My girlfriend spends money very fiercely, what should I do, what should I do if my girlfriend spends

I'm a big fan of spending money, and most of it is used to buy clothes.

If a woman wants to go on with you, she will not spend money unlimitedly, but save money, often when two people are together, it is often men who are lavish, although a woman's wardrobe will always lack a pair of leather shoes, a backpack and a beautiful dress, a good woman will not say that the money is gone, of course, she also wants these good things, but she thinks more about her man and future life, men are money-making pickpockets, women are money-saving boxes, No matter how big the rake is, the bottom is useless, I hope the landlord will think about it and investigate his girlfriend, in addition, you need to strengthen communication, tell her your thoughts, and talk to her well, the problem that has been developed for so long cannot be changed so quickly. As you get married, have children, and live on your own, everything should change. Love needs to be managed, and you have to be attentive.

At the same time, you have to work hard and wish you all happiness!

Don't give him money, women, just don't spoil the so-called "habit becomes natural", you can't satisfy him that day, and you understand the consequences.

There is no way, if you like it, you can continue, and if you don't like it, that's it.

Chinese are welcome to know how to enjoy.

Why is she lavish in flowers.

Do you know. If known.

Circulating ** disease.

It's clear that she doesn't love you.

If your girlfriend spends too much, then you can discuss with your girlfriend and give yourself the right to manage the finances, so that you can also control the amount of money your girlfriend spends.

It's normal for your girlfriend to spend too much, but it is recommended that you communicate with your girlfriend, after all, your financial level cannot satisfy your girlfriend.

I think it's normal for a girlfriend to spend too much money, if you really can't stand it, you can choose to break up, and it doesn't cost you money anyway.

You have to communicate well, whether you spend money indiscriminately or reasonably spend, if the first is the first case, you have to communicate with her for the sake of your future.

If the money is your girlfriend's, then you can't care how she likes to spend it, if she spends your money, it means that she will only ask for it, and if you still love her, you have to ask her to break this bad habit.

You can go and communicate with your girlfriend to see if her spending is reasonable, and if not, then you should help her to correct this bad habit.

Then you have to communicate well with your girlfriend, tell her what you think, I believe she will change, and if it doesn't work, you can choose to break up.

As the saying goes, in the eyes of a lover, such a willful and extravagant girlfriend may be nothing in the eyes of others, but it is a unique treasure in your heart. From your words, I can sense that your love for him is definitely not as deep as a day or two. But the reality is very helpless, you are all students, you are not a boss with a lot of money, you can squander it if you have a lot of money, and she is not a fledgling little girl, she can be wanton and willful.

I think you are both rational thinking people, I believe that true love is to give to each other rather than blindly taking, and true love should only make people feel relaxed and happy, rather than smiling under material pressure. If a love can only be sustained by material money, then it has essentially lost the full meaning of love.

Of course, this is only a rational analysis, however, people who are caught in feelings are often irrational, and based on these two points, I will give you a small proposal. I think you have two options. The first:

If she is all you have, and you will lose the courage to live without her, then try to transform her as much as possible. Tell a white lie directly, telling her that you have lost a lot and the money has been spent. I believe that if she loves you deeply, she will think about you, comfort you, and even support you with actions.

Then if so, then you can still be saved. On the contrary, if he doesn't treat you with a good face, then, divide it, this society is like this, no matter how much you have loved, no matter what you have experienced, or what you feel you owe her, once you don't love it, it doesn't matter. At least, love is not a child's play to be forced!

So, even if you owe her, don't repay her with affection! The second option, if you don't really love you very much now, then refer to what I said and leave decisively. No one would think that is a sign of immaturity or irresponsibility.

Well, finally, I would like to send you a word: love is a lifelong thing, please be careful! I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart...

You should take the initiative to talk to her, tell her about your future plans, and tell her your truest thoughts. Don't blindly get used to her, that will only get worse. The days are still long, and the ordinary is true.

If the relationship between the two can only be maintained by money, what is the difference and what is the point of trading?

This girl is very ignorant.

You should talk to her seriously.

If this is ugly, it is called a loser.

If you don't make it clear to her.

Do you dare to spend your life with her?

Such a girl simply likes to find someone to pay, where is the feeling, don't continue, because she is too inconsiderate of you.

Your girlfriend should be in her 20s and less than 30.

If you and your girlfriend don't have a conflict.

