To hurt or not to hurt? Did I hurt him? Is it serious?

Updated on healthy 2024-04-10
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't like him, it's better not to be with him, that would be irresponsible to you and him, if you separate in the future, it will make him more sad, if you are with him for fear of hurting him and have been patient in the future, will you be happy, will he be happy, if there is someone else who likes you, and the person is also very good, what should you do, for fear of hurting the second one, are you also with him, or wait for the person who is suitable for you, and the person you like appears.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, if you don't say it, one is that you hurt yourself, because you are not happy, because you don't love him. The second is that you also hurt him, if you agree to be with him, and later find that you still don't like him, as you said, it hurts him even more.

    While he's not very deep now, tell him earlier, maybe give him some time, and he can let go. You can still be good friends. Is that right?

    In addition, as a general rule, if you have been in a relationship with him and then broke up, it will be difficult to be friends again. It's better to make it clear now, you can still be friends. Perhaps

    Hopefully, I can be happy

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, in fact, this kind of thing is not a question of buying and selling things, who suffers more. It's that your own feelings are more important, love is selfish, and this cannot be compromised. After all, it's you're in a relationship, not your friend, right?

    If you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, you won't like it, and lying to yourself will only hurt you, besides, you're still a girl. Hope you think twice!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't feel good for him, even if you barely get along with him for a while, it will end in a breakup, and it's not fair to you, maybe next week you will be able to meet a man who makes your heart move, and when he loves you to the point that you can't extricate yourself, you will explain the truth to him, aren't you obviously asking him to die? Trouble you Have pity on this man who likes you, for his sake, don't hurt him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It can be seen that the landlord is very conflicted.

    Have you thought of being with him too?

    Then give it a try.

    Anyway, it hurts to refuse him now.

    After refusing him is also an injury.

    That's still to give him a chance.

    Give yourself a chance, too.

    Bad habits can be changed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You slowly become cold to him.

    I think he'll understand what you mean.

    If he doesn't understand what you mean, he's stupid.

    It's better not to have such a boyfriend.

    Try to be an ordinary friend and confidant

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since you are so hesitant, it means that you don't love him at all.

    If you don't love, why try to be together?

    You're still young, maybe tomorrow you'll meet someone who really loves each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Make it clear to him, otherwise it will hurt him even more in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I didn't understand it, hurt, you can't bear it, don't hurt it, Nizi is uncomfortable again, you say what do you want.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do you do with people who have bad habits? Don't.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Long pain is better than short pain, and now is the best.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Help him get rid of his ......Together, isn't it great?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Prove that you have him in your heart, if you don't have him, even if he loves you again, you don't care. You indulge him too much to hurt you, and you can't help but like someone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You only do what you think in your heart, it's very unrealistic, and you pay off the debt you owe in your previous life!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's it, leave him, and after two weeks you will feel that he is cheap, because you have come to your senses.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I guess you want to hang yourself from a tree.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You told that netizen that it was more uncomfortable for him to leave you, so why did he hurt you?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I can't let him go, I'll go to him again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He doesn't love you anymore, let it go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you can't let go,,, don't practice yourself, you can't make a row.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    For the sake of a tree, give up the whole forest and find someone to replace him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's so cheap, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're in love with him, you're a woman!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's because you haven't met a man who is better than him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Bought my melons and forgot about him! Ha ha.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You shouldn't lie to him, just do what you want, why lie, if you don't want to talk, just say, everyone is very relaxed, telling this kind of lie is to make people think that you are teasing him, take it, make it clear, everyone doesn't have to have psychological pressure.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There's nothing ahead.

    One is that girls are reserved and put on a shelf.

    Make one a boy be careful and strengthen his self-esteem.

    Cold war... Also normal.

    But hit ** once a week?

    。。I don't understand ...

    Either hit the sky in a row, and if you don't pick up, you won't fight again.

    In this case, once a week, I feel like I'm playing with someone.

    Support you not to pick up **, anyway, I don't like him very much.

    Don't feel guilty, he has a lot of personality flaws, and you can't be blamed.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That man is such a fool, what use is it for him to expose your lies, he will not do himself any good except to make you unhappy. Just show that he's smart, he knows everything? His behavior is very childish.

    There's nothing wrong with what you're doing, you don't want to talk to a person anymore, and using this excuse is a kind of refusal, he's too ignorant. Don't talk about it if you don't like him, this self-proclaimed clever guy is actually naïve and stupid, and lacks manners. If I had said him directly, your head was in water, I had to say that I don't want to talk to you now, it's very boring to chat with you, you understand, you don't care if I take a shower now, you don't care what reason I use to reject you, you have to listen to you ugly, I don't have to save your face.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When you encounter a problem, you have to find a way to solve it, and you can't escape it.

    Regardless of whether it was introduced or not, first ask yourself if you have feelings for him?

    Is the other party very good to you, and how good is it?

    Think about what else you care about, of course, he said that you bully him, which is a bit incorrect, because when two people are in love, there is no one who bullies whom, hehe, I hope it can help you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't like him and don't want to have anything to do with him, rejection is the best thing to do. If you decide to refuse, don't be afraid to hurt him. Long pain is better than short pain, and a resolute refusal will hurt him much less than procrastination.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello! First of all, marriage is your lifelong event, and if you don't like it, you don't want it, it's normal and right. You're not wrong at all, and you didn't hurt him.

