How should a marriage with a son be resolved? 30

If the child is sure to be yours, (as far as I think) I think you are too irresponsible, what do you say about marriage for children, divorce or for children? You are responsible for your significant other and your children, which is your responsibility and the minimum moral criterion as a person.

What made you think about separation? Is it because you don't feel it, or do you already like someone else?

How can you say you have a baby after a few months of breakup?

You're very resolute, but she's never let go, even if they're not together, she doesn't give up, she needs someone to help her untie her knots---

Take her for psychological counseling;

find someone to do work for her;

If you insist that you can initiate legal proceedings for divorce, the key is that she can't have an accident;

Can you talk to her well, first of all, if she doesn't divorce, why doesn't she want to leave --- face; Child; Feelings, find out the reason to help her.

You can give her whatever she wants, and if you need more money, give her more, it's not easy for women.

I think that the marriage of Fengzi may not be happy, the woman is unexpectedly pregnant, and the marriage is used as a fig leaf, such a marriage is too hasty.

Many couples can't control their inner impulses during the love period, and will do something out of the ordinary, and girls often can't stand their boyfriend's sweet words, in case of unexpected pregnancy, they will only be very passive. If the other party is not worthy of your lifelong trust, even if you get married, you may not be happy.

My cousin was married to Fengzi, and he met a boy when he was working and pursued her, and the two soon moved in together, and my cousin became pregnant. When she got married, she found out that her boyfriend's family was in a poor rural area, and she instantly had a feeling of being deceived.

First, the marriage of Fengzi is generally a flash marriage, which is a helpless move, and there is no way out for him.

Marriage is by no means the product of impulse, but the collision and appreciation of two hearts, if you get married because of an unexpected pregnancy, then there will inevitably be a lot of contradictions in the future, because your character and three views are not necessarily suitable, lack of depth of understanding between each other, and simply cannot bear the responsibility of marriage. There are many cruelties in marriage, and there are too many trivial things that will consume each other's patience, and marriage is not as good as imagined.

Second, Fengzi married and lacked thinking about marriage, but he didn't know that marriage was the union of two families, not the impulse of two people.

The marriage of a child is generally decided by two people privately, without the consent of their parents at all, and if the two people are not in the right household, then they will definitely be opposed by their parents. Marriage is a lifelong event, if the woman meets a scumbag, gets pregnant unexpectedly and gets married, then this marriage is destined to make her full of holes.

Third, girls should have self-respect and self-love when they fall in love, strive for the opinions of their parents, and try not to marry their children.

Girls must not be deceived by their boyfriend's sweet words, they must remain mentally independent in love, have the ability to think for themselves, and do not lose themselves in romantic love. Marriage and love are two different things, love can not pay attention to firewood, rice, oil and salt, but marriage must be built on a material basis.

If you marry a child, you will only have no way out, and only by self-esteem and self-love can a girl grasp the initiative in love and have her own happiness.

If you get married simply because of your children, you won't be happy. But the two have a solid emotional foundation and have the crystallization of love, then their marriage will be very happy, and life will get better and better.

If these two people have the same personality and have each other in their hearts, they will still reap the happiness of marriage. It's just that they may feel sorry because this wedding was for their children and not for themselves.

Of course, it won't be happy, because there is an element of persecution in this kind of marriage, and it will naturally lose a lot of color.

Most will not be happy. Because it is not right for a girl to get pregnant before she gets married, and it will also make the man's family look down on her, of course, we do not rule out exceptions.

I don't think it will be happy, after all, two people will get married because of their children, and there may be a lot of conflicts.

Of course, it will not be happy, because the marriage of two people is mixed with other factors, which will make this marriage full of variables.

I don't think the marriage of Fengzi is actually not happy, and most of it ends in pain.

will definitely not be happy, because the two people are not just married because of their feelings, but they are forced to be helpless.

"Fengzi gets married", is it really happy, a few stories tell you the reality.

No. Most people have been in a relationship more than once. There is no question of everyone's infidelity to their feelings, and there is no mockery.

I just want to express the emotional trend of the current society. My friends and classmates have also gotten married and had children one after another, but what I see the most is getting married to my son. Of course, I'm not saying that marriage is bad or belittling.

It's just that a friend recently came to me to talk about her quasi-marriage experience, and I was suddenly impressed by Fengzi's marriage. A friend told me that she was five months pregnant, and she had to prepare for the banquet and wedding banquet, set up a file and set up a card, live in the child after birth, and live in the future marriage.

I listened to it with a confused expression, and suddenly realized that I was so tired of getting married. And this kind of tiredness is just her alone, so isolated. But they haven't registered their marriage, they haven't bought a house yet, and they haven't discussed it clearly.

Is it really good to marry such a son? I'm not completely denying it, because they have children, and they're five months old, and they're going to kick people in the stomach.

If I say, no, stop, this is not the life I want at this time, then the child in the womb will be very sad to hear it? The friend continued, she and the man are in a long-distance relationship, and the man is reluctant to go to her city after marriage, and the man's family has also prepared a wedding room, which is to refresh the house in the village, which is a ready-made wedding room.

And the bride price has also dropped from the original negotiation. So.

Twenty or thirty thousand. When I said this, I couldn't help but ask my friend, why did the price drop? My friend shuddered a little weakly at me.

