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Uncle, I'm a sophomore in high school, and I just broke up with my first girlfriend who I've been in love for 3 years, and I'm also in a lot of pain, and I don't know how I got over these days.
We used to love each other. are very naïve to make a promise to "love until the other party doesn't love". But this summer vacation has changed.
It's also a relationship of distance, we haven't seen each other all the time, and there are very few, and we gradually drift apart. Just the day before yesterday, she suddenly told me that she was going to break up with me, and I asked why. She just said that we were not suitable, and nothing else was said, I didn't dare to accept it, and when I said to her "I love you", she said coldly "I don't love you anymore, let's break up, I'm serious."
In the past few days, I've been looking around for ways to adjust myself after falling out of love, but I still haven't changed much, but it's absolutely useless for us to be depressed like this.
For you, you are an adult, and you are not too young, it is time to find a partner to spend a happy time, as a man is destined to experience setbacks, but men must grow up after setbacks. There are gains and losses in everything, and the same goes for love. Don't be immersed in pain, because you still have parents who love you, and you can see that they should love you very much, (I also have such parents, but I can't tell them, after all, early love is wrong), so you don't just live for love, you also have family, friendship, and career.
Love is for two people, it can't be forced, since it has been lost, we shouldn't keep looking at the past, should we always look at the pain of the past to live? No! Let's not be depressed.
Cheer up, look forward, and let the unpleasant pass!
For you, you should seriously find another person who loves each other (love is not a matter of ups and downs!). Be sincere), no matter how much you and your former girlfriend love each other, it's all in the past and you can't come back! Give it up! She doesn't love you anymore!
Why are you reluctant to admit it? Because, you used to love each other so much, but time can change anything, including feelings.
So, stop being nostalgic, ignore other factors (age, career, family background, these have nothing to do with pure love), and truly love once!
And I, I don't think I'm going to be in a relationship until I'm an adult. Because I'm afraid of getting hurt!
Finally, I wish you to find true love!
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I understand your feelings....If you really want to marry her, find a good place, a good time, and find a few brothers to help....Spend a few days scheming and think of a romantic moving world proposal! Of course, you have to be willing to spend money, a lot of romance has to have financial support, I believe that the brothers will be able to move the good, only she moved, ask a few brothers to give you fireworks rain, and then you propose, a beautiful ring, at this time she must be moved to be dizzy, accidentally agreed to you....If you don't promise you, you'll be....
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Big brother, emotional things can't be forced, it can be said that I am more painful than you, I also have a girl I like very much, and the relationship is really good, due to the obstacles of the family, now only left full of pain and helplessness, I can't sleep every night, all the time is reminiscing about the past, recalling those good times. Your girlfriend has changed her mind, which means that you really have no fate, maybe she is also very helpless. I hope we can all come out of the pain as soon as possible, there is a good saying, don't care about the eternity, only care about what you once had.
Bless you.
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Time and place will bring you closer. Love is to know how to manage, if you manage it, and the result is like this, then the girl is wrong. But you don't know how to operate, you don't know how to cherish.
Some good things are lost and will not come back. Maybe it's a punishment for you. When it's over, don't be miserable.
Nothing in the world is permanent. If you fail, you have to start all over again. Do it yourself!
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You are not the only hero, and you are not the only one who is worried about love,,, don't bother, it is the best to be successful. As long as you work hard,,, the sunset is ahead maybe her mother will see you unpleasantly and want to test you. Don't be discouraged and let your dad or mom bring you to visit in person, most adults don't give face to their peers.
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Brother, your current situation, I also encountered it when I was young, when I fell in love, I was emotionally invested too much, and the breakup was not too long, it was inevitable that I would not adapt, I would be very uncomfortable, my heart was very painful, I didn't dare to think about her, I didn't dare to think about what I was with her before, I didn't dare to go to the places I had walked with her, and I didn't dare to touch anything about her. These are all normal, relax your mind. Maybe you can't tolerate other girls in your heart now, because your ex-girlfriend has always been in your heart, you don't have any interest in others, you haven't stepped out of her shadow yet, take your time, it will be better after a while.
What should be yours is yours, what is not yours will not be yours after all, this is because you have no fate, don't disbelieve this.
Now you have to shift your attention to other places, don't be idle, let yourself have no time to think about her, even if you have free time, you have to find a way to find something to do, don't be alone, find someone to talk about happy things, don't listen to sad songs, don't think about everything, go out and walk more, find friends, let them play with you, and meet more new friends, especially the opposite sex, isn't there a saying that says: if you want to forget someone, you have to fall in love with another person, try to accept others. Also, don't delay yourself for a woman, when you have a successful career, there will be no shortage of women, there are many women, since she is not suitable for you, can not be with you forever, then forget it, the road of life is still long, there is a better scenery behind, there are better people waiting for you, that person is your destined lifelong partner, she hopes that you smile towards him, so, for that person, work hard, treat yourself well.
Maybe you sometimes unconsciously suddenly think of her, very much want to think about it, you will be sad to see her intimate with others, this is normal, because she once belonged to you, but you have to know, now you have no relationship, she is not your one, sober up, you are just not used to it now, take your time, turn unaccustomed to it.
Since you have loved before, don't hate, both people are responsible for breaking up. Sometimes letting go is also a kind of happiness, if you really love her, don't dwell on it, I wish her happiness.
Some people will never forget it for a lifetime, and their feelings for that person will only fade, but they will not be forgotten, because that person has been in your heart.
