What should I do if a girl I met on a blind date has been lukewarm?

Many boys are often confused when they are in love, why do they pay so much and put in so much effort, but girls are lukewarm to themselves?

In fact, girls are lukewarm to you for nothing more than the following 4 reasons.

First, the reason for the girl's personality itself.

Some girls are more introverted due to the environment in which they grew up, and they are lukewarm to everyone. Even if your efforts touched her and she accepted you in her heart, but because of her personality, she was still lukewarm to you and looked cold.

Two, you did something wrong and made her angry.

When a boy is chasing a girl, if you do something wrong and make the girl angry, the girl may also be lukewarm to you. At this time, you have to seriously reflect on yourself, whether you are doing wrong, what you are doing wrong, apologize to the girl in time, and obtain her forgiveness, so that you will have a chance.

Three, she hasn't made a decision about you yet and wants to test you.

Your dedication, your efforts, in fact, the girl sees it, but she still decides to test you more. Girls are insecure a lot of the time, especially in relationships. They are afraid that they will be hurt in their relationship, so they will not love easily.

At this time, it is a girl who is testing you lukewarmly, and if you take this step, it will be a sunny day.

Four, she really doesn't like you.

This may hurt the boy the most, but it's true, she really doesn't like you. Emotional matters can't be forced, she wants to make you give up with a lukewarm attitude.

The above are the reasons why girls are lukewarm to you, and after figuring it out, you can prescribe the right medicine.

Hello, if a girl is lukewarm to you, it is normal to have no feelings for you to a large extent. We don't look like a star, but it's not difficult to make the other party not hate you, the first time we meet, I think it should be paved for the next meeting, the best way to move a girl is to let the girl find out that you are a very capable person, what kind of flower sea tactics, chasing and blocking and the like, I don't approve of it, if you do it at the beginning, normal girls will scare you away, it is necessary to brag at the right time, but don't brag too much, such as if you want to show that you have ambition, You can say other things to show it, don't just say that you have such and such great ideals in the future, which makes people feel that you are very vain!

The other party's attitude has been lukewarm, and you can ask the other party directly. What is the attitude towards yourself? I don't have that intention, I can break up, there is no need to go on like this. Sometimes you don't say that the other person thinks you like it.

You need to increase the opportunities for communication, if the girl really wants to contact you and the communication is smooth, through contact and communication, the feelings and relationships between you will gradually warm up. If, through your efforts, the other party's attitude is still lukewarm, then you have to let go in time!

The girls you know on a blind date have been lukewarm, that's because you're not familiar with each other, on the one hand, it has something to do with personality, it's not extroverted but slowly hot, you have to be patient and communicate with others, and you'll get better slowly.

First: Give a deadline, give up after this deadline, don't waste time on each other, the time is too long, you are easy to get hurt;

Second: see if the girl's personality is a slow heat type, not good at expressing herself, slow heat type needs to be slowly contacted, girls are generally more shy, step by step to understand him he will really want to rely on you to love you.

Third: Girls are more introverted, don't like to talk, and are usually an otaku who like to do their own things alone. In this case, you need to start with what interests her.

Fourth: If it has been a long time, you can ask the girl what she thinks, whether she wants to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend or just be an ordinary friend, or if she will not contact her in the future. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

If you want to develop it, you can start with the common concerns or the same hobbies, even if you can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, it's good to be a friend.

If the blind date is lukewarm to you, it means that he may be this character, if you like it, you can behave enthusiastically and see how he reacts, if he is still lukewarm, don't date.

If you like this guy very much, you can post more news in the circle of friends to attract him to interact with you, if this boy sees your circle of friends and ignores you, it means that people are not interesting to you at all, then you are still looking for a new one.

It may be because your blind date doesn't like you at all and has a bad first impression of you, and secondly, because he is particularly shy, that's why it's like this.

Personally, I feel that if you meet such a blind date, you can walk away as soon as possible, because such a blind date generally does not pay much attention to feelings.