Let's talk about it ... If she were kind and sensible and loved you, she would change a little ...

She's very immature, and as a man, you should guide her to maturity, not indulge her immaturity.

You know, if a girl really loves you and words, then she will save you money, just like me, hehe... Instead, she sees and is only your money ...

Tell her honestly, if you are sensible, she will understand you.

As long as you can bear it, then be tolerant.

If you can accept her consumption concept, you can get along well, and if you can't accept it, you can either persuade her to consume rationally, or say goodbye to her. Judging from your conversation, it seems that you don't have any firm position, and you immediately compromise on what she says. It is still recommended that two people have a good run-in, after all, it is not easy to fall in love, depending on your age and values.

Seeing the bill she posted, it really cost so much! Although she makes more money and spends more, you have to take into account that there will be pressure to be with her in the future, unless you have an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, otherwise it is not enough for her to spend, and your values are different, in the process of chatting with her, she has felt that you will not be willing to spend too much money on her in the future, you are a more frugal boy, very good at living, you feel that you can't afford to meet her!

This is a difference in the concept of consumption, I feel that this problem will definitely quarrel often after it is not solved, I feel that it is better to think about it, see how to neutralize it, and express my opinion.

Using your money? I think the wall breaker is worth more than 2,000, just buy a wall breaker 2000, I don't think it's a big deal, this is something that will be used for many years in the future, you should buy it. As for clothes, bags, if you buy 2000, it really depends on the family's background, and those should be worn for a year, maybe not.

Only when there is more money can it be burned.

When you are looking for a girlfriend, you should know his usual expenses, otherwise who would dare to chase it, you have to be mentally prepared for this, but she can't blindly use you as an ATM, after all, it is not easy to make money, doesn't she count it in her heart?

It's possible that this is a **, and the wall breaker is not reliable at all.

Blame yourself, when you were looking for such a loser's wife, one day you mortgaged your house to buy things to see what you do, you can talk to your parents, because the old people generally know how to measure and will not be like young people, remember to adopt.

I think she's very willful, and she won't think about it, if she really cares about you and thinks about your family in the future, I don't think she will spend like this, maybe she's too childlike now, she hasn't taken these into account.

This girl won't be interested in your money, she is a material woman, she won't be considerate of you, you said so, I think you need to be good and I will talk to her.

I want to tell her to be diligent and thrifty, and not to spend money that should not be used indiscriminately.

From the fact that you spend money very much, it is not difficult for me to see that your girlfriend is more powerful than you can bear. As the saying goes: live a life, not a face.

But now a lot of people ignore that! Think face above all else! It's not as big as the rich, some are money, and they can't spend it all, but I also want to have what they have, what should I do?

There is no need to get married, because your tirade is enough to tell everyone about your entanglements and sadness. Under this kind of pressure, you are bound to collapse. After getting married, children also have to spend money, and at that time, you will be even more miserable.

A good love and marriage should be happy. But are you happy now.

If you feel that you can't support your girlfriend's expenses, you can divide it, I think 2000 yuan, it's okay, is your girlfriend spending your money.

Friend, you need to weigh it up.

1.The conflict of ideas between the two is in**? Because of the difference in cognition, your girlfriend focuses on the function and ignores **; You focus on ** and ignore the practical features.

In fact, at this time, you need to calm down and talk, and before the different concerns have not evolved into contradictions, do a communication, and spend more time with your girlfriend on the one hand; On the one hand, in the face of consumption, it is best to have a specific understanding first, such as what is the function of the things you buy, and what is your girlfriend doing recently? Consumption is high, her opinion, etc., it is best to calm down and talk face-to-face, do not be reckless, don't blame your girlfriend directly, and make a better decision after understanding the whole situation.

2.Nothing is known before consumption. Maybe for your girlfriend, this ** is normal, but for you, it's not good news, because you didn't explain it, you didn't even have time to make a judgment and negotiate with your girlfriend whether to buy, etc., in fact, you are more inclined to negotiate with both parties.

Finally, after understanding the whole situation, you can talk to your girlfriend patiently, explain the situation, and slowly help your girlfriend get rid of this habit in the future.

Have money, or spend so much.

She really loves you and will save you money.

Eh, now girls are almost like this, including me's girlfriend, who is in tears, trying to move bricks to earn money.

Control her, how to spend money like running water.