There are so many troubles in life and work, but I find that I can t cry

It is estimated that the same is the post-80s, I am 82 years, since this year, I have indeed encountered a lot of trouble, business is not good, the relationship with the leader is getting more and more stiff, and the contact with the family is also small, now the general idea is how to find time to idle yourself, and then think about the future.

Sometimes, it's not that you don't want to reconcile with your leaders, sometimes it's not that you don't want to do a good job, and sometimes it's not that you don't want to go home often.

There are many times like this when you want to cry without tears, and everyone will encounter it. It is recommended to go to KTV to sing and relax.

You should release the stress as soon as possible. Drink more friends and chat, be tolerant of your father, and think about his goodness. Indulge yourself in moderation often, play like crazy, laugh like crazy.

Be comfortable facing your situation. If you can't solve it, just run away. Carry forward your own points and ignore your own shortcomings.

You are definitely not sick When you have a vacation, stay in a quiet place nearby for 2 days Have a good rest, look at the mountains and rivers, don't find someone to accompany you, someone will talk about work, life, family, don't think about anything, just relax.

One. Tell Dad what it means to make money. Let Dad rest assured, you tell him to come back to provide him with better conditions for retirement, and after going out, you will often contact his old man and don't let him worry. (My advice is that you have to get out, and getting out is your way out!) ）

Two. Be sure of your feelings for your girlfriend and for you.

1) You can choose to get married, provided you have to trust that she will wait for you to come back! Tell your wife: When you are not at home, you can often visit your father, so that you can rest assured;

2) You can also choose not to get married (a somewhat selfish decision but also realistic). I believe that you can't run away, and in the two or three years that you have been out, both parties have the right to choose, which can also be used as a test.

3. Summary: Young man, the future is in your own hands after all, and I hope you all the best!!

You can analyze the current situation to this step, you have seen it more clearly, it is all money, then you have to start with money, you are not small, since your mother can provide you with a good opportunity abroad, then go out and give it a go, at this time the decision is in your hands, entrepreneurship needs to listen to the opinions of others, but at the critical moment you have to make your own decision, right or wrong, who is not so crawling all the way? What happens if you continue to be at home? Women nowadays are very realistic, can she wait for you?

My girlfriend said that she would leave after getting married, because she was afraid that you would not come back if you went out, everyone has selfish intentions, and everyone will think about themselves. My advice is, go out and fight.

In fact, the problem is not the fault of the money, the problem is how you look at the manifestation of the problem, in fact, your parents are very concerned about you, and your girlfriend, including her family, also understands you. This can be seen from what you said, all you need to do is make up your mind, whether to work abroad or work from home. This is the most important thing for you to think about at the moment, and after you think about it, you just need to explain it according to your choice, and I am sure they will understand and support your idea.

Don't get married.

Don't regret it. You just wait a few years abroad to come back and get married.

Let's see if she waits for you.

Personal opinion, if you like each other, get married first, and then have children later, you go abroad again, let your wife live in your mother's house now, and when you develop abroad, you may be able to take your wife abroad; Otherwise, it would be better to return to China and develop, and your house will be built at that time. Also, your life is your own, although your dad raised you so big, but this is your own future, I think your dad won't be so rigid, talk to your dad more, he is also afraid that you will be estranged from him in the future, no one will take care of you, and if your dad is really good to you, he will definitely agree.