Boyfriend career type busy man how to do his qualified girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you love him, let him and adjust his mentality. You are like this, as if you are a big idler. Don't keep your attention on him, you can do what you want to do with your heart, are you afraid that he will leave you?

    What is there to be afraid of! If he wants to leave you, he will leave you sooner or later, there is no need to think so much, just care about it from time to time. If he doesn't want to say more, don't ask.

    Treat him with no looseness or tightness, and find the most suitable "not loose and not tight". If it's really over, it's better to get angry, make a small noise, don't make a big noise. It's okay to make a fuss casually, don't come every day.

    Moderate anyway.

    It's a good idea to find something to focus on and waste your time doing!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also made myself a busy person, and I did some housework or something when I didn't have a career. Anyway, talk less and do more, let him know that you are very self-motivated, and let him see that female friends are also very capable and strong.

    If he starts to pay attention to you, then congratulations on your progress from slave to general.

    If he still has that attitude and those few words, I suggest that you don't take it in vain, he either doesn't like you very much or you are not suitable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Support his career, encourage him a lot, you must encourage him a lot when he is most helpless, he will definitely thank you very much, and you are very lucky, you have found such a good boyfriend, you must cherish it!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find some hobbies to do yourself, I'm a woman, but I'm also very annoying that women have nothing to talk about, usually I only know clothes, cosmetics or something, and I have nothing to do and delay others. Really, don't treat yourself as a pet, what is not good to learn, draw a picture, write some articles, read a book, learn a foreign language or something, or you can understand his career, see if you can help him, and what interpersonal and social interactions can help him, and the most basic cooking is good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just a game of money or romance. You obviously choose money because you know how important it will be to you in the future, but you are greedy and want both money and romance...

    When you know that you can't have both, you'll be considerate of him. It's your choice, if you choose a guy who doesn't have so much money, or isn't very motivated, you'll get several times more romantic and warm than now...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Me too, my boyfriend works very hard, and he said that when he comes back, he really hopes that I can be gentle and kind to him.

    In fact, who doesn't want others to be nice to them.

    So do we.

    But the effort is rewarded, and if you treat him well, he will naturally treat you better.

    He can feel your thoughtfulness.

    Care more about him.

    Wait until he's not busy one day.

    It's definitely going to be twice as good for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To understand him, a man should take care of his family. Don't complain, I understand. That's how my husband is. Sometimes I beg to die, but women should support him and believe in him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Communicate. Understanding is the best bridge.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's enough to be a little sheep.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The question of love and bread.

    Either you make him miserable.

    Either suffer yourself.

    Take your pick.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Behind-the-scenes support. Find your own interest and the time will be faster.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Female from art school.

    It's really rotten.

    Remember to shoot. I'll buy it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's yours, no one can take it away, on the contrary, it's not yours, no matter how hard you force him, he will leave. Keep this phrase in mind at all times. You can't be by his side all the time, you can't be centered on him.

    He's just your boyfriend, not all of you. Participate in school activities more, improve your self-cultivation and quality, and broaden your horizons, so that your mind will be broadened, your life will be full, and you will not be entangled in small things from time to time; At the same time, it is also good to keep a certain distance appropriately, the so-called "little don't win the newlywed"! Men like gentle, lovely, and empathetic girls, especially career-oriented men.

    You can't stress him out. If you are still together after graduation, you have to find a job quickly, and with a job, the center of your life is not entirely on him, and you will slowly understand him. It's still the same sentence:

    It's yours, no one can take it away, on the contrary, it's not yours, no matter how hard you force him, he will leave. Be open-minded and chic.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My boyfriend is also at this time, but we have only been together for a month, and I don't know, I just don't bother him, and he needs to talk to him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think as long as you can do "hidden, erratic, unpredictable" can make your boyfriend hooked, and it will also make him haunted and even worried As a woman, you need to be informed, understanding, and kind-hearted, but the most important thing is how to grasp the word "degree" This degree is the "three noes" I said above are deeply hidden, erratic, unpredictable, I hope you can understand what I said I wish you happiness!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Judging from the other party's performance, it seems that he doesn't really care about you too much, because even if he is really busy, he should be able to ask how you are if he has time to send a goodnight text message? Or really sorry or something like that...

