Confused, irritable, overwhelmed, depressed

If you're upset and confused, congratulations, because you're already thinking about life. The way fate makes a person mature is to let people experience the joys and sorrows of life, the so-called see through the red dust and love the red dust, a wise man of life should learn to pour the troubles in life into the bag, it is these things that seem to make people troublesome in order to make people's cultivation not increase, of course, this process is completed unconsciously. So I appreciate your attitude --- calm your mind.

Finally, I would like to share with you a quote that I really like, maybe you have heard it.

Life is just a long-distance journey, I don't care where the end is in, the important thing is the scenery along the way and the mood to see the scenery. "

I almost have this idea, just adjust it yourself, and the days will go on.

Contradictory and rich emotional thoughts"

This is indeed a gradual growth with age and hard work, but it is not "tripping up everyone", it is more about helping people move forward, because of the gradual enrichment of life experience, the knowledge system is more complete, so that we have a deeper understanding of things, and the mentality of things is more peaceful.

As long as you can persevere, this kind of thinking can be a powerful booster on the road ahead.

When you are confused and irritable, you don't have to miss the innocence of your childhood too much, as long as you harvest the fruits of autumn, you don't have to care too much about the blooming spring flowers.

Well, I drank the milk first, and then it's time to take the medicine!

You have two problems that need to be changed: one is that the lifestyle needs to be changed, some people who are alone for a long time will find happiness, but obviously this lifestyle does not belong to you, often this will make you unconfident in life, not confident in yourself, unable to see the future, unable to find happiness, so mind changing your lifestyle.

Second, the understanding of values is wrong, of course, this will also change your attitude towards life, you say you want to go out, but the realistic treatment and environment make it difficult for you to accept, I think this problem is not only for you, but countless workers are facing, others 1000 can survive, and you 1500 can not live, this can only show that you do not have the courage to face life, do not have the spirit of hardship and hard work, you should have heard of the "line out of the champion" and "pie in the sky will not fall" these two sentences, right? You are only 21 years old, it is the time to learn and exercise, not the time to make money and start a business, even if you are given 1 million now, I believe you don't know what to do, even if you do it, you will fail, I don't know if you can understand this sentence? You lack too many things, why do some people only work more than 1,000 a month, while some people work hundreds of thousands a month?

This is the reward of the effort, the result of hard work, the jackpot will not come to you and me, only down-to-earth can find your own way, I believe you have never thought carefully about these problems, there are thousands of people who are bleaker than you were born, but they will not think like you think of these things that do not help you, self-motivated and confident people will only say to themselves, why can't I do it if others can do it? Others know that God is good, they have a high degree of education, and they have a plan, can I put in 10 times more effort than them? is only 21 years old, and he has no confidence in life, and if he doesn't do it, he will always be a loser.

You've been thinking about it all the time, you've been thinking about it, you've been doing nothing, and now your question is how do you afford to support yourself! Less salary, less salary!

Most of the rich people are uneducated, but most of the people who read a lot are at work and have wondered why they don't! Dare to fight, dare to do, dare to think, don't stay at home, if you are a man, you will suffer Life is like this

Don't learn the craft first, try to adapt to social life first, you can find a nearby job, such as entering the factory or the like, you can meet more friends, find a girlfriend by the way, and you can go home to play with the computer after work, so that friendship, love, work, and family are available, and the mood will soon get better. Don't think about it so much, try it first, you won't lose anything anyway, it's better than staying at home.

Let's go to the south, Guangdong, Shenzhen, there are many factories there. Go and be a worker. High Chinese enough There are also dormitories.

It doesn't cost much . It's just more bitter. If you really want to be independent, try it.

I don't want any craftsmanship. Of course, if you don't want to move, you can't... Like some manufacturing factories are fully enclosed.

The money is not much, but there is housing and food, and the expenses are not large. Hunger won't kill you.

Hehe, it's really hard to find without craftsmanship. Let's go to Shanghai, where the lowest salary is more than 1800, but the consumption is also relatively good, and I control myself.

Surfing the Internet is not enjoyment, work is the real enjoyment. There are many states and time and space in the world that cannot be surpassed and difficult to change, but there are many essences of life itself in the dangerous environment, people must learn to discover these precious things, people live to understand the true meaning of life from pain, gain survival experience from difficulties, be good at transcending suffering, and achieve self-satisfaction mentality, so that they can appreciate the beauty of the melody of life.

First of all, don't think about what results you will achieve, first try to work hard to do one thing, a job, if you work hard to do one thing, work hard and do it seriously, there will be a good result. Only you can help yourself, you can control yourself, and others will persuade you to give you ideas, and if you don't have determination, you can't succeed. Seeing others succeed, but you have never seen the success of others, everyone has their bitterness, and everyone has a time to cry silently, so establish a goal and walk slowly through...

You study hard and go up every day, will you be depressed, confused, and helpless? Really, it's all my own imagination. That's not what you should be looking for right now, hehe, I'm the same age as you, think about the good in everything, and it'll be fine.

It is recommended that you read "The Book of Fu Lei's Family" and wish you good luck children!

I am also 17 years old. Let's talk? It's mine.

It's the same Tianya wheel, let me talk to you.

17 years old is like this, now are in the stage of confusion, do not know what they want to do, do not know what their goals are, and do not know what their advantages and disadvantages are suitable for, the first thing is to go out by themselves, and solve difficulties when encountered, but can not escape and complain, the most important thing is to say less and do more, let yourself hone in the difficulties, and slowly find your own goals.

What's wrong, if you have any worries to say it, don't hold it in your heart, it will be bad for your health

Don't make any decisions, just calm yourself.

Relax, relax, and travel light.

It is fundamental to eliminate troubles, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Think more about the benefits of everything, help others, make friends, don't take things too seriously, think about everything, don't be burdened by perfection, enjoy the fun that life brings you, discover the beauty of life, and enjoy the current happy life.

In the middle of the night, all fame is in vain! A hundred years later, all of them have become ancients!