    It's just that you have to be careful about it. Especially when it comes to seeing that your friend still wants to rely on you. So as soon as you make it clear to him, don't give her the illusion.

    But pay attention to the language. --Here's my personal opinion! If I were him, I would never test you, and I shouldn't be angry even if I knew you didn't go to the shower.

    If people don't want to talk, don't talk about it, why force others, and men must have grace. Don't be too stingy. You and him may not be suitable, and people who are too suspicious are not easy to get along with.

    In addition, I hope you can give me the reward, thank you here, I want to find a lawyer to fight the child's lawsuit. Thank you. See my question for details, thank you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Long pain is better than short pain, if you don't like him anymore, just let it go, the more you drag it on, the more it hurts, it will only hurt him deeper. Everyone has immature times, and there will always be times when they hurt others, so just break it off. Actually, to be honest, I think this man is still good, try you to show that he cares about you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe at that time you don't want to talk, you're afraid that you won't speculate for more than half a sentence, or you have something else, and you want to find some excuse to end the conversation.

    This can only be blamed on this man who is too real and uninteresting.

    And you may be too careless, the excuse is not good, you can tell him afterwards that the harm is not harmful, it depends on whether he is true or false to you, if it is true, then it is not harmful, if it is false, then it hurts!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't know if you really like her, if you don't like it, just tell him, don't not pick up. If you like it, I'll decide him to try you with another QQ number, and there's nothing, really, anyway, just pick it up and make it clear.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's right not to answer.

    You don't want to talk to him about QQ, you don't want to pick him up, it means that you don't like him, don't give him hope if you don't like it, it will hurt more, and men are not as fragile as you think.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't think it's right - no matter what conflict happens, it's better for everyone to explain it clearly, whether it's starting over or breaking up, so that everyone knows what the outcome is, and there won't be suspicions on both sides.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Do you feel that he likes you deeply? Are you sure he wasn't so nervous about you because he had just known you? Do you feel that you are getting weaker and more boring with him? And you're just admitting it verbally, you don't admit it in your heart, right?

    If you don't like people, and you can't be sure that others like you, then why put it off again and again. If you don't like other people, then don't get in the way of other people liking them.

    There is no wrong or right in feelings! How much affection do you think there is between you? If not, how can there be harm?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I wonder if you really know him?? If you make a decision without understanding, it is difficult to say whether Haru is right or wrong. What do you say?

    However, by asking this question now, it shows that he still has a very important influence on you. Give people a chance, give yourself a chance. Let's make a decision after we find out. Sometimes he really needs you to provide a step.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    He tempted you to prove that he had you in his heart, or why bother! Although it is wrong to test you, but people have also confessed, which means that there is no deception to you, but the way is wrong, if you don't like the other party, just say it directly, if you have feelings, give the other party a chance, no matter what you do, as long as you don't regret it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It depends on whether you really want to be good with him, what is the reason why you are cold to him, do you know it? If you don't want to, just tell him to understand, it's normal for you not to answer **, it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    How would you admit to being his girlfriend? You don't like him, do you.

    From you verbally saying that she was his girlfriend to pretending to say that you went to the shower, it is obvious that the breakup after this may be what you want it to be

    In fact, there are reasons for problems, liking is a matter of both parties, and if one party is unwilling, then it cannot be said that the other party is your boyfriend and girlfriend

    My suggestion is: give him the ** in person (he would never have thought that you would take the initiative like this, and besides, you personally took the initiative to tell him, he would believe it), and then clearly explain to him what he thinks in his heart. It's not just him who hurts if you keep pestering, it's yourself too

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    First of all, he tries you because he really cares, and it's nothing but a small thing. What matters is how you feel, and if you really like him, there's no need to punish him so much for this one. What's more, you don't have to make up reasons to deceive people, right, if you don't have a topic, you can say that you are busy or something.

    Both of you are responsible, it is not easy to find someone who loves you, and if you also like him, I have the right to you. I wish you all happiness.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Yes, if you don't like him, make it clear to him, don't let him still have hope, let him understand your attitude.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    This shows that you don't like him, since you don't like him, let him go and explain it to him, so as not to delay each other and waste time and feelings.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    First of all, guess-and-guess love is boring and doesn't go further.

    Secondly, pick him up and tell him clearly, it's not interesting to guess

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    SSS loves the physical satisfaction he gets from the other person. It's not love! Love is selfless giving.

    The most important thing is to give your sincerity! !Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless dedication and sacrifice, and the return of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it's in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Minor injury, brain ** scientific name brain trauma syndrome, manifested as dizziness and nausea, etc., forensic identification is a minor injury.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Hello, the brain ** is a minor injury.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Because a lot of people don't have money.

    And in this society, it is difficult to move forward without money.

    If you can't move an inch, you will be sad.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Because money is not everything, but no money is impossible!

    In today's life, it's very realistic, money is like life!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    That's the way it is.

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