I can t get married if I have a bad temper, hurry up my problem?

It's relatively easy to marry, fall in love to the bride that period is good convergence, it's difficult to get married and want to live a good life, a bad temper is nothing more than taking yourself too seriously, and you will inevitably behave strongly, a strong woman is the biggest culprit in ruining the family atmosphere (a strong man will no longer be strong when he meets a gentle woman, but on the contrary, it is not possible), a strong woman in the psychological, physiological damage to men is huge, long-term sex can not be harmonious, so that all the emotional foundation will be destroyed.

Not necessarily, because as the saying goes, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, maybe there is such a person who is willing to put up with your temper? It's just that you haven't met it yet, and when you do, you'll believe that there really is such a person.

To tell the truth, there are only singles who can't marry their daughters-in-law, and it's rare to see girls who can't get married. Now that life is very stressful, who can guarantee that everyone is good-tempered? Your bad temper may be because you haven't met someone who makes you good-tempered.

Think about everything for the better, and be happy every day. When a person is happy, his temper will be good, and good luck will come when his temper is good. will slowly find the other half who makes you happy and good-tempered.

Your personality is very impatient, and you think that a short-tempered person can't get married, of course you can get married, but you are too impatient and prone to quarrels.

Men like more gentle women, if you are impatient and irritable, the average man is a little afraid of you, you have to change it, become gentle, there will be a lot of boys like you.

It's a bit hard to marry. If you don't control your temper. So that's it.

No, you have your own little temper that's called personality, who doesn't have your own little emotions, don't be afraid, people who like you have it, good guys.

It has nothing to do with the fact that you can't get married and you have a bad temper. It's just that fate hasn't come yet.

There's no girl who can't get married, that's just what the adults say.

Well, it's hard. Unless you meet a fool.

In fact, human temper needs to be cultivated.

It is not excluded that some people are born with a good temper.

Different cultural environments have different effects on people.

Actually, I'm kind of good-natured.

So I advise you to be still-minded.

Spend more time reading.

It is not for nothing that there is a ** house in the book.

Wait until you've read a lot of books.

You'll find that you've seen a lot through it.

There are a lot of things that don't really need to be angry.

In terms of the big picture.

The universe is vast.

Your anger doesn't make any splashes.

Small.

Your anger can only be indignant.

Putting yourself and the people around you who love you the most out of harm's way.

So actually a lot of things.

There is no need. If you really can't bear it.

Can face the wall.

Imply to yourself "I'm not angry, I'm not angry".

Sometimes when you're angry.

You can't think rationally.

First of all, you must learn to be gentle, don't speak too loudly, a woman who speaks too loudly will not be liked.

A woman doesn't have to be able to go to the hall, but she does have to be able to go to the kitchen. Taking on a little more housework is a traditional Chinese woman's virtue.

Learn to be empathetic and consider the other person's position and point of view in everything.

A bad temper is not innate, it is slowly cultivated through the acquired. In other words, if you have a bad temper, you can slowly become better through your own efforts. Therefore, if you get married, you will definitely get married, but how it will be in the later stage depends on how the girl manages the marriage, and if her temper changes, there will be no problem.

Happiness to all!

Character determines fate, proper restraint learns to transform?! But look at your face and cheekbones, you belong to a strong heart, and people with high lives, please praise and thank you.

Temper can change, but the one who marries you will come. It's just a matter of time.

Find a gentle one who can accept you, this is complementary personalities, as the so-called one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer, then it is in tune!

Lower your value and be an ordinary person.

First, the temper is bai, it is not easy to change it, zhi must first run in and then consider marriage.

Second, you said that the troubles inside don't seem to be your troubles, but the troubles of the other party's parents. Hehe, you're too worried.

Third, marriage must always be loved, love is tolerance, love is responsibility, love is not fear, not following the crowd.

Fourth, don't think about it too much, it's time for your boyfriend to think about it, think about it, and get married again.

Say let you go, you must be reluctant.

du, but, he will do it to you, zhi is just doing it now, what about in the future? In the future, with your version of personality and straight temper, will he develop domestic violence against you? A woman can't just be in love, you regard him as the whole of life, but what about him?

If you can be ruthless, try to let him lose you for a while, this is a test for him, if he will come back to keep you, then you will play a dominant role in this relationship, then, the future will be fine.

I'm in the same situation, he has to do a lot of things and don't make a move.

Du Hu situation, sent his sister to my house to explore the situation, I dao was very angry after knowing, I am a straight person, everything is on the face, his parents said that I am not sensible, unhappy all put on the face, just dismantle the two of us, he also explained to his family at first, and then he told me that he had a quarrel with his family and stopped talking, but you think about it, what will happen in a month, maybe you will reconcile with your family again, after all, the family, there is nothing to do, so what about us? It's definitely a stranger.

There are no good people in Wuhan, let's find another one, if you get married on such a day, you will be divorced in the future.

88 early, find someone who listens to you, but don't get used to being sick in the future, think about him from time to time

A love you copy.

If a man wants to marry you, he won't

If you say that your temper is not good in front of his parents, even if you really have a bad temper, you will not tell his parents but pick up the good ones, so that his parents have a good impression of you If your man does not help you, then you really have to choose to give up Even if you marry you, you will collapse one day.

If you have a bad temper, change it, what else can you do but change yourself? You can't make it possible for their whole family to change to your satisfaction. People who like to be reasonable too much are of course very reasonable, but they can't be reasonable in the family, and if they want to talk about feelings, reasoning will definitely anger people.