It's useless for you to ask netizens this question, you have to ask the girl herself. Girls who meet on blind dates never take the initiative, and the possible reasons include but are not limited to: girls themselves are more introverted and slow to heat; Girls are influenced by traditional ideas and are more reserved; Girls have no interest in you, etc.

So, when you can't make up your mind, communication is necessary, or find a time to ask the other person out to meet again, and see her attitude and reaction.

Dear, boys should take the initiative. You can ask her directly how she feels about you, if she cares about you, but she is embarrassed to take the initiative, or she doesn't know how to take the initiative, then you need to take the initiative to contact, make an appointment to eat, play, etc., most girls are more passive and don't like to take the initiative very much. Hope it helps!

A man, a woman on a blind date, is neither lukewarm nor hot to you, which shows that she has a little feeling for you, so.

If you like her, be sure to influence her with your actions.

In the course of life, many men, because of the work environment, because of personality reasons; So when it came time to talk about marriage, I didn't find a suitable life partner; Therefore, I will use a blind date to find the person I like; However, many men always specialize the object of the blind date, feeling that the other party does not look down on them, and they have no chance; In fact, you should understand that a blind date is like meeting someone you like in a sea of people; So as long as you like it, don't just give it up.

If the woman on a blind date is lukewarm to you, it means that she is not very optimistic about you, but she also thinks that you have some excellent features and has a little affection for you; If she doesn't have a little feeling or idea for you, then in her heart, she will definitely reject you and will not take you in her eyes; She will definitely draw a line with you and tell you that she is not suitable for you; And if she is sometimes good to you and sometimes cold to you, this is the behavior and thought of having a little feeling for you in her heart; So that means you have a chance.

First of all, you have to find out how you feel. It's important whether you like him or whether you think his personality suits you well. If you can be sure, then you can consider why the other party is lukewarm to you, and find the reason for you.

If the other party looks down on you, then you have to chase after you. If he has other problems, you have to find a way to warm him up.

Hello kiss, you can tell jokes or say something with a common language to resolve the embarrassment.

1.Online communication tools have a defense mechanism that can block the understanding of girls, so it is necessary to contact girls, meet and talk, and only by contacting can you really get to know girls.

2.Many people find that online love and loss of love, longing and injury are all a person's game by watching ** and other ways. Many people have formed too strong longings through **, and these longings come from their own imagination, rather than the real needs of the other party.

Some adults' love is actually the same: many times they live in their own imagination, and the Internet and ** are the best places to incubate imagination.

Through **, you can imagine to your heart's content, but when you really want to get along with this person in reality, you will encounter a lot of places that are not as good as you expected, distress and disappointment will follow, and at the same time lack the ability to adjust and communicate in intimate relationships, which leads to only one way: once this reality is not as I want, I will run away, be beautiful alone, or change someone.

In the process of imagining, losing, and escaping, although the pain is finally relieved, it does not actually increase the ability to interact with real people in reality.

3.Although these adults have grown up, in the relationship, some of them are still in a state like children, and they dare not face the truth, because the "reality" in their hearts is not reality, and this imaginary "reality" is terrible. This "reality" is actually another exaggerated "imagination" of his imagination after colliding with reality, which is not as good as his expectations.

So these people prefer to stay on the **, because there is a kind of isolation and defense function, whether it is for intimacy or aggression.

1) Because ** is not a direct feeling, but a medium, there is an element of exaggeration, and this exaggeration also has the taste of defense truth.

2) ** itself is an abstract and rational symbol. Sensations (sight, hearing, touch, smell) are the most immediate, followed by spoken language, and then words. But the shooting of ** is controllable, and a few sieves may have been filtered.

The tension between two people in the same space is much stronger than that of the opposite person, and there is naturally a lot of space between the two people, including the intersection of hobbies, including visual contact, and the cognition of certain issues (including the circle of friends). At the end of the day, it all adds to a greater sense of control.

If you don't like you, give up, the world is full of girls, there will be people who like you and you like too.

That's not interested in you. Give it up!

Girls are slow-burning types, so if you like them, you can chase them? Slow-burning girls are conservative and won't go out to mess around, so if you like it, look for opportunities, if she doesn't take the initiative, then you take the initiative.