Why don t you dare to talk to your teachers and classmates and develop a deep friendship? themselves

Severe autism. In fact, you should be happy and let others go in, instead of being afraid that they will avoid them. You're no different from them, you should be a little bit confident, confident in yourself, you can do it.

Hey.. In fact, not many people have self-confidence. As long as you open your heart, people who are also as unconfident as you will quickly get acquainted with you. Teachers actually want to communicate with students.

You're a serious lock-in mentality, okay, I used to have a little bit of it, but I've changed it now. You don't dare to set foot in this world because you are afraid of being rejected or rejected, and you need to talk to your teachers and classmates more often to overcome your fears.

Be confident, communicate with others, it's okay, slowly get used to it, that's how I am.

It should be some secret in your own heart that no one knows.

You actually know yourself very well, don't feel inferior, no one is stronger than the other, we all have our own characteristics, be confident!

If you are not confident, you must believe that your existence is valuable, and strive to integrate into the collective.

You are a person with low self-esteem, afraid of paying and afraid of being rejected, you should learn to be confident, believe in yourself, you can do it, don't be afraid to give feelings, you can start again if you fail!

Be optimistic, don't care what others say. Also, I guess you're afraid of being hurt. Don't be afraid, the world is not so sinister

Then make a friend online, don't know each other's information, just friends who don't meet, can talk about troubles and have fun.

I was the best at getting used to it, trying to communicate more with others, and saying it to the mirror 100 times a day.

Don't be too demanding of others.

Difficulties are always to be faced.

From your account, it can be seen that the counseling you have experienced in the past has actually helped you to a certain extent, at least helped you solve certain problems, so there are some positive experiences. But what I want to say most is actually about your current situation, and I think since you still choose to seek help through psychological counseling, then you should learn to be more honest about this matter. For example, if you have any concerns in the supplementary question, I think you can raise them and discuss them with your counselor in your future consultations, which is a sincere exchange.

A counselor may help you understand more deeply what you are feeling, such as what the fee means to you, what the answers you give you mean to you, and what your relationship with the counselor means to you. If the client can communicate openly and honestly with the counselor, there is hope for a truly healthy relationship rather than repeating unhealthy relationships in the past. For example, you become overly dependent on the counselor, and the counselor is afraid of your dependence and wants to escape, and so on.

In addition to a better understanding of your own psychological phenomena, by forming a positive and healthy relationship with your counselor, a relationship that will help you develop your personality will help you feel a change in yourself after a period of counseling. Finally, from your personal experience of counseling, I would like to suggest that you be more open to the feelings in counseling, specifically not to reject and reject the positive and negative feelings that counseling and the counselor bring to you, and not to give up on the counselor easily because of the negative feelings, and the real professional counselor will not easily abandon you (this may be something you are afraid of, so you may unconsciously give up on the counselor for some reason to alleviate your own pain), for you, It's not good for you to be between different psychologists, and it's easy for your growth to stay in place or worse.

Hope you get something out of your future consultations. Bless you!

I don't know why, in peacetime, many people have lost their direction and purpose.

When others have done what they should do, they have everything they should have, and they don't know what to do, and they don't know where to put their minds, so they start to make trouble, and mediocrity disturbs themselves.

I saw a story, it is ancient, it is said that a merchant is desperately trying to make money, make money, earn money, and finally he has everything, once he pushed open his secret room, there is gold, silver and jewelry, he has nothing, he finally feels that he is living a very lonely life, there is nothing to do, and finally he committed suicide.

In the past, it was ridiculous and incomprehensible to others, but now it's very normal in society.

Cranky, lacking a sense of mastery, and not having a firm will, these people are like this, I don't think it's a mental illness at all, it's just that they are not sick and are full of food.

There are also some people who are small-minded and timid, thinking more than doing, and they dare not do it if they want to do it, can this not be disturbing! What kind of psychiatrist to find, pure brand. If you don't think about it, if you don't look for the answer from reality, I think it's a matter of enlightenment, if you don't find the reason yourself, let others find the reason for you, what will others say?

It's nothing more than reality, society, and pressure. This is a, to put it bluntly, it doesn't mean that you can't be a person, you don't accept it, and then you go to find a psychiatrist.

The most ridiculous thing is: Who is the person who knows you best? Isn't it yourself, what's even more ridiculous is that you don't admit it, you have to say it through other people's mouths to believe it, it's really sad, inferior and not confident.

Don't dislike what I say, I hope it will enlighten you.

I agree with the teacher's suggestion that you should not be allowed to read books for the simple reason that they may be helpful to you, but they are not suitable for your current situation. I studied psychology, and when we were in class, we were very careful about it, that is, when we learned some courses, we must pay attention to one point, that is, don't sit in the right seat, and the second is that you can't solve the problem for yourself, since you have read the books on psychology, you must know a concept, that is, psychological suggestion, your teacher doesn't let you read these books, I guess her intention is to hope that you stay away from these books for the time being, and it will cut off your connection with bad psychological suggestion, her suggestion is right, Maybe she didn't have a good choice of how to communicate with you. Of course, that's just my word for it.

