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How a child perceives relationships with others is a process by which a child gradually shifts his or her gaze to others.
A child's relationship with others is first and foremost with his family. Children and their families have the most intimate relationships, but they are also the most complex. Family means the most to children, and any common things in life play an important role and weight in the hearts of children.
Through the most intimate contact, children grow up experiencing negation, hatred, anger, sadness, and further experience love and warmth, and only in this way can the human heart mature.
A child's relationship with others is first and foremost with his family. Children and their families have the most intimate relationships, but they are also the most complex. Family means the most to children, and any common things in life play an important role and weight in the hearts of children.
But some children may only know what is wrong, but they cannot express it accurately and can only behave strangely. John F. Kennedy, Learning) At this time, at least one parent recognizes the change and acts accordingly, which can promote change in the family.
This change does not necessarily ease family relationships.
When one parent realizes that the relationship has broken down, it is irreparable, and a complete severance may also be the growth of an adult. A child's relationship with others is first and foremost with his family.
Children and their families have the most intimate relationships, but they are also the most complex. Family means the most to children, and any common things in life play an important role and weight in the hearts of children.
However, if the child does not feel the warmth of the family no matter how hard he tries in a family, he will shift his hope to the external environment. This is the case of delinquent youths who are mixed with undesirable groups in society. They desperately need the feeling of family, which they can't find in their real home, and talk in self-defense in such groups.
A child's relationship with others is first and foremost with his family. Children and their families have the most intimate relationships, but they are also the most complex. Family means the most to children, and any common things in life play an important role and weight in the hearts of children.
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The world of children is full of innocence, and they are kinder, easier to communicate, and they are very interested in people and things, and they are willing to try. Will be helpful and believe in all good things. As parents, we often see our children have this innocence, and we want to protect their innocence.
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The world of children is simple, and pure, in their world there is only play, no troubles, as a parent I understand, and I have always tried to make children such people.
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The world of children is very simple, there are friends, family, eating, drinking and playing, going to school, exams and holidays. As parents, many people don't understand the world of children.
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For adults, the world is colorful, the lights are bright, the streets are bustling, and it is a prosperous scene. Because adults are psychologically mature and have both happiness and troubles in the face of work and life, the world of adults is sometimes gray and sometimes colorful, and the mood will naturally become very complicated. So for children, what is their world, looking at the world from a child's perspective, what kind of colors is the world full of, and what is the child's mood?
For babies who have not been born for a long time, this world is blurred, because the vision is not fully developed, even the appearance of parents is blurred, and the child perceives the world through sound. So newborns' eyesight looks very dull, and even if there are colored things dangling in front of their eyes, they don't feel much.
As the child grows up, the child slowly tries many things for the first time in life, tries different food tastes for the first time, sees all kinds of new things for the first time, and tries this colorful world for the first time. But this world is undoubtedly simple and beautiful for children. In the child's world, their cognition is relatively simple, and their world is occupied by the love of the baby's mother and loved ones.
They are unscrupulous, enjoying the love of those around them and the fun that toys bring to them.
When the children know the picture, you can see what the children's inner world is like, the children's world is imaginative, and they believe that there is Ultraman.
and the existence of monsters, and also believe in the existence of aliens. In their minds, the sea and the sky are mysterious places, full of infinite unknown secrets. But the children's world is very simple, due to the limited knowledge of things, children feel that their daily life is undoubtedly learning and playing, they play to their heart's content, wandering in the ocean of knowledge, very happy.
The reason why many people want to go back to their childhood is because we were simple and happy when we were children, and we didn't have the troubles of growing up.
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The world in the eyes of children is very beautiful, because children are still relatively young now, and they are full of curiosity about the world, so they all think that the world is very beautiful.
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It is very colorful, and children will be very curious about many things. So the world is going to be very wonderful.
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They are all very colorful, and there are no worries, and at the same time, there are all kinds of people in the world, and life is also colorful.
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The world is a surprise to children, they don't have a basic idea of the world, and they will feel very curious and want to try it.
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The soles of the child's shoes are not dirty.
The soles of the child's shoes are clean.
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Hello, society is a complex and cruel world, and children will inevitably encounter all kinds of setbacks and difficulties in the process of growing up. So, should we recognize the cruelty of society from an early age? This question is not a simple question of right or wrong, and needs to be analyzed from multiple aspects.
First of all, we need to be clear that children's cognitive ability and psychological ability to withstand the land file are limited. In the process of growing up, children need to gradually realize the cruelty and reality of society, but this process needs to be carried out according to the age and psychological development level of the child. If children are still in early childhood or childhood, instilling in them the cruelty and reality of society too early may have a negative impact on their mental health, causing them to develop anxiety, fear and other negative emotions.
Secondly, we need to consider that children need a relatively safe environment for their growth. As children grow up, they need a relatively safe environment to ensure their physical and mental health. If children recognize the cruelty and reality of society too early, it may lead them to distrust and fear society, which will affect their growth and development early.
Finally, we need to consider that the child's growth needs to gradually adapt to the realities of society. In the process of growing up, children need to gradually adapt to the reality of society and learn to face all kinds of setbacks and difficulties. If children have been in a relatively safe environment and have not been exposed to the cruelty and reality of society, it may cause them to be unable to adapt in the face of setbacks and difficulties, resulting in negative emotions and behaviors.