    In this case, it's best to treat the other person as just an alternative, and spend your time mainly on improving your own attractiveness.

    For example, participating in yoga training, learning makeup, and of course, including career, academic recharge, etc.

    This often makes his originally wandering mentality become focused and serious about you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be too sticky, but you can't go with the flow too much, if the relationship is natural, these four words can be solved, then what kind of tangled love process to do.

    Men don't like women who are too clingy, they have their own careers and lives, but I think men like empathetic girls.

    I guess he texted when he wasn't busy.

    If he doesn't reply, don't keep harassing him with cranky thoughts.

    It's a little bit far away, but it's not too far away, and that's the best, and it's good to care about him a little more.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Get to know him! Find out what he's doing, and of course don't ask too much about what you can do for him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Advice for boys in love, learn to be a good boyfriend quickly

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The easiest, but also the hardest, put yourself in her shoes. Plus a ,......Moment.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't say anything and care about it. Tolerance. Sincere. You're a good boyfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Be careful with your girlfriend, take good care of her in life, and praise her more spiritually!

    In fact, whether you are a qualified boyfriend or not depends on whether you love her or not, if there is really a person in your heart, you will always think about whether she is tired or not, whether she is hungry or not, and you will feel that you are living for her!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't talk when you don't pick up **, when you can't find him, you're in a meeting to work and socialize, and there is outside contact, especially heterosexual contact, which is a play on the spot, saying that he is a career-oriented man, pretending to be more than sincere, and the identification is complete.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1. Care. Care about your boyfriend, including his joys and sorrows, sunny and warm, you can care about his family appropriately, and occasionally care about his good friends.

    2. Obedience. Whatever your boyfriend says, you basically have to do what he says, if you have any objections, if it doesn't matter the overall situation, don't say it to your face, and talk about it later.

    3. Buy something your boyfriend likes. The guy likes what the girl gives him very much, and he values it very much (he is), every time he sees something, it's like seeing his cute girlfriend, you must want your boyfriend to care about you.

    4. Be coquettish. Some boyfriends like to watch cute girls spoil him, and it is definitely good to be spoiled appropriately, but don't always be spoiled.

    5. Lose your temper less. A girl's tantrum is the ugliest face, especially the unreasonable tantrum, some boys are patient on the surface, but they are very disgusted in their hearts, and he will always remember it.

    6. Do something for him. For example, it's up to you to do laundry, tidy up the office, tidy up your home, etc.

    7. Pick up your boyfriend once in a while. Don't always wait for your boyfriend to pick you up, pick up your boyfriend from work once in a while, he will definitely be happy, and then go to dinner for a romantic time.

    8. When you can't see him, contact him often and let him know that you care about him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The two of them didn't say anything about qualified or not, if they insisted on being qualified, it really had to be calculated very clearly, and if you can be a so-called qualified girlfriend, do you also want him to be a qualified boyfriend, how can you be a qualified boyfriend? Why should a relationship be maintained by this standard?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This problem is more complicated, it is best to have four conditions to be a qualified girlfriend, first, have a good temper, don't get angry at every turn, because being vexatious is the biggest taboo. Second, don't embarrass each other, give each other dignity, men love face very much, you have to remember this. Third, you must learn to be coquettish, pay attention to this coquettish is not vexatious, it is deliberately coquettish under the premise of no principle, so that men have the meaning of protecting you, this is called a little bird according to people, to give the other party a great feeling of being small, men generally have to pretend to be more powerful than others, you don't easily destroy him, understand?

