Could it be that looks can really determine a person?

It's not a bad thing to look young, but it may not feel very reliable, but isn't it disgusting when you look at the beer belly of a middle-aged person, so I don't think it's a problem. Dress more maturely. Appearance is only the first impression, but many things still need to be exposed for a long time.

In fact, I don't think speaking slowly seems to prove a person's maturity, it depends on what is said and how it is said.

There is a relationship, but not an absolute relationship.

Buddha relies on gold, and people rely on clothes! Dress up if you can!

It's up to the other person, what people think, and you can't control it.

I'm 19 years old, 147cm tall, and people say I look like a primary school student.

No one wants to go for a job.

First, you need to be mindful of what you wear. Even though you've been working for 1 year, you're probably still dressed up as a student. Try suit-tie leather shoes. If the hairstyle is a student's head, it must be mistaken for a student, and you can apply some hairspray when you meet someone, and you don't need it at home.

Second, as for your speech, don't be frivolous. This varies from person to person, for example, I really want to be calm, but I can't stabilize my personality, if you're like me, you can't talk without talking. so as not to reveal the stuffing.

In the future, if someone says that you are young, you will respond directly, "Actually, I am only 15 years old." ”

It is true that appearance is an important factor in social, life and career development, but it should not be the only measure of a person's worth and talents. Here are my thoughts on this question:

1.Inner qualities are important: people should be evaluated as an individual's thoughts, moral cultivation, and personality charm. A person's intrinsic qualities and talents are the real virtues, and they can increase their trust, attractiveness, and success rate.

2.Beauty is only relative: some people will think that someone is beautiful, while others will not. Factors such as living environment, cultural background, and personal aesthetic tastes can lead to different perceptions of beauty.

3.Ability and effort are more important than external conditions: we should recognize that one's success does not depend solely on physical attractiveness or innate talent.

Studying hard, constantly working hard and practicing, and making up for your shortcomings are all effective ways to achieve your life goals and improve yourself.

To sum up, although physical attractiveness and beauty are still important factors in social life, it should be recognized that beauty is only one of the many qualities of human beings, and that a person's worth and success should not only be based on his appearance, but also on his inner qualities, abilities and efforts.

We often ask ourselves, will our appearance change as we age? Immaturity-maturity-aging, what else will be different? Why do some people live younger, older and more elegant, and look kind and intellectual?

Why is it that some people have clear eyebrows and sweet smiles when they are young, but as they grow older, they become more and more ugly, and their faces are full of flesh, even if they have a high status and knowledge, you can't see intellectual elegance, tolerance and pleasing to the eye from her, but a face with offensive power that will explode in anger at any time?

Everyone will have a different appearance because of different genes, after the acquired growth process and the original organic nature, as they grow older, everyone will form a unique temperament, plus their own body and appearance, constituting a unique personal charm. Someone once did an experiment to track a pair of identical twins, when they were young, they looked almost identical, and the growth environment was the same, but when they looked at the problem in different moods, when they grew up, they would find that not only their appearance would gradually be different, but the difference in personality was also obvious, and the elder brother who was good at expressing negative thinking frowned, was not confident, short-tempered, and looked rough; And the younger brother who is good at expressing positive thinking is sunny, handsome, cheerful, and tolerant.

The analysis found that from a psychological point of view, "born from the heart" refers to the physical manifestation of our long-term psychological cues to ourselves, and what expressions a person will make if her emotions are negative for a long time: hatred, suspicion, resentment, pain, sadness, and anger. Once such expressions exist for a long time, they will become habits, they will engrave a profound mark on our appearance, and they will also bring us negative cognition, which will affect our emotions or emotions towards the occurrence of (any sudden or conventional) events, so that we will make uncontrollable impulsive behaviors towards people and things, regardless of whether others express good intentions or malicious intentions, as long as they are unsatisfactory, they will erupt everywhere like a volcano; Regardless of whether the things that are recognized violate the rules of the country and family and the common senses of people, they will use far-fetched reasons to do it regardless of it.

If a person is facing the sun, he will rise to the sun in his life.

There is a plant called sunflower in nature, its flower disc always grows in the direction of the sun, it looks so vibrant, the whole fruit is like a smiling face, and the melon seeds are full and solid.

If we pay attention to the positive and good side for a long time, the whole person will be positive and optimistic, more tolerant and understanding of others, and able to use rational thinking (from the other person's point of view) to judge and then take more favorable actions when dealing with the events that occur. If we maintain a cheerful, peaceful and happy attitude for a long time, our appearance will become more and more elegant, friendly and intellectual, and our life will be better.

The life brought by good looks is very different, people with good looks have self-confidence since childhood, and they will get twice the result with half the effort in what they do in the future, and their personalities will be very cheerful. People who don't look good are more inferior, don't like to talk, and sometimes cowardly, and may be this kind of character all their lives.

Being beautiful is really important in some cases, but it's not the only factor that determines a person's success.

First of all, being beautiful can sometimes give a person some advantages. For example, in interviews, dates and other occasions, beautiful people may be more likely to attract the attention and favor of the other party, and then get better opportunities to be stupid. In addition, good-looking people may also be more likely to receive attention and recognition from others in their social circles, which in turn will give them more resources and opportunities.

However, looks are not a key factor in a person's success. In addition to appearance, people also need to possess many other qualities, such as intelligence, hard work, courage, honesty, kindness, and so on. These qualities can likewise help people achieve their goals and pursue success.

In addition, appearance is only a part of a person, it does not represent the whole of a person. Good looks also face various challenges and difficulties, and their appearance does not remain the same forever, and it will gradually change over time.

Therefore, although being beautiful can sometimes bring some advantages, it is not the only factor for success, and we should pay more attention to a person's inner qualities and ability.