Therefore, recognizing the cruelty of society to children from an early age needs to be carried out according to the child's age and level of psychological development. Children's growth requires a relatively safe environment to ensure their physical and mental health, but children also need to gradually adapt to the reality of society and learn to face various setbacks and difficulties. Parents can help their children gradually realize the cruelty and reality of society through appropriate guidance and education, and at the same time, they should also give their children enough care and support to help them overcome various challenges in their growth.
Hope mine is helpful to you.
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Friendly. Naive.
Lively. Lovely.
Charming. Possess the best ability.
China** ratified the Convention on the Rights of the Child in 1992 and has worked with people's organizations, international organizations, the press and individuals to transform the obligations set out in the Convention from a declaration of mere intention into a concrete plan of action to improve the lives of all Chinese children. The Convention on the Rights of the Child entered into force in China on 1 April 1992. A child is defined as any person under the age of 18 years under the International Convention on the Rights of the Child, which was adopted by the United Nations General Assembly on 20 November 1989.
International Children's Day (International Children'S Day), also known as Children's Day, is a festival to protect the right to survival, health care and education of children in all countries of the world, in order to improve children's lives, and to oppose the abuse and poisoning of children. In 1925, at the International Conference on Child Welfare held in Geneva, Switzerland, the International Association for the Promotion of Children's Happiness first proposed the concept of "Children's Day", calling on countries to establish their own children's memorial days.
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Honestly, I think it should be appropriate for children to understand the reality of the world. Rather than letting children suddenly discover the huge psychological gap and fear and pain in their hearts when they suddenly find that reality is very different from fairy tales one day, it is better for us to slowly and gradually uncover this veil and guide them to critically recognize this reality. There is a line in Gintama:
Child, no matter how much you spoil them, they will definitely leave you in twenty years. But these twenty years will become a good memory to support him in this life. "Therefore, on the one hand, we should tell the children about the fangs of this world, and remind them of the destruction of this world; At the same time, we need to hug them gently and tell them that no matter how cruel and dangerous the world is, there are always trusted family, teachers and friends to accompany them.
The little nephew raised a golden retriever with congenital heart disease, and finally died before the age of three. The little nephew is only five years old, and he cried very sadly when he saw that the little friend who played with him every day (or was bullied by the little nephew every day) didn't move. My second brother felt that this was a good time to educate him about life and death, so he went to tell him that all things have life and death, and that he should be strong in the face of life and death.
A child, the inner world is like a blank piece of paper, the things that he has just come into contact with may affect him for a lifetime, such as me, now that I am in my age, but I still remember what beautiful things I did when I was a child, these things, such as kindness and simplicity have always influenced and spurred me.
If it is said that as a child who has seen the ugliness of the world at a very young age, then, it is likely to affect his lifelong hair shirt exhibition, after all, it is a period of growth and formation, as far as real life is concerned, such as some bloody or bad pictures are to refuse or prevent children from being on the scene.
Everyone has good and bad things, positive and negative, sometimes there are some bad phenomena, ugly reality, it is necessary to tell children, but we need a process, more need a way. Of course, the extent of this is up to you.
For example, when you feel that it is appropriate to tell your child, you can bear it at the right time, such as age, and bear it in your heart, in an appropriate form such as storytelling, in a relaxed state, tell him, she, let him know that the ugliness of time exists, but also learn to protect himself when he loves the world, if you feel that the child has poor tolerance, then. I'd rather wait until the right opportunity to tell him that many parents understand this.
In fact, we should instill the child with good and positive energy, so that he feels that the society is very beautiful and needs him to work hard, if we try our best to show him the bad side, the ugly side, then. It is very likely to ruin the child's life, and even, pay the price of his life early.
Of course, not having contact with or less contact with the ugliness of society does not mean that you have to spoil your child in particular, so that he lacks the sense of self-protection, and when we love the whole society, we know more about the judgment and difference between good and evil in human nature.
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Children are the hope of the future, and they need to grow up, learn and explore the world in a healthy, safe, and positive environment. However, children also need to understand the reality of the world, including the beauty and cruelty in it, which helps them form their own values and outlook on life, and better cope with various challenges and difficulties in life.
First of all, children need to understand the beauty of the world. They should know that there are many beautiful things in the world, such as the magnificent scenery of nature, the creativity and wisdom of human beings, the friendship and mutual assistance between people, and so on. These beautiful things can stimulate children's curiosity and desire to explore, making them more passionate about life and positive.
Secondly, children also need to understand the cruelty of the world. There are many social problems in the real world, such as poverty, disease, war, disaster, and so on. These questions can cause fear and insecurity for children, but if they don't understand them, they won't be able to understand, care for, and contribute to those who are in need.
Therefore, by making children aware of these issues, they can develop a sense of empathy and responsibility, making them more caring for others and more helpful.
Finally, children need to understand the reality of the world of Qi Zaocha, and they also need to do it at the right time and in the right way. Parents and educators need to choose the appropriate method and content for education according to the age and psychological development of children. For example, children can learn about various things in the world through storytelling, watching movies, visiting museums, etc., so that they can grow up in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.
In short, children should know the truth of the world and understand the beauty and cruelty in it, which will help them form their own values and outlook on life, and better cope with various challenges and difficulties in life.
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