Why is the biggest malice between relatives is to mess with the mandarin duck spectrum, do you have

Yes, and it's really distressing. <>

Messing around with the Mandarin Duck spectrum is likely to make the relationship between two people who are friends very awkward. I have a very nice male friend in my hometown, and we have been classmates since junior high school and have been in the same city until college. To say that the relationship between the two of us is not very close, only occasionally chatting, playing games together or something, and there is no ambiguous feeling, after all, I also helped him chase my best friend, and he also knows that I like his buddy.

In short, the relationship between the two of us is ordinary friends, and this relationship also makes us feel very comfortable.

After graduating from college, we all went back to our hometown for a while, and sometimes we would have a dinner together, but we were seen by relatives, and she happened to know our parents, so she began to mess with the mandarin duck score. First, I came to my mother and told my mother that I was not too young to be considered for marriage. Then I went to my friend's parents and told him that they thought we could try to be together.

As a result, our parents really began to be a little moved, after all, one is an older leftover girl, and the other is an older leftover man, and they are also anxious, and they feel that we can really be together. My mother also persuaded me many times in private, believing that his parents were too, so because of this very enthusiastic relative, our relationship suddenly became very strange. But we all know clearly that this is not love, and we haven't had any heartbeat after knowing each other for almost ten years, and it is quite difficult to be forced to "heartbeat" each other when we are coming.

Anyway, our relationship has been strange and estranged since then.

In fact, many times it is like this, if you are not impressed, you are not impressed, but if the people around you are matching the two of you, even friends for many years will feel that the relationship has suddenly changed and become less pure, and suddenly it is a little ambiguous. As a result, you will struggle and doubt yourself, but there is really no way to see the other person as a partner. In short, after this incident, I hate these people who like to forcibly make up for others, and they are not in the name of love, but to tell you the reality - you are not small, you will be together.

I've had a similar experience. My uncle once insisted on introducing me to a marriage partner, which made me very embarrassed.

Some. I saw my relatives find someone to marry their daughter, and they didn't have feelings, just because their daughter was old.

I also had a similar experience, because I was almost 30 years old and not married, so I was arranged by someone else to go on a blind date.

Yes, there are some people who just can't see you, they want to see you embarrassed, full of malice.

Yes, most of the people introduced by relatives are out of interest considerations, and they don't care whether they are suitable or not, which is very harmful.

I think it makes sense, but it's not all like that, and there are many relatives who are for your own good, introduce you to someone, and give you a little more choice.

It is true that some relatives do not see others well, as long as they are individuals, they will introduce them to others, regardless of whether the two people are suitable or not.