A friend who is about to come to the end of his life netizen how to accompany him through the last t

If you treat each day as if it were the last day of your life, you will find that everything is under control on this day!

No one wants to die, even if people want to go to heaven, they want to be able to live in, death is the end point of each of our lives, no one can be an exception, life is like this, because death is probably the best creation of life, it is the medium of life change, send away the old and make way for the new generation.

Time is limited, so don't waste your time repeating other people's lives, don't be bound by rules, otherwise you will live in the results of other people's thinking, don't let the voice of others drown out your inner voice, and most importantly, have the courage to follow your own heart and consciously, they may already know what kind of person you want to be--- everything else is secondary!

He didn't tell you what was going on, as far as you said you were a student so there may be very little you can do at the moment, and if that is the best thing to do is to continue ...

You should care more about him, talk to him more, or at least he confides in you.

Take him to a good meal. Calm down and talk slowly. Very slow, very slow......Very slow......Gradually....

Don't mention these things in front of him, let him go through the rest of the days happily.

I saw your problem by accident, and suddenly I felt very emotional, it seems that I am facing the same problem now, I really don't know what to do, how to comfort him, I can't do anything. I can only resign myself to fate.,Even if it's a netizen,But,At least we used to ,,, between us.,,Now I can only spend the days with him happily.。。

He's lying to you, right!!

But I think you're kind

Although many people don't think about this problem in real life, if there is a countdown to life in front of my eyes one day, then I will choose to do the following things.

I will clearly realize that this result cannot be changed by myself, I have to learn to accept this fact, and then use the limited time to do what I want to do the most, because I am usually busy with my own work, and I rarely have time to really relax myself, let myself go back to the place where I grew up, to recall the happy and beautiful times of my childhood, after all, in my childhood, that time was the happiest time, without any sorrow and trouble, although now I am an adult, At the last moment of his life, it should be the greatest pursuit of his life to go back to the time when he was young to find that kind of happiness and leisure.

When the countdown to life appears, in addition to the place where I will choose to return to the place where I grew up in my childhood, I will spend a limited amount of time with my relatives, and it is precisely because I am too busy with work that I rarely have time to really accompany my relatives, and I must use this last time to do something meaningful for my relatives around me as much as possible, because only in this way can I make my heart more relieved and more comfortable, of course, I won't tell them the truth about this, because if I tell them, they will only feel sad for me, and that's not what I want to see.

In "Emergency Doctor", in response to the problem of hospice care, Jiang Xiaoqi and He Jianyi did not recommend that their colleagues send their critically ill mothers to the ICU, intubation, ventilators and other life-support equipment are no longer meaningful to patients, but have become a kind of torture, it is better to let the patient leave peacefully. Jiang Xiaoqi said: "Doctors are the ones who accompany patients on their last journey, and we should give dignity to life when we can't do anything."

Hospice care is not only a medical issue, but also involves ethics, concepts, and a person's attitude towards death.

The groom-to-be was seriously injured trying to save the strange child and was unable to see his fiancée for the last time; did not hesitate to make the past scars public, and Liu Huimin, the deputy chief physician, donated bone marrow to an illegitimate daughter who had not been seen for many years; The young doctor forgot to take out the gauze during the operation, causing the patient to undergo a second operation, and was generously forgiven by the female patient ......