How to let go of self esteem, how to let go of self esteem?

First of all, I have to say that you think that self-esteem is something meaningless that should not be. Because self-esteem is the foundation of human beings, simply put, it is what Lu Xun said"Backbone"。Lu Xun said "the backbone of the Chinese".

Secondly, what is face? The majority represented is a kind of vanity. Is it necessary?

The most important point is that I don't think you have a clear distinction between face and self-esteem. Moreover, you have not yet learned to be tolerant and fraternal. Why could Han Xin be humiliated by his crotch back then, and finally reuse the butcher of the year like a general (Han Xin was afraid of the butcher's crotch).

Self-esteem is sometimes expressed in the ability of the big husband to bend and stretch. Endure what others can't endure, and tolerate what others can't. It is a manifestation of wisdom.

When you understand this kind of behavior, you will understand more deeply that the meaning of self-esteem is not simply to defend your rights and all your fame and fortune.

As for the advice to you, I dare not say that I am superior, but I can only say that I am contemptible

If you study hard, read and write more famous books, read and write more classics, and make friends with the sages and ancients, you can be broad-minded, and see clearly and look down on fame and fortune and some vanity things. When you understand a state of nature, your mind will naturally be cheerful, happiness is simple, and simplicity will make you happy.

The problem of face is solved.

This is my humble opinion. The point is to rely on yourself to constantly search for the reason for the existence of the essence of things in this world. Go ahead, know yourself, and then know the world.

Retain self-esteem, self-esteem can protect yourself At the same time, you can distinguish the sincerity and falsehood of others to you, usually face others with kindness and ease, and others like you will naturally get close to you and believe in yourself

There is no need to give up, you are right, these two things are useless, because it is a manifestation of selfishness, some people give up their self-esteem as a human being for their father, no matter what, feelings are the most important, but if you want to learn to love, you can only do it in pain!

Oh. You're saying that you used to be too face-conscious, and you lost a lot as a result. Perhaps primarily interpersonal.

So, you should be shocked little by little.

1.The first thing to do is to learn to think about others 2Anything can succeed or fail, and accept it regardless of success or failure

The face is, the more you care about it, the more trouble it makes you, so, don't care too much about face 4Learn to smile, especially when you're in an awkward situation.

For your lover, let go of your self-esteem, it means that you love your object, and there is nothing to say about losing your self-esteem. Try to put the sub-questions aside.

For other people, sometimes letting go of your self-esteem represents your open-mindedness, and all this does not mean that you have no self-esteem. But there are some self-esteems that cannot be let go. If you want to distinguish well, it is actually more achievable.

The most important thing is your own ideas, not how to do it.

First, please acknowledge the huge gap between people. Don't expect others to treat you the same way, and don't worry about the area of your psychological shadow. There are indeed huge disparities between people and people, and there are reasons for these disparities.

Second, don't expect everyone to be eager to help you, but in the way you want them to. When it's time to ask someone, lower your posture and don't think that everything is taken for granted. How much slander a person can withstand, how much hardship he can endure, and how much praise he can bear.

Tell yourself that the world doesn't revolve around you alone, and others won't follow you in everything for your face, so you need to know: if you want to succeed, you must let go of your self-esteem, work hard, find a way to solve problems, don't wait for others to help you, and learn to bow your head when it's time to ask for help.

Useless self-esteem is because of excessive self-esteem or excessive inferiority, at this time you must correct your mentality, and you must believe in yourself, believe that you have the ability to solve the problem, when the problem is solved, self-confidence is rebuilt, then useless self-esteem will be put in the right position.

Face yourself, adjust your mentality, let go of your face is a habit to develop slowly, restrain yourself from slapping a swollen face and becoming fat, and even some harmless situations, self-deprecation, it doesn't matter if you let yourself lose your little face.

If you want to let go of useless self-esteem, you must recognize your mistakes, and when you find yourself wrong, you must have the courage to correct them, and don't delay your progress because of your self-esteem.

It's good to go to your goal little by little according to your own ideas, although you find problems and solve them at any time to learn at any time, not only to set up a stall is down-to-earth, when you feel that you do those little things to reduce your figure, maybe it is really those things that waste your talent.

At this time, you have to weigh the pros and cons, sometimes self-esteem is more important, but sometimes there are things more important than self-esteem, and at this time you have to put down your body and pursue other things.