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Many things are always experienced and understood. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.
Learn to give up, and life will be easier.
Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way. I once said I loved you, and I still love you today.
It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. As he loves the lily of fire in the wilderness, he loves it, but he cannot return with it.
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When thinking of him or her, rationally restrain yourself from not wanting him or her, and divert your thoughts. The bad trick is to think about his bad and make himself gradually lose interest in him.
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Time is the best medicine, you do your own thing, and after a long time of diverting your attention, you will naturally forget.
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Start a relationship again, find someone who cares about you very much, likes you, and loves you away from the current him.
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Don't deliberately, the time is getting farther away, and the weaker people's hearts are.
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It hurts a lot, I cry a lot, I find out that he doesn't love you, and when I get discouraged, I naturally give up - I will always find a better one.
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All you need is time.
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Connect with other friends. Get out and about more. Don't let yourself sit idle.
Almost everyone has been in this situation, and so have I, but I came back in the end. There is also another one of the opposite sex that you look at and pay more attention to, and you will slowly forget about it. Time is the best healing medicine.
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I think I'm going to learn to give up too. It's so hard, it's so hard, it's so hard. I don't know what to do.
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Learn to hide yourself, take a relentless attitude towards him, like a stranger, pass by, and when your heart hurts, you have to make it hurt even more until you are numb.
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It's hard to give up, and I can't give up.
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Starting a new relationship is the most straightforward and effective way, and everything else is nonsense.
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Discover his or her shortcomings and forget about his or her strengths.
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Summary. Dear, glad to serve you. Ways to give up someone you like very much:
1.Hand over to time As the saying goes, there is no love that can't fade away in time, and there is no person who can't let go of time. Many people overestimate their emotions and think that falling in love with someone is a lifetime, and it is difficult to fall in love with someone else again.
However, often after waiting for a year and a half, you will lose your original enthusiasm for that person, and even suddenly find that you have not thought of him for a long time and have not paid attention to him anymore. 2.The reason why you can't extricate yourself for a long time when you meet a new person in a state of falling out of love is that you can't get catharsis for your emotions, and you can't divert your attention, so you can only linger day after day.
Therefore, if you can find someone who is good to you as soon as possible when you fall out of love, and shift your attention to that person, it is easy to leave the other person behind.
Dear, glad to serve you. Ways to give up on someone you like very much:1
Hand over to time As the saying goes, there is no love that can't fade away in time, and there is no person who can't let go of time. Many people overestimate their emotions and think that falling in love with someone is a lifetime, and it is difficult to fall in love with someone else again. However, often after waiting for a year and a half, you will lose your original enthusiasm for that person, and even suddenly find that you have not thought of him for a long time and have not paid attention to him anymore.
2.The reason why you can't extricate yourself for a long time when you meet a new person in a state of falling out of love is that you can't get catharsis for your emotions, and you can't divert your attention, so you can only linger day after day. Therefore, if you can find someone who is good to you as soon as possible when you fall out of love, and shift your attention to that person, it is easy to leave the other person behind.
Extension: 1. Acknowledging and accepting the fact that you "don't like him that much" is not that you don't like him, but that you don't like him as much as you think. You may just not be able to accept that the person who once loved you so much belongs to someone else later, or you may just not be able to accept that someone who happens to attract you will be difficult to meet later, but in either case, it's essentially more like your worries and anxieties about the future.
2. Don't put yourself in the role of a victim and a low-level person to raise your self-esteem and self-preservation consciousness, raise your bottom line and principles, and raise your low position to the level of balance between the two parties. 3. Don't take the natural flow of feelings as affectionate.
Feelings are not longing, what do you like your idol like him, his handsomeness, his singing voice, his laughter, his talent, his hard work? These do attract others to like him, but being together is a matter of two people. It's the way to get along, are you sure that the two of you are OK when you get along, your personality is harmonious, and he loves you very much, maybe after getting along, you find that he has a lot of parts that you can't bear. >>>More
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In fact, you already know the answer, why lie to yourself? It's not so much that you like him, but that you just want to prove something, or you don't want to end up like this with him. I would like to send you a word: give up what should be given up, that is the wise. >>>More