Do you think my mate selection criteria are high, and what are your mate selection criteria?

I don't know what your own conditions are, but I think your requirements are indeed high, much higher than mine.

You have to be handsome, you have to have a certain amount of power, and you have a cheerful personality and are very open in society... There are some such men in society, the problem is that the conditions of the people are good, the requirements of the people are also high, and the people are also very picky!

My husband is about the same height as me, less than 1.7 meters, and his family has been a poor farmer for generations, and he himself is a small civil servant, who can only support his family and has no chance of making a fortune. The personality is more introverted and not sociable, but people are still very optimistic and cheerful. . . Tolerant and considerate ...

I think that's enough to have that, he's reliable and loves me a lot. We had a great time together. My husband said that if he was rich, he would look for a star, a model... Hee-hee.

I don't think it's too appropriate to set the standard for choosing a mate.,It's more of a feeling.,I don't know if you've been in love.,If it's just a standard to find.,I'll definitely regret it in the future.,The feeling is more important than anything else.,After all, it's a lifelong thing.,Unless。。。

The standard is not high, I have such a friend around me who is the same as what you said, but the criteria for choosing a mate that I thought about before may completely change after you meet the person you like, so it still feels the most important.

It's okay not to be tall, really.

Take your time.

Just a person who really likes you, don't look for someone who doesn't like you. That's a lifetime of pain.

It depends on how good you are, and it is possible to find a needle in a haystack, let alone find a spouse.

Not high, really....I fit it all haha...

1. Those who are taller than themselves, older than themselves, and more mature in mindYou can't be like a child, and then in terms of image, you can't be sloppy, you can't dress simply and capably, you can't be too fancy, you can't talk decently, and what kind of things you say to someone.

2. Don't be too carefulAll day long, what is done is measured, self-motivated, do not ask what kind of family background, how much money, as long as you can take care of the family, and there is a responsibility to be together.

3. The personality should be normalBe responsible, but have a short temper, like to beat and scold people, have a dark mentality, don't know what to do, love to brag, love to gamble, alcoholism, stingy, too honest and cowardly, and don't know how to be flexible Men should be excluded.

Get along. 1. Know how to take turns apologizing.

In a relationship, there will inevitably be contradictions, conflicts, quarrels, disharmony and disharmony, and difficulties in reaching an agreement. People also make mistakes, there will be times when they are impulsive, there will be times when words do not reach the meaning, or when the expression is inaccurate and hurt the other person.

2. Never a cold war.

During the Cold War, two people will think about everything, and even become discouraged because of anger, so they will turn to find other people of the opposite sex or friends, open their hearts to chat, go back and forth, and even go to ambiguity to seek comfort.

My view of mate selection is actually changing, it should be said that it is constantly adjusted, enriched and complete, and it is still constantly enriching and adjusting, and in general, it has gone through three stages.

The standard in high school - the single thing is to study well.

When I was in high school, the kind of boy who studied well attracted me the most, but at that time I was still shy about love, I liked the first place in the class at that time, not good-looking, chubby, very slow to speak, with big glasses, is now often said to be a science and engineering man in Mune, but just "study well" This thing is enough to attract me, and now I think about it a little "chasing stars" feeling, after all, in high school, it is the academic performance.

When I was in college, I liked "like-mindedness", but in fact, "people who played with me".

I don't know why, when I got to college, it seemed that "studying" was suddenly not important, on the playground, in the club, in the student union, those activists, seemed to be more able to attract my attention, I was really in love in my sophomore year, my boyfriend was a more cheerful boy, I met in physical education class, took me to exercise, participated in various parties, climbed mountains on weekends, day trips, etc., and now I think about it was really carefree love at that time.

Now that I have experienced the baptism of society, the polishing of love and many years of blind date experience, my mate selection criteria are - three views. I have also made a concrete summary as follows:

Character first

In the process of choosing a mate, character is very important, and the character I understand is: at least when you first come into contact, he will not flirt with you, and he knows how to respect himself. When two people are together, they want to give you time to fall in love from time to time.

Academic qualifications are secondary

A person's academic background reflects the circle he has come into contact with, his experience, and those who left society and university early, and their conversation and thinking are always a little different. However, these are the run-ins in the early stage of development, and if you can get through the run-in period, you can do it

Like each other

There is a bad street saying: Love goes both ways, I don't need to say more.