If you change yourself and your boyfriend is happy with you, then there will be no problem. It is only natural for children to listen to their parents, because everything that children have today would not have been possible without the hard work and dedication of their parents. If you don't listen to your parents, you are an ungrateful person, do you dare to marry such a person?

In fact, you are dissatisfied with others because you only see the shortcomings of others, and if you look at the strengths of others and your own shortcomings, you will be satisfied.

I feel like I use a child to describe you: "cheap", a wreck you also want cheap bones!

I don't agree with liustone178's words!

People can change, but we also need to see who they are! If you really love him, of course, you can change for him! No one is perfect, and it's normal to have a little bit of your own temper, so you're unique!

You have 2 options:1Thoroughly integrated into his family 2Completely withdraw from him.

It is difficult for a Qing official to cut off the affairs of the family, this is the reason why it is difficult to get along with each other in love. For these home du, there is nothing normal or abnormal

Even if it's not normal, what can you change, falling in love is also a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, you have to think about it, if you are really married, what will his family do to you, how long will you last, it is not as simple as breaking up now, how much do you love your boyfriend, because of love, can you give up everything? Why be too tired to be a woman, you can look at the friends around you, which boyfriend likes it, boyfriend likes it at home, will it be much easier, if you can change something, I wish you success, if you can't change, what will happen to you, the future will be a long time, there is a long time to face his family, you had better think clearly, whether to marry him.

If your man can't protect you, what else do you want him to do?

I think it's good to bring up a problem in person, it's better than saying good things in front of people and saying bad things behind people's backs. It's even worse that way.

This kind of is just an excuse, this kind of person is afraid of being responsible, and he loves his body and feelings less, so he doesn't want to marry.

The words of the people who came over Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is really a matter of two families, and it is super annoying.

Even if you have a deep relationship now, it may change due to all kinds of later powers, but the relationship between your parents and other people's feelings will not change, not to mention that he can't help you talk to you now.

The happiest thing is that the two love each other, and the relationship with the in-laws is still very harmonious, but a bad temper is not good for anything, for the sake of yourself, the temper is still well controlled, as good as possible.

If the family does not agree to marry you, it is you who is bullied

First, you have a bad temper and are difficult to control, so you control it.

Second, their family members are unwilling to accept you, but it has become a fact. Family life is like this, there is no smooth sailing, there is no time when there is no quarrel, I hope you can be a smart and lovely wife, help your man to support this family well, I believe it will do very well, will do it.

Thirdly, your man seems to be a guy who can't make up his mind, so you can only rely on your own ability to defend yourself, your man, and their family.

Fourth, it's really hard to do, but if you want to, everything will be easy.

Fifth, it seems that the troubles you encounter are really tangled with you, and there are a lot of problems written, so do it with your heart.

There's something you talk about

You can tell him that his temper can be changed.

You know your own problems. Is it useful for someone else's advice? It's not that I don't love it, it's not nice to say.

It's just squeamish, what do you really think of others? How many people are together who can stand the squeamishness of others? It's all about making money to support the family, is it possible to threaten others with a breakup?

The world is not alive without you? I know what the problem is, and no one will do it again! Change your stinky temper yourself, you're not a kid anymore!

Otherwise, it will affect you for the rest of your life.

If you can't get along, you can't get together, don't both of you collapse, first of all, you must understand whether you can solve the problem that you can't solve, whether you can consider whether you can give everything, if both people are selfish and can't do it, then you really can't see the future!

You can't say that, you have a bad character.

Not necessarily, it should be said that the personality is strong.

Stick to what you believe in, and it's not easy to compromise.

The one who marries out should be improvised, and he can't find it.

What you like, will lower the standard.

And those who can't marry are unwilling to lower their standards.

Definitely not.

That's just the way it goes.

It is also possible that the older leftover women are too good.

So that's left.

It doesn't mean that you have a bad personality.

This statement is too absolute.

This is not right. There are good and bad. It's your choice. Everyone has their own way of life, and they don't care about what they think or say.

Marriage is not a matter of urgency, fate has not yet arrived. Those who adopt will make a fortune.

Xiahoudun, Bian Jiang, Xu Chu, Teng Xin, Xu Huang, Teng Xin, Sima Yi, Bai Tao.

Your question is very realistic, just like in reality.

Du no matter how honest the male zhi people can't find a partner, dao, but those scumbags are changing versions of women such as power.

It's as simple as changing clothes, and those deceived women have to say that there is no good man in the world in the end, and honest men can only lie down inexplicably. Girls with bad personalities can marry even if they are ugly, because now there are more men and fewer women, and girls are very sought-after. Having said that, even if a person with a bad personality gets married, it is useless, because the divorce rate has been rising every year since the reform and opening up in the seventies.

Everyone has their own personality, only the right person is important to choose the right person, the most important factor for two people to get along for a long time is the right personality. Many people who break up in love basically say that their personalities are incompatible, this is not an excuse, how can the two really have suitable personalities? The key is that everyone's living environment is different, and it is really difficult to find the right personality, and the key is whether they can tolerate and understand each other.

Good luck!

Anything can happen, but people with good hearts are the most beautiful.

In the eyes of a lover, a bad woman can get married, and a kind-hearted person is even more okay Personality is only one aspect.

People have to die more than people, and goods have to be thrown away than goods.

Now there are more men and fewer women, and a bad personality doesn't necessarily mean that she can't get married, but my sister has a bad personality and also got married, but she is a little later than others.

Ignore her, you will find someone who likes you, maybe later than others but will make you happy.