The choice between boyfriend and family How to choose between a loved one and a boyfriend?

Girl, there are many young people with troubles like you, and the list goes on. As a joke, "it's all the fault of openness." In recent years, there are many young people who work, get married, and live in different places, and why the Spring Festival will become a "beautiful" scenery every year is one of the reasons.

The old man thinks that since you and your boyfriend'Get along well", love each other, then, it is also a good choice to leave your mother to settle in Guangdong, Guangdong is not the mainland, the coastal open province! Besides, your mother won't be with you for the rest of your life, and you have a brother to take care of at home, if you give up your boyfriend, you will regret it later.

Now that transportation and information technology are so convenient, it is very easy to communicate with your family, and in the future, when you become a family, your mother will often travel back and forth between Sichuan and Guangdong, and the elderly will be happy.

He said that he could take your mother over when he got married", he said this, which shows that he is very loving, girl, don't worry, you won't be wrong about your boyfriend.

Listen to the old man's words, make up your mind, stay in Guangdong!

I wish you all happiness and happiness!

I understand you very well, if you and your boyfriend are really in love, I think then all problems are not a problem, as parents want their children to be happy, you can communicate well with your mother, you can also let your boyfriend do a good job of proving to your mother that he is worthy of your life, you are not in good economic conditions now, you can fight together, you can fight together, you can take your mother to your boyfriend when the time comes, if there is love, it can really be solved, I believe you will deal with it, I am waiting for your good news, and bless your family!

I don't know how old you are now, if you are still young, don't rush to get married, struggle first, and slowly there will be an answer.

In fact, I think the most important thing is that you love him and he loves you!

Far and near is not too big a problem, and it can't be said that there is no, even if you are close to getting married, it is impossible to always be by your mother's side, as long as you are doing well, your mother should understand, she is mainly worried about a little more, which parent does not want her daughter to find a satisfactory home.

It's rare to have a lover in the world, why not end up married!

First of all, don't choose a mother.

When choosing between relatives and boyfriends, you should consider more comprehensively, not only taking into account the feelings of your loved ones, but also the feelings of your boyfriend, and more importantly, you can choose a compromise method for your own feelings, so that the final choice can have the best of both worlds.

First of all, correct positioning. In intimate relationships, we need to position ourselves in what kind of relationship, often the middle of a relationship will allow us to encounter a large number of choices, the early love may suffer from the opposition of the family, at this time you can explain your reasons through communication and exchanges, so that relatives can understand you more, you also appropriately adjust your mentality, find a suitable Valentine's Day hand boyfriend to understand. At this time, it is better to calm down and look at his or her usual behavior, sometimes "talking about the deeds" can often help us relieve emotional anxiety.

Everyone is a collection of various images, maybe you are one image to your loved ones and another image to others. But that's perfectly normal, isn't it? Therefore, "Deeds without Heart" can help you confirm her (his) image of you, and allow you to orient yourself to what kind of feelings you are in, and this can help you a lot.

Secondly, the appropriate obfuscation. When you can confirm that he is sincere with you, you might as well be appropriately confused. Time will help us to make the flaws in our intimate relationship come to light, and what we need is to choose the big flaws to fix them, and the small ones to leave them there.

The mutual run-in in time will wash it away like flowing water.

Finally, clear communication. If there is such a struggle, you can explain your thoughts as much as possible through communication, accept the opinions of relatives or boyfriends, and in an intimate relationship, communication is the best way to solve misunderstandings between people. And often the end of a relationship is made up of misunderstandings, big or small.

Therefore, after the first two steps, it is better to sit down and communicate well, find out those big flaws, and give the other party a clear answer. It's a form of respect, and it's a must-have.

I think it's not easy to meet someone who takes advantage of your heart, and respecting and understanding him may give you a lifetime of companionship. You should also take into account the feelings of your loved ones and don't go your own way.

There is no comparison, and the relationship between the loved one and the boyfriend should be made reasonably and correctly depending on the situation.