Why can t I get what I want

There are a lot of people chasing you, which means that you are attractive.

You're just too inferior. Believe in yourself.

Others won't chase you for no reason, you must have a charm that you haven't discovered yet.

Be confident. Don't look at your shortcomings.

Think about your strengths and think about it more. People don't make perfect.

Don't be too demanding, it's only yourself who works hard.

It's not that you don't have anything, it's that you think too much, relax more, everyone has flaws, and others have troubles that you can't see.

I think first of all, you have to have faith in yourself.

A little optimism is better than anything else.

I don't think there's a hurdle that I can't get over.

Compare yourself with others.

Actually, you are happy. You're in luck.

You are a thinker, and you know that there are many ways to overcome your low self-esteem, but you can't do it, or you don't stick to it for a long time and finally give up!

If you think you're really bad, you're going to be the hardest! But you're not, you still have dreams, hopes, and the life you want. You're still a capable person.

You're not brave enough. Not strong enough. Since you want to achieve what you want, you should work hard to do it! Your previous efforts may not have been as good as you expected. But you can't give up either.

Have you ever seen the Paralympics, if you do it, you may succeed, and if you give up, you will have no chance at all.

First of all, money is earned by people, and you can earn it.

Wisdom? You can't judge yourself whether you're smart or not, and no one dares to say that they're smart.

You see Newton and Einstein, who said that he was smart and wise? Wisdom is for others to judge

The body can be exercised the day after tomorrow, if you are thin, you will eat more, and if you are fat, you will ** + exercise.

Good looks? Jokes about watching big stars how many are born Lishi? Aren't they all artificial beauties, shaped the day after tomorrow, no makeup, no brocade clothes, and ordinary people?

Friends The people you are asking about are all your friends Qin Hui How many other friends do you dare to say that there is no one?

Haven't you read Li Bai's poems? I was born to be useful There are also ancients: A woman has no talent to become virtuous.

Confident, you dare to post here, say the truth in your heart, you are already quite confident, I don't dare! Better than me.

Money, wisdom, beauty, figure, friends, talent, self-confidence, you have everything. Do you still dare to post ??

Dig haha give it to me, I am.

Your worst enemy is yourself.

How many people in China can know you? Then it's okay to die without confidence!

What are you afraid of: Go your own way and let others say go!

When you go your own way, others can go in five ways, and you will succeed!

You don't lack anything, only one thing, and that's self-confidence, try to get it back.

What you can't get is the best, and everyone is more interested in the mysterious people around you.

Find your strengths, admit them boldly, and reinforce them to boost your self-confidence and distract you.

I'd like to talk to you.

What you're saying is a ,.. I haven't had beforeBut now, at least I have self-confidence. And friends.

You can send. I think I can help you

There are a lot of things, even if we work hard, we can't get it, and some objective facts we can't control, but the more you want to get things, the more you pay attention to them, so you will feel that the more you want things, the more you can't get them, there will be many gains and losses in life, don't just care about gaining, sometimes losing is also a relief, and sometimes the feeling of not getting is happy.

As long as you keep your heart at peace, everything will be natural.

If you don't get all the things you want, you don't work hard enough. Work hard. will get what you want.

Hello, first of all, you must correct your mentality, and at the same time, don't worry too much, do your essential work well, and at the same time thirst for pragmatic things and you can't get all the things you want, which means that you are not working hard enough. Work hard. will get what you want.

If you don't get all the things you want, you don't work hard enough. Work hard. will get what you want.

If you don't get all the things you want, you don't work hard enough. Work hard. will get what you want.

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There are two kinds of things that everyone wants, one is what can be obtained after hard work, and the other is what cannot be obtained after hard work. When encountering the former, if you want to get it, you need to put in the effort, and if you can't get it, it only means that you don't work hard enough, so you should work harder in the next step instead of being self-indulgent. For the latter, don't be discouraged because you can't get it, and know how to relax your mind.

Hello, first of all, you must correct your mentality, and at the same time don't worry too much, do your essential work well, and at the same time desire pragmatic things.

Work hard to get better, and get what you want.

Dear, the fish in the abyss is not as good as retreating and closing the net.

If you want to get something, you have to give something in exchange, whether it's something concrete like money or abstract like respect. What you want has to be earned through your own efforts. So it's something to reflect on.

1. That is to say, before you want to get something, you must first ask yourself: What can I have? What can I be willing to give up?

For example, if you want to live with dignity and have a hard waist, you must inevitably have the hardships of personal struggle. For example, if you want to get good grades, you need to study hard day by day, there is no free pie in the sky, you have to work hard if you want something. That's how your life will be wonderful.

Second, you must know that most people in this world are willing to give others what they want after they give them what they want, and they often get less, because they give less, or they lack the courage to give first, and they are afraid that their efforts will be in vain and will not be rewarded. So a lot of people just think, can't act, and then give up on themselves. So what you want is not something you can just think about, you need to work hard to achieve it.