Moving forward together

A boy's self-motivation is reflected in whether he is conscientious at work, and all the purpose of work is for the family, then this boy is self-motivated and responsible enough. A girl's self-motivation is reflected in whether she takes care of everything in the family, whether she has her own interests in life, and whether she is mentally and materially independent.

Complementary interests

A boy who loves to play games and a girl who loves to listen to songs must not go together? No. They have their own hobbies, which is just the right time to give each other some independent space.

Family background is also important

In the past, I always felt that the family background was the business of the previous generation, and the future life was created by the two of us. But I found that now marriage is a matter of two families, and a good family background is the stable rear of a small family.

I later found out that when I was young, there was no pressure to survive, when I was in love, everything was beautiful, and marriage was to live at home, firewood, rice, oil and salt were the most abrasive, coarse tea and light rice were the most hurtful, and having a stable emotional and responsible partner was the most important. I hope that my one will come soon.

I am an emotional person with real criteria for choosing a mate. However, I can try to give some possible criteria for choosing a mate based on some universalities of human existence:

1.Attraction to each other: Attraction to your partner at the beginning is the most basic selection criterion. Usually this kind of attraction is not only physical attractiveness, but also other aspects of strength, such as personality, emotions, common interests, etc.

2.Similar values: Similar values can make it easier for two people to communicate and understand each other. For example, if both partners value family, then two people are more likely to create a harmonious family together.

3.Similar hobbies: Shared hobbies can make two people more common when they are together, and they are more likely to form deep feelings.

4.Similar lifestyle: A similar lifestyle can enhance mutual trust and understanding between two people. If both people enjoy travel and outdoor activities, they are more likely to plan and implement their travel plans together.

5.Mutual support and understanding: Emotional support and understanding from both parties can strengthen the relationship between two people and build a deeper bond.

If one person is facing challenges in their career or life, the other person can give the best advice and encouragement so that the two of them can go further together.

In conclusion, the truest criteria for choosing a mate vary from person to person, as everyone has their own unique needs and desires. However, these criteria should serve as a general reference, as they reflect the aspects that humans most often pay attention to when choosing a mate.

The first thing is to have your own independent financial ability, and the second is love.

Money, conduct, and in the later stages of marriage, money is the main pillar.

1. Gentleness.

No man wants to find a woman like a "female man" to live his life, and any man hopes that his other half is gentle and generous, tender and tender. When he is lonely, he can have a gentle greeting, and when he is upset, he can stay quietly by his side.

Such a woman, he can control it, and he will also feel very relieved.

I believe that gentleness must be the standard for many men to choose a mate. Choose a woman who is gentle like water, so that a man can get real stability and satisfaction in his later life. Therefore, if you want a man to love you, first you have to cultivate yourself and be a gentle woman.

2. Virtuous. Men don't need to choose a strong woman, life needs to compromise with each other, and a woman who is too strong will not be at ease. Because such a woman often doesn't pay too much attention to her family.

Virtuous is the criterion for a man to choose a woman, and for a man's parents to choose a daughter-in-law. A virtuous woman, ingenious, always amiable in speech and attitude, always silently at home, never a little complaint. Such a woman, both in terms of quality and behavior, is the most favored by men.

Therefore, if you fall in love with a man and want to be with him for the rest of your life, let him know that you are a virtuous woman and that you will give him a warm home.

3. Elegant. Intellectually elegant women are the most charming. Elegance reveals the noble temperament of a woman, and a woman with elegant manners can deeply attract men.

No man likes a woman who is smug all day long and doesn't look a little feminine, but an elegant woman exudes a woman's charm everywhere and fascinates men.

For many men, elegance is the criterion for him to choose his other half, because elegant women can always make men feel that they are tolerated and understood. This kind of married life is what men want most.

4.Self-cultivation.

A woman's face is only the initial and shortest beauty, and if a man wants to really find someone he likes, he will never look at how beautiful she looks and how delicate her face is, what he wants to find is a woman with connotation and cultivation, only such a woman will make a man affectionate.

A person's appearance is important, but a man is not stupid, he knows that his face will eventually grow old, and what will accompany him for the rest of his life is a woman's cultivation. Therefore, when choosing the other half, cultivation has become a very important criterion for choosing a mate.

