends in the process of growing up, resulting in fewer and fewer friends.

This is a common phenomenon, and you don't have to worry too much about it, just go with the flow.

People are always inseparable from friends, more or less, there will be a few friends, in contrast, we will find that when we are not married, there are really a lot of friends, at that time, only Richard wants to be fine, you can eat with friends, go shopping together.

But once you get married, you will find that there are fewer and fewer friends who can be called, and even fewer friends who can be contacted casually, what is the reason?

First, after getting married, there are too many people who can't help themselves, and because they are already married, they will put more feelings and energy on their families. Before we got married, we were relatively free in terms of time, and when we had nothing to do, some friends could just call out and get together. But once you get married and have a family, there is a kind of bondage, especially after having children, there are more bonds, you can't go out if you can't say it, and two friends, if you have time, she will have time before she gets around, when she needs you, you may not have time, in short, the intersection is getting less and less, and because of this reason, the contact between the two people is also less, naturally, and slowly become unfamiliar.

Second, now that communication technology is developed, two people don't need to go out, and they can do face-to-face, but this kind of face-to-face is still not as real as meeting each other, just like saying that couples in a long-distance relationship, even if they call, send messages, and even chat, they are not as good as couples who can meet every day, and come more realistically. Therefore, this kind of communication method also shortens the distance between the two people, making the two people unconsciously become strangers.

Third, there is a very important reason, in fact, it is the same as falling in love, the interaction between friends, but also pay attention to which branch is the right one, like-minded, when they are not married, two people can be said to be equal in strength, but once married, I think there may be a gap in the economy, especially after a few years of marriage, after more than ten years, the gap has gradually opened. Because there is a certain gap in the economic level of the two colors, it also leads to a psychological gap between the two people, or even if two people sit together, they may not have a common language, which leads to the two friends are becoming more and more estranged.

The older people get, the fewer and fewer friends there will be, I believe everyone will have such an experience, but in the end we will also find that although there are fewer and fewer friends, but in the end the rest is also the most worthy of us, sometimes it is really like that, friends do not need too many, to have several, when we have difficulties, when we need them, to be able to help, it is enough.

Because we will meet some like-minded people in every period of growth, but as we grow, our insights, our experiences, our life experiences, we may meet more people. Some people may always be our friends to accompany us to grow up, and some people may be separated and disappeared in the process, and friends are estranged from each other.

Friends are estranged because they look down on the world, and friends are not interesting and do not see, friends, people's hearts can not look directly, if you look directly, you will find that the heart of friends will be incomparably holding Kai power, there is no time to involve the interests of the people will be peaceful, but where interests are involved, friends will begin to calculate, so fortunately will feel, the most tired only more tired, see more between friends, warm and cold, listen to more friends between the world is cold, rather than close to friends but it is better to be alone and comfortable. I'd rather spend more time with my family in my spare time, rather than accompany my friends, friends are completely different from my closest relatives, friends are in the interests of friends, and if they are not there, friends will become friends on paper.

The management of friendship needs to go with the flow, the more people grow up, the more mature they will be, the more they will focus on the family, daily life, will put more spare time and more spare time in the family, and strive to make the life of parents colorful, real friends do not have to operate, still will not let there be a barrage, real friends do not have to deliberately maintain, but when the set order, friends pay, or continue to contribute to friends, real friends will be generous. It's just a pity that the number of real friends is small, and it's difficult to meet friends who are hungry and laughing.

I feel like it's normal to lose some friends as we grow up. People come and go, the tide rises and falls. Some people leave, but there are also new people to meet. There are three reasons for this:

1. The estrangement of friends is due to the indifference to the world, and the communication with friends is boring.

A friend's heart cannot be looked at directly. If you look at it directly, you will find that your friend's heart will be incomparably stronger. If you don't have any interests involved, you will live in peace and stability.

But when it comes to profits, friends will start to think about it. From this, your heart will feel that there is no end. Tired, only more tired.

Willing to accompany friends. Friends are completely different from close relatives. A friend is an interested friend, and a friend is there.

If there is no benefit, friends will become a piece of paper.

Target. 2. The relationship between friends seems to be strong, but it is actually an illusion. The heart is so fragile, if you don't continue to operate, the relationship between friends will gradually drift apart.

Maintaining the relationship between friends is inseparable from eating, drinking and having fun. We need to get together from time to time. However, if time is delayed due to various things and there is no contact for a long time, the feelings between friends will gradually fade.

New Year's holiday greetings, there is no other intersection. After going through the ups and downs of friendship, you will find that the relationship between friends is one of the most realistic relationships in this world. Relationships between friends are not like relationships between close relatives.

Therefore, friends are better than relatives in order to achieve the goal. When friends achieve their goals, they do far less than their loved ones. Friends are sustained by water, and relatives are sustained by blood.

Whenever and wherever it is, blood is thicker than close relatives. Water.

3. The management of friendship needs to go with the flow. The older and more mature a person becomes, the more they will focus on their family. They will spend more of their spare time and energy on their families in their daily lives, and strive to make family life colorful.

True friends don't need to be managed, but they don't leave friendship indifferent. True friends don't need to be deliberately maintained. It's rare to see, and nine times out of ten.

Finally, we must also understand that life is destined to be constantly separated and encountered. When we step into the sparsely populated forest, our lives are destined to alienate us from our former friends. But there must be one of your best friends, who, when you step into the forest, walks at the same pace as you on the other side of the world.

That new friend who is destined to meet you will come to you. Don't neglect the essential elements in your relationship. Treat your closest relatives, if you can do half of it to your fake friends, then, treat your loved ones, you won't waste any effort, and you will even get double the reward.