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According to your actual family situation, you can buy it if your economic conditions allow, and forget it if your economic conditions don't allow it.
For a marriage, buying a diamond ring is actually not a big deal, after all, a diamond ring does not cost too much money. The main expenses are on buying a car, buying a house and a bride price.
Whether to buy a diamond ring or not should be considered according to the actual family situation of the two people. If your husband's family is not in good financial condition, and you have spent a lot of money for your marriage, then don't force the other party to buy a diamond ring. If there is no problem with the family conditions, just because you don't want to buy it, then you have to talk about it.
If the other party's family conditions are really difficult, you can talk to your husband about the money you can pay by yourself, but you have to live on face. After all, marriage is such a thing, for most people, there is only this time in a lifetime, so it is better to pay more attention.
Whether to buy it or not to buy it is actually not a big problem, and I don't think it will affect the relationship between the two of you.
Two people who are about to enter a marriage should learn to understand and be considerate of each other. You should understand your husband's financial difficulties, and your husband should also understand how much you value your wedding.
This in itself is not a big problem, and don't let it lead to a huge disagreement between the two people. Find an opportunity to have a good chat, talk about it calmly, and try to reach a level where both people are satisfied.
Don't always think about threatening each other with the matter of marriage, after all, some people are really excited. In case the relationship between the two people breaks down because of this, and they can't even get married, it will be a bit more than worth the loss.
What is the situation of your two families, only you know better, and I can't give you too specific advice. I just want to say a word to be considerate of each other, and this sentence is also for your husband.
A new life is about to begin, give you a good start to your new life.
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You can have a good discussion with your husband, that is, you especially like to see what kind of attitude your husband has, and some men will definitely agree if they love their wives very much.
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My husband doesn't agree to make money by myself, make a lot of money, and then buy a diamond ring by myself, so it's okay, and it has nothing to do with my husband.
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You can discuss it with your husband, don't quarrel anyway, everything is easy to discuss, let's see what she thinks before you buy it? Then tell him what you think.
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Buy yourself one with an index finger.
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There is no proposal for a wedding, no diamond ring, and your husband is still not good to you, you should end this marriage as soon as possible.
In fact, there is no wedding and marriage proposal, and there is no diamond ring in the marriage, which is not the main problem, as long as the other party can treat you well, everything is worth it. Weddings and diamond rings are just a formality, and they are meant to increase the mood of two people together. Many people are pragmatic and don't care about these trivial things, but when we get married, it should be the other party who really takes a picture.
People are good to themselves, considerate and patient with themselves, but if this is difficult for the other party to achieve, we don't have to pay more effort and ideas in this relationship, which will only make us fall deeper and deeper, and at the same time, we can't get feedback from the other party, so that the feelings of the wrong person will not have results in the end.
Many girls are like this, they always insist on going their own way in the face of feelings, they can be desperate and desperate when they think it is worth it, but once the heat passes, they look back and find that they have nothing. This is the commonality of many girls in love, and You Wu is also the most important reason why many boys can deal with silly and sweet girls. They are deeply in love with the idea that girls are in love.
So as to pursue the other party's heart desperately, and at the same time, after getting it, it will not cherish it, and trample on the other party's sincerity at will. There is really no need to continue such feelings without any warmth and meaning, and we should always be vigilant and not let the wrong feelings blind our eyes.
Therefore, there should be a picture in the marriage, others are good to you, drag each other's financial ability, etc., you can't have nothing. Many people end up failing, mainly because they don't want anything in the first place. We can do without flowers and rings, we can do without marriage proposals and weddings, but we must have warmth and love in life, so that a person's heart can always be warm and warm, and a relationship can be brought into full play.
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A broadband person thinks that at this time you should decisively choose to divorce two people got married without a wedding, and your husband is not good to you, just choose divorce, the future days are still very long, if you stick to it, it is not good for both of them.
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The main brother told the other party that he hoped that the other party would treat himself well in life, and if the other party did not treat him well, he should divorce in a group manner. It can be seen that this kind of boy does not know the height of the sky and the thickness of the earth, and does not know contentment.
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In this case, you should ask your heart if you want to persevere, and if you can't hold on, divorce.
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My husband is not willing to buy you a diamond ring, so the best way for the two of you is to sit down and communicate, and each of you will explain the reasons to see if you can reach an agreement. You certainly shouldn't be angry.
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Personally, I think that if your husband is not willing to buy a diamond ring for herself, then you don't have to be angry, because he may have more surprise gifts to give you.
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I don't think so, if you want anything your husband will buy it for you, the family's expenses should be very large, and when you get married, you have to spend it according to the actual situation, and if you want a diamond ring, you can earn your own money to buy it.
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If your husband is unwilling to buy a diamond ring for herself, you can ask the reason clearly, and if it is for special reasons, you should understand.
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In fact, from the perspective of the person who has come over, buying a diamond ring is the most frustrating.
After getting married, few people will always carry it, and basically bring it to the bottom of the box after a year. The point is that this thing can neither be eaten as a meal, nor can it be appreciated and cashed out, and can only be put away in the end.
So if you really want to buy it, buy a cheap or even fake one, and wear it for a while.
Friends, fight for it, many people don't fight for it, just let love go by, maybe it will be much better slowly, take my mother to see first, my mother's heart is soft, and I will fight hard.
Friend, you have a dream in your heart, you don't have to leave home, getting married and having children is a major event in life, and the wish of your parents. As long as you have the realm of Buddha in your heart, it is very good to be friendly, at least a cut higher than us ordinary people, don't give up family and marriage because of ideals, I wish you well.
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