5. Strong and independent.

Strong and independent women are not so-called "strong" women, they are people who have the ability to live independently. Able to have their own thoughts, be strong and independent, be able to make their own ideas in dealing with family matters, be comfortable in dealing with interpersonal relationships, and not pretentious, such a woman can make men look at it differently than those "vases" who have nothing to do all day long.

First, sincerity. People must be sincere in their dealings with each other. This is the most basic attitude towards communication. If the other party is not sincere, it is just a fool, and this kind of object can't even make friends, let alone live together for a lifetime. Therefore, the criteria for choosing a mate must first be sincere.

Second, a sense of security. Every woman wants a man to give her a sense of security. My criteria for choosing a mate are that both parties have a good impression of each other and that the other person takes good care of me. In other words, if I don't feel safe in the other person, then I lose the meaning of my choice.

Third, responsibility and responsibility. I think that a mature and stable man must have the responsibility and responsibility of a man. This is the standard of a mature man, and it is also the most basic requirement for a man.

A man without responsibility and responsibility is not worthy of a woman's love at all, let alone a happy life for a lifetime.

Fourth, respect. I believe that respect is the moral standard to measure a person, and it is also the minimum requirement for a person to be a person. Respect for others is actually respect for oneself. This is the most basic truth. Only by respecting each other can we love each other and have a happy life!

Fifth, dedication. Men must have their own careers, no matter what work you do, men must be self-motivated, have their own dedication, and love life, be aggressive, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they can solve them by themselves. Such a man is worthy of women's appreciation and worship!

Sixth, inclusiveness. Love is two-sided. As a woman, I yearn for the most beautiful love!

I look forward to the other party's tolerance. I believe that the two sides can live together by respecting and loving each other and tolerating each other. That's how you feel happy!

Only in this way can each other never abandon each other and live happily together.

These are my criteria for choosing a mate. Women must have their own criteria for choosing a mate. Respect your inner thoughts and be a happy woman!

My ideal marriage, a good relationship (to put it bluntly, emotionally compatible, there will be contradictions) and the mutual attraction of economy, ability, and status.

My requirements are what I do, and I don't dare to ask others to do so well, but I won't settle for some core ones (I will mark the core).

Recently, I've been looking for a partner, and my basic criteria are as follows (in fact, I basically follow the following guidelines for dating the opposite sex or the same sex).

1: It's okay to look five or six points without makeup, and I can't deserve it if it's too beautiful, haha.

2: The height cannot be less than one meter six, to be honest, I don't like Lori, I prefer Korean style.

3: (Core) Personality is strong and weak, neutral is fine, but it is necessary to be able to behave in the basic world, have a certain ability to handle affairs independently, and have an independent personality.

4.(Core) basic qualities: be polite to others, respect and love your parents, have a certain sense of frugality, have a certain psychological quality, have a certain self-motivation, treat relatives and friends with a certain degree of empathy, and have a certain courage (courage is not reckless).

5.Hobbies (just hobbies, but not demanding) :**, painting, dance, Chinese studies. Eating and traveling don't count, because I don't think these are tastes, they are only linked to their own economic strength).

6.Ideology: Have a certain degree of independent thinking ability, do not take the initiative to follow the crowd but are not too stubborn, it is best to have your own small views on the economy, culture and politics.

7.In terms of knowledge, my education is also a bachelor's degree, so I don't require it, but I must have a minimum of learning ability and a certain amount of patience.

8.Interpersonal Relationships: Good interpersonal relationships, I generally believe that the quality of friends determines the quality of your person.

9.Family conditions: I like to be a good person, my family is average, of course, I am talking about the right person is a combination of economic strength, ideological level, and family quality.

10.(core) love; There is a longing for love, but I also know the truth that only when I give, I know that I feel sorry for the other half of the deep selfishness is not worthy of love (my parents have a good relationship, so I am a teacher by my side), treat love seriously, cautiously, and single-mindedly (all tea, mounting, and cheapness basically stem from selfishness, vanity, and greed), and there is giving and giving.

I think I'm already very satisfied if I can meet the above, but it's actually very difficult, if there is a suitable one, you must introduce it to me, thank you very much.