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I don't have the right to make you give up, but I think the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, let alone an excuse for a negative life, giving up is a rational choice, a kind of cherishing, a kind of beauty, a deeper love. There is a saying that has not been said: sometimes the fate must be there, and the hit is not always forced.
Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice is lost. In life, we are always making choices, giving up, only by giving up, we can find the opportunity to truly belong to our own life, so that we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, in order to be painful and happy, in order to live happily. When we can't have or give him or her happiness, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly?
Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling. Therefore, I would like to say that only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, feel the pain, and have real happiness, instead of indulging and avoiding, let alone forcing joy and forced forgetting.
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Giving up everything seems to be very simple, but after really giving up everything, if she changes her mind, what will you do? Will you regret it? If it were me, I would see if she was worth it for me to do, and if it was, I wouldn't hesitate.
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That's a no-no! First, you don't live just for a certain woman. Second, no woman would appreciate such an impulsive man!
There's so much more, don't give it all up! Love is great, but love is not everything, only rational love can be stable and lasting, happy and happy! Momentary impulses are only exchanged for short-term joy, so, think again!
Think!!
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It's not good to give up everything. Don't want your home and money? Mom and Dad don't want it? Don't want a lover? I don't.
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I'm in love with a guy, I will! I'm a girl.
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I don't know anyone else, at least I'll give up everything.
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If you like someone, can you be with them forever? No, it's not that you can be together if you fall in love, and sometimes, for reasons that you can't help but live in, or because of personal choice, you have to separate. In daily life, there are a lot of helplessness to face, if the two can join hands and resist side by side, they may be able to rush through the level, get the result they are most looking forward to, and be with the person they like.
But there are still some situations that are that no matter how diligent you are, the result is still after all, even if you have regrets, you have to choose separation, and at this time, you know what it means to love and not to love. For a woman, when she has made a decision, it is difficult to change her affection, a woman loves you deeply, but chooses to leave you, basically three reasons.
The fallen leaves are not yellowing day by day, people's hearts are not getting cold a little bit, when a woman is disappointed in you, she has basically experienced it step by step. In the process, she has given you a chance, and she has struggled painfully, but she can't find the courage to persevere, and the day she is completely disappointed in you is also the time to go.
Don't always think that if a person loves you, she will wait for you in the same place, and when she can't love it, she will never love again, and the girl will leave resolutely. If one day, she chooses to leave you, not necessarily because she doesn't love you anymore, but because she is disappointed in you in her heart, so disappointed that she doesn't want to forgive you, and so disappointed that she doesn't want to go back to the past.
In the relationship, some girls are the most sensible, girls will consider the relationship between you, and if you can't go to the end, you will give up decisively. Some people may think that they are so ruthless, or that they are not loving enough to be like this, but some people are rational on the surface, and their hearts are turbulent, and they just don't want to be seen.
When she understands that you have no future, she will choose to let go, not because she doesn't love, but because she loves to the depths and has no results, it is better to separate early, and she will not be more and more reluctant. You must know that many things in this world are not allowed to be decided by others, especially in emotional matters, which will go through a lot of tempering, and once you give up, the result can only be separation.
Most women are kind-hearted, especially when dealing with the person they love, and they will prefer to think about others and do not want to burden her. If she appears, it will drag you down, and it will also increase a lot of work pressure for you, and the girl will choose to leave, maybe it will make the other party very painful, but maybe it is the best choice, it is better than one day, you are strangers, and then you give up, and even a little self-esteem will be gone.
Some people may say that "there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain", but everyone's idea is different, and some people feel at the beginning that she is not worthy of you, or you are beyond the reach of the dust, she will never try again. If a woman is unwilling to drag you down and finally chooses to give up on you, then don't ask for extravagance, she must have thought through the decision to make later, but if there is a second choice, she will not do this.
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Maybe she has something unspeakable. It may be that she suffers from some disease and can't **, and she doesn't want to drag you down for the rest of your life. Or maybe she can't have children and doesn't want you to regret it, so she chooses to give up on you. Or someone coerced her to leave you, and she had no choice but to leave you.
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It must be because of the reality that you don't have money and your parents don't agree, or he has his own struggles.
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The other party is unwilling to pay for the relationship, is too selfish, and does not consider the thoughts of others; disappointed in the relationship, unable to see the future of the two.
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Giving up her principles and bottom line, giving up her job, giving up her dignity, and giving up her true thoughts shows that she really loves you.
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When a woman is willing to give up everything she has to be with you, it means that she truly loves you and wants to be with you.
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That must be giving up your career for you, being willing to be a housewife, or giving up your future.
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Foreword: Love is one of the strongest human emotions, and it can make people give everything for it. But to what extent is it worth sacrificing for love? This question will ** this question and give some relevant suggestions.
1.At the expense of material interests.