    Another point is to take care of each other or his relatives, this is the most important, if a woman will not take care of each other, everything according to their own will to act, then the two people will quarrel in the future, the above points are for the conditions of being a good wife and mother in the future, because when you first started making friends, the other party is already looking at you for this standard. These seem to be difficult, and if you don't have a good personality, it's hard to do. Anyway, if you can do two or three of the above, that's enough.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Understand him, try to listen to him, and be a little more proactive. I wish you happiness.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Be gentle and considerate to your boyfriend, try to be your original self, what he likes is not the original you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This should ask your boyfriend what kind of girlfriend is qualified! Because the criteria for eligibility are different for everyone!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    To sum up in four words: want to catch and indulge.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Considerate, docile, does not lose his temper and knows how to be humorous.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    She's quite pathetic when she gets upSlumberIf you don't love it, you can still be togetherPharmaceutical microhas been wronged but she doesn't love it, it's not that you're not and it's not her, it's not just that something is wrong with her, she doesn't understand love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hello! Depending on your problem, you can do this: you can encourage him by his side and do a little security for him, such as preparing food for him in daily chores.

    But at the same time, you also need to give him a little personal space, he will adjust by himself, if too much interference will have the opposite effect, help him appropriately, support him, encourage him, let him feel warm, you will always be by his side. Let him feel that he is not alone in the struggle.

    Hope it helps.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You just have to stay with him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    My husband too, it would be good to wait for his career to be stable, my husband used to not stay up late, and I didn't sleep every night with me, so he didn't sleep when he was told, just watched TV.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Maybe the personality is not very suitable, I love to be clingy, and I also hope that the other party will stick to me, I can't stand it the most because the other party snubs me and ignores me, then I will be very lonely.

    But your boyfriend thinks you're clingy, not necessarily because he doesn't love you, maybe everyone's personality is different! I think.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You gave me the whole starry sky so that I could come and go freely. What I enjoy is a deep and wide love! My love for you is like a letter that has not been addressed, I only know how to send it, but I know that there is no way to receive anything.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's time to break up, and your boyfriend doesn't love you at all.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you want to be a qualified girlfriend, then you must learn to care for your boyfriend and help her share some things.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    1.Understand that if you are his girlfriend and you can't even understand, then the two of you are not suitable for being together at all, so hurry up and break up. When two people are together, there will be some disagreements, if there is no understanding, no integration, why are you two together?

    Are you making do with it? It doesn't matter if I want to have such a day, because I can't see your happy future at all, there is no happiness, let alone a future, can you two really become a family together? So don't waste time, people have shortcomings, as long as you are alone, more or less a little, you tolerate her a little, she is tolerant a little, this thing is over, if you don't look at me, I don't blame you, you two really don't need to be together, break up quickly, you go your own way, you take your single-plank bridge, I take my avenue.

    2.Tolerance once the date girl arrived a minute early, and the boy was a minute late, and as a result, the girl lost her temper instantly, scolded the boy, a mess, the boy didn't say anything, turned around and left, think about it, in this case, such a problem arises, should you be, you are really a suitable girlfriend, in public, even if no one doubts that minute, you can lose your temper like this, unscrupulously. If you want to be his girlfriend, remember that you must think for him and don't be a shrew.

    No matter how much others love you, they will always leave you one day.

    3.Accompanying a man is the most difficult during the entrepreneurial period, and a woman is needed to accompany them, and many women, after seeing the man's failure to start a business, some women turn around and leave. But there are still some women, she is the strong backing of this man, this man is bitter, he will accompany him to endure hardship, this man has no food, he accompanies her to eat instant noodles, share joys and sorrows, first there is bitterness, then there is sweetness Once you succeed in starting a business, I think you and him will live very well and be very happy, because you know what understanding is, what tolerance is, and how to help him when he is in the most difficult time?

    You are a woman with high emotional intelligence, they are not controlled by material things, they are real, down-to-earth people.

    4.As someone else's girlfriend, you should think about your boyfriend, and you can't just take care of yourself, so there is no need to be together, only two people are together, the heart is on the same line, and you will go on the road to success, I think sooner or later you will succeed.

    To be a good woman, first of all, the first is not to be controlled by desire, the third is to be able to understand others, the fourth is to tolerate others, and you must know when to support and when to give up.

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