Stories and examples of what you would have to do unto others as you would have them do unto you

1.Dayu water control: Dayu is a leader in ancient times, in order to eliminate flood disasters, he led the people to open up nine waterways to bring floods into the sea.

Although the process was time-consuming and labor-intensive, he succeeded in eliminating disasters for his own people and those of neighboring countries. This is the spirit of pushing oneself and others, and his actions embody the moral principle of "do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

2.Roosevelt and the Naval Base: Roosevelt was an American a**.

Once, when a friend of his asked him if he would build a naval base on an island in the Caribbean, Roosevelt said he could keep it a secret, and so could his friends. This embodied the principle of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", because Roosevelt did not want his friend to know the information if he could not keep it a secret.

3.Li Ning's textbook: Li Ning is a student, and when he was handing out a new textbook, he found that his textbook was a little damaged, so he avoided this one and took a good textbook.

Although no one else liked the broken textbook, he did not impose it on others, which embodies the principle of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

These stories and examples illustrate the moral principle of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," a way of life that respects others and considers their feelings.

In fact, to put it bluntly, you can learn to empathize, what you don't like, you can't push it to others, provided that you are especially a good friend and like to do it; Maybe it's someone else, maybe he likes to do it, but you have to find a way to get him to say it himself, not you to push it to him. After all, it's something you don't like, and if someone else doesn't like it, and you don't like it either, what would you think?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

1. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius's student Zhong Gong asked Confucius how to behave in the world in order to be benevolent? Confucius immediately said: "A person should treat others seriously, don't impose on others what he doesn't like, and don't complain whether he is in the court or in the opposition."

Zhong Gong thanked, "Although I am sluggish, I must remember my husband's words."

2. In social situations, some people don't smoke or drink themselves, but because they ask for others, or for some reason, they will always toast to others, regardless of whether the other party likes it or not.

3. In family life, there are also such situations, parents and children, siblings, husband and wife, forcing others to do things they don't like to do, such things will happen often, and in their eyes, it is still taken for granted.

4. Throwing garbage while driving on the highway. In fact, caring for the environment is secondary, key drivers know that even a small obstacle can cause an accident at high speeds, so you may see a driver on the street occasionally throwing a mineral water bottle out of the window, but very few drivers dare to throw a mineral water bottle on the highway.

Because this matter is not only about your own safety, but also about the safety of others, and the safety of a general environment also affects your own safety.

5. During the Warring States Period, the Liang State and the Chu State were adjacent to each other, and the two countries set up boundary pavilions on the border, and the pavilion soldiers planted watermelons in their respective boundaries. The pavilion guards of the Liang State were very diligent, they weeded and watered the watermelons, and the melon seedlings grew very well; However, the pavilion guards of the Chu State were very lazy, and no one was willing to manage the melon fields, and the melon seedlings were thin and weak. Out of jealousy, the Chu people crossed the border at night and tore off all the melon seedlings of the Liang State.

When he got up early in the morning, Liang Guoren was angry when he found that his melon seedlings were torn off. So, he reported to the county order Song and prepared to tear off the melon seedlings of Chu State. Song said:

It is indeed despicable for the Chu people to do this. However, if we don't want them to tear off our seedlings, why should we turn around and tear off other people's seedlings?

The ancients said, 'Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and from today onwards, you must quietly water and weed their melon fields every night so that their seedlings can grow better.' ”

The pavilion guards felt that Song Jie's words were very reasonable, so they did what he said. A few days have passed, and the Chu people are very happy to find that their melon seedlings are growing better day by day. But if I looked closely, I found that someone had watered the melon field every day, and it was the people of Liang who quietly watered it for them.

After hearing the report of the pavilion guards, the county magistrate of the border county of Chu State felt ashamed and admired the people of Liang Guo.

So, he reported the matter to the king of Chu. When the king of Chu heard this, he was deeply moved by the sincerity of Liang's peace and neighbors, and specially prepared a heavy gift for Liang to show his self-reproach and deep gratitude.

Don't impose what you don't want on others, explain how to deal with people, think more from the other party's point of view, and understand the other party's thoughts and needs.