3. Few people can do it, to satisfy others first, help others get what they want, and then get what they want, the former is easy to do, and to do the latter often requires great courage. Therefore, for your own sake, you don't need to please others, you just have to be yourself, what you get through your own efforts is really your own, you must first have your own goals, you must have your own position.

Fourth, we can only help others to get what they want as much as possible, and then get what they want in the process, in this process there must be you help others to get what they want, but you don't get what you want, this is a matter of probability.

Because you are too demanding, because you are very yourself, because you are not calm in your heart, you are impetuous. Therefore, it is difficult for you to calm down and do a certain thing, so you will not be able to meet your heart's requirements!

If you like someone, try to take a few steps towards her. But if she sees you coming, she never wants to greet you. Then you stop and stop trying to get close to her and impress her.

Many things can be achieved by struggle, but love cannot. Love depends on two people attracting each other, not one person's efforts.

If you want to get what you want, the premise is that you have the ability, and we don't need to force what we can't get, because some things are not our own, they are not our own.

Thanks, things don't just get what you want to do, put your mindset at ease, don't let your mindset take over, it's like you have a very bad, very bad boss at work, you want to get your job, you fight for some of your own rights, you can't let him take it too hard, because sometimes we have to take some measures to deal with such people.

What you want must be obtained through hard work, and the wealth obtained through hard work can be enjoyed happily.

If you want to get what you want, you have the ability and ability to match it. It's impossible to get more than you can get if you want it.

In the end, people love their own desires, not what they want. 2. When you see a name, your heart will still fluctuate.

There are many things in life that are very attractive, such as a toy, a trip or a deeper spiritual pursuit, which will always bring people endless motivation and hope.

When you get or are satisfied, your heart changes. When you are pursuing your ideals and goals, your own views have changed in the process, so that you have a higher level of pursuit, and slowly your desire for knowledge will become stronger and stronger. This is a kind of growth and a kind of transformation, and my ideological realm has been improved, making myself more excellent.

People are sometimes like this, some things want to get, see so beautiful, and after getting it and don't want it, because it is the best to feel that you can't get it, a phrase often said, distance produces beauty like this, when you don't get it, you feel that the imagination is so beautiful, so attractive, when you get it, you find that it's just that, just let it go, so say everything is fate, don't force it, don't be greedy, it's yours is yours, not yours don't go for it, Life is still to leave more beautiful things, as well, we bloom very beautifully when we look at the flowers, when you want to have it, when you take it off, the flowers are gone, it's not so good, and take it off for yourself, it's better to put it there, everyone to watch.

Personally, I think that you want to have it because it has a certain curiosity that attracts you, and when you get it, you don't want it right away, but you don't want it after a while, because you already feel that it's not curious about you, so I think that's the answer you want!

Because after you get him, you wonder if it's worth it...

The meaning of this sentence is that some things, people or goals that were once pursued no longer desire or need them after some changes or growth.

It may be because of a change in one's values, hobbies, or life goals, or because of a setback or unpleasant experience in the pursuit of these things, which has caused oneself to lose interest or motivation in them.

This process is quite normal, and people continue to grow and develop with time and experience, and their former desires and goals may also change as a result. Therefore, when you no longer want the things you once pursued, it may mean that you have found a lifestyle and goals that are more suitable for you, or you realize that these things are not so important to you.

What you once couldn't get is now unwanted, which means that in the past, those things that you once wanted very much but couldn't get now seem to have no meaning, and even tired of it, and no longer want to pursue it. For example, the happiness that I once longed for, after all, I was disappointed and relieved; The love that I once eagerly hoped for, how much hurt I have experienced, but now I don't need to talk about it, I just let it go; The dream that I once tried my best to pursue, the confused pace, the years change, and today I no longer pursue. In short, what was once ungliding now does not want filial piety, which shows that a person has self-relief in his heart, a brave abandonment, and also reflects a more mature realm.

The past is the past, and it will fade into the present with the development of time, and it is better to look forward to the future and strive for what can be obtained than to recall the things that cannot be obtained.

Hello, many people are eager to get a real favorite relationship, but that kind of real favorite relationship must be the kind of two-way love to be able to bring themselves real happiness and joy, and that kind of two-way love must have the following characteristics:

First of all, the kind of two-way love is based on mutual respect between each other, do anything, two people will have a discussion, instead of making decisions for each other, will take into account each other's feelings, even if they are 100% good for each other, they will communicate with each other in a timely manner before doing things, and will do it after getting the permission of the other party.

Secondly, two-way love is based on the fact that the two people care about each other, especially when the other party is depressed, one party can always be by the other party's side, and when the other party needs him, he will appear in time. In the two-way love, each other has the same amount of pay and investment, no one owes each other, no one detours and perfunctory, each can be fully invested and sincerely paid for this relationship, so that each other can feel real happiness and joy.

Two-way love should be built on the basis of mutual tolerance, because in the process of falling in love, it is impossible for two couples to have no differences and estrangements, when these disagreements and estrangements occur, it is necessary to learn to tolerate and understand each other, learn to empathize, so that they can quickly eliminate the estrangement between each other and ensure that the love between two people is more long-lasting.

Good luck in jujubes!