Time is sometimes annoying, it can make people's feelings fade, and it can make the original attachment powerless. Sometimes time is also a good thing, it can allow your wounds to heal slowly, let you come out of the shadows, and let you no longer feel heartache for what was once and what was once you. When you think of her again one day, your heart is like water and no longer hurts, then it means that you have come out.
If you want to open a little, life is still beautiful, and it will be better to shout when you are aggrieved.
Buddy also came out of that time, can understand your feelings, the pain is certain, take your time, relax your heart.
Hope I and time can help you.
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Isn't it just a broken love, what's the big deal. You're a man, just let it go. There is no grass at the end of the world, you have your own life to live.
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Go shopping spree, eat frenzied, it's better not to be alone, find a few friends to play with, try to control yourself not to think about him.
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In fact, you need to be very careful to deal with a relationship, when you devote yourself to it you will gain a lot, but you may also lose some, at that time maybe you can really understand her Whether he is really worthy of your love, if a person who is not worthy of your love can be said to be a relief, some people say well, let go of everything, maybe tomorrow you are the best!
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If you fall out of love, you can let yourself travel to the place you want to go, and when you see different scenery, you will find that you are suddenly enlightened.
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Don't deliberately forget, change clothes, change mood, find a life goal, start a new life, and slowly you will find that time has helped you forget the pain, and then you will be relaxed.
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I don't feel it when I'm looking for a talk.
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Time changes everything......No matter how much others say, it's better to think about it yourself.
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We are now connected to the same disease! I'm also confused
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After a long time, it is natural to forget.
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Forget about that person and start over.
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Dude, listen to this one! My favorites! Joey Moe's My Last Serenade!
It's written about a man's song before committing suicide after falling out of love, which is very touching and amazing!!
This is the audition address.
This is my trump card at the bottom of the box.
Fabulous, huh!!
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Looking for a better view.
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Be yourself and wait for the other half of your life.
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Even if it's a game, you have to live a single life.
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Just suggest, against the drug!
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Eason Chan's "Red Rose" and "Smoke Taste", Yu Chengqing's "Can't Quit It", "Quiet", Xin Orchestra's "Provocation", and Li Zongsheng's "Elf in Life".
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Who will love me Liu Genghong's new album in Sky City.
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Broke up in that autumn vastness What am I in your eyes Singer: Ding Dong Learn to leave love died yesterday Li Huizhen has you The day did anyone tell you that these are okay, I like to listen to it these days.
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Gu Juji: At the end, we hugged and cried.
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Sooner or later, you have to figure it out!
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Give it up, too much nostalgia will only make people who don't love you look down on you more.
It doesn't matter if you've worked hard.
Even if it fails.
There are no regrets either.
You're brave.
Relative to the kind of person who cowers and stops.
You've done a great job.
Believe that there is happiness that truly belongs to you ahead.
Maybe it's just around the corner.
I wish you happiness.
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Defeat and defeat! The true colors of men!
Chasing girls has to learn the following!!
1. Bold, careful, and thick-skinned!
Second, shameless!
3. Shameless!
Fourth, it's still shameless!
If you have mastered these points! Girls aren't much of a problem for you!
But you also have to master your own methods! Chasing girls has to learn the following!!
1. Bold, careful, and thick-skinned!
Second, shameless!
3. Shameless!
Fourth, it's still shameless!
If you have mastered these points! Girls aren't much of a problem for you!
But you also have to master your own methods!
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If you love her, give her a pair of wings that can fly.
Try to enrich yourself.
Change yourself for the better
Future. Still waiting for you!
There are actually a lot of good girls in the world!
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Life is not perfect without a broken love.
It's a man who is going to fight!!
Bless you.
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People, people, people......
"White Butterfly Love".
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If you can contact her, ask her what the reason is, it can be solved, age and area are not too difficult, if you really love each other, these two points can be overcome, and now the transportation is convenient, there are many sisters and brothers now, as long as the boy is sensible, one year old is nothing, you talk to her, if she still doesn't look back, then this girl is playing a love game, idle and has nothing to do. Ignore her, you can find your true love, good luck.
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My girlfriend is also older than me, and she is younger than me at heart. Love with you on the same terms. I hope it doesn't turn out like you.
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Look at your words and know that you care about her a lot, and sometimes emotional things can't come along.
If you really love her, you should go deeper into her life, maybe you don't really know her, maybe she has another lonely world to suffer from silently.
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Seeing this, I can't help but think of a sentence:"Ask what the world is like, and teach people to live and die"
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Do you know how to get out of a broken love?
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Just suggest, against the drug!
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It is said that the best way to forget the previous relationship is to like the next person... Forgetting one relationship with another ...
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Attention shifts! Don't allow yourself to have free time to reminisce, to be busy, to relax, to strive for what you like, so that after a period of time, you will find that it is not a big deal to fall out of love, and then be optimistic and look forward to the other half of your life coming again.
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Don't keep thinking about falling out of love, divert your attention, hang out with other friends, and exercise. These can be used to temporarily relieve the pain of the wound, as is the case with Western medicine. After the first few days, it will slowly return to normal, and it will take time for the wound to heal.
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What else can I do? Why don't you just get back to your own life and slowly live a new love!
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I don't think it's scary to fall out of love, you can find someone better than your ex-(girl, boyfriend) friend.
And if you're afraid of getting hurt, why do you have to fall in love?
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It's good to find something to do for a while. Even if the relationship is deep, it will be fine after seven years. I believe that you will find happiness soon.
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Eating is the best way, but you still have to regulate your mood, after all, life has to go on.
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In fact, there is nothing that everyone will experience when falling out of love, this is just a process, there is nothing that cannot be passed, as long as you want to open it, if you want to quickly come out of this shadow, from a new step into a new journey.
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