For the sake of love, many people will sacrifice some material benefits, such as giving up high-paid jobs and spending their savings on love. These decisions may cause some difficulties in their lives, but some people will find it worth it if they are able to be with their lovers.
2.Sacrifice personal development.
Some people will give up their personal development for the sake of love, such as giving up their studies and hobbies. This sacrifice may affect one's future, but if you are able to be with your lover, some people will think that it is worth it.
3.Sacrificing social life.
In order to be with their loved ones, some people will give up their social life, such as giving up contact with friends, participating in social activities, etc. This sacrifice can make you feel lonely and lost, but if you can be with your lover, some people will think it's worth it.
4.Sacrificing health and safety.
Some people sacrifice their health and safety for love, such as giving up their health** for the sake of being with their lover, going to dangerous places for the sake of being with their lover, etc. Such sacrifices are very dangerous and should be considered with caution.
Summary: How much to sacrifice for love is a personal choice, but it should be carefully considered. If the cost of sacrifice is too great, it may affect one's future and quality of life.
Before making a decision, one should consider the future of yourself and your loved one, and whether the sacrifice is worth it.
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can't be stupid and give up his dignity for him, can't give up his family talking about himself for him, can't give up his bottom line for him, can't give up his life of traveling with him, can't give up his pursuit for him.
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You can't give up your life for each other, give up your job, give up your friendship, don't take your feelings as the whole of life, don't give up on yourself.
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You can't give up your dignity, your job, your original life, and your circle of friends for him.
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felt that love could fill the regrets of life, but later found out that it created a lot of regrets, but it was love. I love you so much, but you make me so sad. The end of every relationship is not overnight, and it is often enough to accumulate disappointment.
Love is very tiring and bitter in the depths, if you want to let you go, you can also let yourself solve it. When a lady explicitly gives up on a relationship, there are the following specific manifestations. Becoming indifferent I have seen some people after they have never known how to cherish them, and they have to wait for the other party to leave, before they suddenly realize that they have clearly changed their past mistakes.
But you should know that no one can wait for you all the time. Love, once you miss it, it is really missed by the tomb. Miffy is the most fashionable girl I've ever seen, but she fell in love and lost herself.
She burns for love, the desperate kind, and thinks that her dedication can heal the lovelorn him. But she either looked down on herself, and he couldn't get out, or he didn't want to come out at all. She gave him all the enthusiasm she had, but she didn't get it back to impress.
Before, he thought that he was about to pass, but the birth of his ex-girlfriend made him completely understand that his boyfriend had never loved her at all. Countless pains, sorrows, and pains came to her overwhelmingly, and it turned out that all of this was her own humiliation and wishful thinking.
Love to the depths was very tiring and too painful, so she decided to let go and stop dwelling. Put away your enthusiasm and sincerity, and slowly treat each other coldly and honestly. I will never care about boys again, care about this, care about that.
It wasn't until Miffy slowly disappeared into the boy's eyes that the boy realized what he had lost. But it has long been to no avail, everything is too late. More and more independent, every girl wants to be spoiled by a boy and become a princess.
But only if you love the right person, this wish can become a reality; Otherwise, it can only be a wish. I've seen girls who have been spoiled by boys as princesses, and I've also seen girls who have been missed by boys and live as a team in their own right. When a girl feels that she is loved, she can remove every defense she has; In your arms, be an empathetic girl and accept your protection and care.
But once she doesn't feel deeply loved, at this moment, she will put on her armor again. Women will gradually become independent and can no longer rely on you; Although I couldn't at the beginning, after all, I was really spoiled by you and used you. But once she has made up her mind to leave you, she will never rely on you again; Even if something difficult happens, she would rather ask someone for help than ask you again.
She was stunned to be an empathetic little woman who became a female man who could carry her life. If you accuse her of why she didn't ask you for help, she will laugh it off. Indeed, people who do not love themselves wholeheartedly are indeed unreliable.
It is also an eternal truth that the mountains will fall, but only by relying on oneself can we stand.
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will be very calm, no longer have any expectations of the other party, and be particularly indifferent to the other party, which is generally like this.
If you meet your beloved in your life, you can say that you are lucky, and no matter how it ends, you can be said to be happy, right? It is good to grow old, if you break up, or are sad for love, you are also very happy, after all, you have loved, you are crying for love, you are heartbroken for love, once very romantic, two people can be crazy under the winter wind, stroll under the summer rain, even if the original lover has gone away, but the romantic plot when you are in love is still buried in your heart, isn't this also a very happy thing?
It depends on what kind of relationship you have, if it's a boyfriend or girlfriend in love, and you suddenly come up with such a sentence, maybe she will be completely confused. If you can't catch up with someone for a long time, she may breathe a sigh of relief or a little loss when she says this. If you're just secretly crushing, and then suddenly come up with such a sentence, she may think that you are insane.
Yes, with a lifetime, responsible for her.
That's full of the future.
will be especially disappointed in you and will no longer contact you.