She said: "Because I had a child with him before I got married, and their family thinks that they have children anyway, is it possible that you still beat the child?" You won't run away, so the marriage, the bride price, and the future of the house are all up to their family.

Anyway, they are all from their family, so how to save money, how to save trouble, how to come. ”

After listening to my friend's words, I suddenly felt so surprised. There are countless question marks in my heart. Why does Fengzi have to look at people's faces when they get married, and they are arranged at will?

Let me ask again, what is your boyfriend's attitude? My friend's face became even more ugly, he choked up for a long time, exhaled, and said, "I sent him a lot of messages, talking about all kinds of problems encountered in marriage preparations, and my boyfriend sent him away in two or three words."

's not the point. ”

Looking at the scene where my friend said that tears felt like they were going to fall down all the time, I suddenly felt that the marriage of Fengzi really requires caution and courage. Perhaps those who have experienced the marriage of a son have also encountered all kinds of helplessness and come together. Formed a family, it seems that life is also good.

But I hope they're doing well. Otherwise, how tired the child is, how tired is that environment! In fact, every time I go to my friends' weddings, I am very happy!

But when a friend came to talk to me about her prospective marriage experience, I was not worthy of my friend. Although when the love is strong, the two are happy, we don't praise it, but the marriage of Fengzi is really too risky, and it is possible to regret it for life.

If it is a planned pregnancy after an engagement, it is normal, and for men, the presence of a child can make them feel responsible. Only when a man makes up his mind to marry you will get married in a hurry because the other party is pregnant and give the other party the most beautiful love home. But if you don't make up your mind, then this kind of marriage will be farther and farther away from happiness.

I think this kind of marriage is unhappy, because there is no love, and they don't help each other, they just marry their sons.

Yes! Generally, in this case, two people have been together for a long time, and they have decided to be together, but they didn't expect things to be so sudden, but they just advanced the marriage, which was a bit rushed.

It's going to be happy, my friend got married with his son, and now they have a very cute son, and they have a good relationship with their husband.

I don't think the marriage of Fengzi will be happy because their marriage was forced, and it is not that the two of them love each other.

I don't think a happy marriage will be happy because there is no love between them, just because of the children alone.

I don't think so, because of love marriage, after marriage, the husband will spoil you more, because the child gets married, there is no way to choose to get married, after marriage, the man will feel that he has no freedom, it is the child who traps him, and he is unwilling to accept it.

I think they are unhappy, because they were forced to go to Liangshan, and this kind of marriage has no emotional foundation. I'm not very optimistic.

will be happy, many people are going to get married after getting along for a long time, but the child suddenly came and accelerated the progress.

I think that the marriage of Fengzi will be happy, because having a child is a crystallization of love, and love can also be cultivated.

"Fengzi gets married", is it really happy, a few stories tell you the reality.

Most of the girls around me are like this, aren't they all doing well?

It depends on the situation.

From a personal point of view, different people choose marriage for different purposes, and even many people enter marriage in order to behave like a normal social person, especially many marriages with children. In the case of Fengzi's marriage, part of it is a misfire, and you can only push the boat down the river, and you will be wrong; There are also many who have ulterior motives and use the womb to kidnap an unequal relationship in order to achieve their ulterior motives.

In essence, the marriage relationship is the most profound social relationship that can have a powerful impact on the lives of both parties. It directly affects the stability and extension of other social relations.

The main reasons for divorce are:

1.One of the parties is bigamy.

2.a person who has a spouse cohabiting with another person;

3.committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

4.One party has gambling, drug addiction and other vices that have been repeatedly taught;

5.The parties have been separated for two years due to emotional discord.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

What is the best marriage? It is said that a marriage that follows the steps step by step, is recognized and blessed by both parents, and is recognized and blessed by friends, is the most perfect marriage and a marriage worth entering. So, if you marry a child, it is obvious that you are not following the established steps of marriage, and it is normal for you to feel anxious in your heart, because you yourself will think that it is wrong for you to do this, you can't convince yourself, but you can't do anything about it, because you are pregnant.

After entering the marriage, maybe you will find thatThe marriage you are looking forward to is far from the current marriage, and you even have the idea of wanting to escape, but it seems that you can't escape, because if you escape, you will lose, and you will lose completely. Therefore, it is very important to be at peace when you come, since you have been married to your son, since you have entered the marriage, even if you feel that there is a gap, you must work hard to adapt, don't rush to conclusions, and don't repeat mistakes.

If you think that it is a mistake to marry a child, then it is a mistake for you to be confused when you enter marriage, you want to escape from reality, you want to go back to the past. Marriage is not child's play, when you give yourself to a man, you should be mentally prepared to want to be with him for the rest of your life; When you enter into a marriage with a man, you should be prepared to want to grow old with him. When you find that you have decided the end point, as long as the process does not deviate too far, as long as it does not touch your principles and bottom line, manage the marriage well, and when the mentality is calm, happiness will naturally come.

Solve When you still want to solve the current confusion, it shows that you still want to live well, and you are looking forward to the future of you and your husband. Therefore, you should take the time to talk to your husband, tell him what you want, and if he can marry you, he will definitely be able to take care of you, tolerate you, help you, and love you well!

In fact, most women now marry with their sons, and the entertainment industry is no exception! However, as a person who has come over, I think that the major event of marriage should come step by step, and don't mess up the steps!

When you feel lost in your marriage, all you have to do is to calm down and think about it!