Second, my personal advice to you is, don't complain about the past anymore, "I've consulted for a long time, but I haven't solved the problem, although the idea of "reading books and being watched by others" is basically gone, but there are new problems, thinking that if you set a plan and set a goal in college, you will definitely be much better today, and you don't want to learn knowledge like you are now, you haven't learned anything... It's already a fait accompli, and it's useless for you to complain, isn't it? Why don't you first determine what to do next and how to do it, do you say that you haven't learned anything in three years of junior college, and your life will not continue in the future?

I think it's strange how you don't believe your own parents, but believe the words of a stranger, is it easy for some people to trust people, especially strangers.

Psychological and philosophical books can indeed make people fall into psychological problems, and that's because there are still many questions in philosophy and psychology that you can't answer by yourself, and it's normal for you to fall into that state. It is recommended that you take a look at the doctrine of Lao Tzu and look at the Wu Wei described in his book.

There is still a long way to go, and I don't know if this is right, but since I wrote the email, I am now responsible for my own results, and I am eager for the teacher's understanding and support, as well as this week's dedicated review, and at the same time, I would like to say thank you to the majority of people who are enthusiastic about helping--- I sincerely thank you!

Understand your personality and temperament type first, the most important thing for your current situation is not to find the result, but to find the result and think of a few solutions to the problem, take immediate action, if your plan is to turn around in psychology and then face the society, it will be miserable, social adaptability requires a lot of direct experience, in the details of behavior to understand, change. If you are timid to face society directly, and you are not able to change the details, your future work and marriage will be troublesome.

I would like to ask you a few questions: Do you think you have to go for counseling? Do you believe in yourself a little more or believe in others a little more, why, do you have a bottom line?

Are you the protagonist in your world? Do you think that's how you see yourself? Do you think that what you want to be is determined by others?

Four more words for you - independence.

Adjust yourself slowly, and then tell your friends about the problems and confusions in your heart, and with their listening, I think you can find yourself again.

Chat with your family more and do some recreational activities, and your mood will gradually improve.

If you are in a good mood, you will have no psychological problems.

You can tell strangers about your troubles, but you can't tell your parents.

This shows the severity of the generation gap.

Is this really going to happen in our generation?

There are some truths, things should be understood, and people will naturally understand them! If it doesn't come to that time, barely it's unnecessary!

I feel that you rely too much on the psychology teacher, and it is not a way for you to always see the teacher in your heart, you should take care of yourself.

I want to know too, I have this problem too!

You're not going to look for a professional, you're going to have to look for the three-legged cat.

Go ahead and do it yourself without thinking too much.

Is it okay for a translator, a diplomat?

You can choose one.

This kind of profession of your female friend is called in Japan: Slow Communication, the full name is Slow Communication. Your friend has big ambitions and doesn't socialize with locals (Japanese) and foreigners (non-Japanese).

I don't know if you are asking such a question based on impetuousness and boasting, or if you humbly ask for advice in the hope of giving you a "personal" and "intimate" guidance.

There are many marginal disciplines in psychology, such as: clinical psychology, educational psychology, comparative psychology and consumer psychology, etc., with the continuous development of psychology, the fields involved in the continuous increase, the marginal disciplines will be more and more, more and more detailed.

But I think that if you are based on impetuousness and boasting, this is not good for your development.

My suggestion:1Study formal psychology books (you can go to the National Publishing House to buy relevant professional books for national psychological counselors, the role is not for pure learning but for the understanding of psychology);

2.You can go to a bookstore (or online bookstore, library, etc.) to browse (not recommended to buy) relevant books and materials (purpose: to understand the development of psychology or other marginal sciences at a macro level).

3.Get in touch with people in psychology or design psychology to intuitively understand some professional aspects.

4.Combine what you have learned and then practice, and come up with your own choices in practice.

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

I've rarely heard of design psychology.

First of all, the teacher should communicate with the students in place, so that the students feel that the teacher can understand them, so that the students' hearts will not be dry and there is too much anxiety and pressure; Secondly, guide students to change their perspectives and ideas to understand their parents' thoughts, so that students can understand their parents' minds and slowly change the relationship. It is recommended that teachers should not communicate directly with parents if they are most noisy, and at the same time try to talk about things and avoid theoretical conclusions, such as: you should pay more attention not to lose your temper, you should be more understanding of the waiter, and so on.

Then don't talk to your parents slowly, let students find trustworthy friends or elders to communicate, and indirectly cultivate communication skills and trust. Then the psychology teacher first communicates with the head of the family, so that parents can pay attention to their attitude and temperament when communicating with their children, so as to establish a sense of trust between children and their relatives, and shorten the distance from the heart. Let's start small.

1. Be a good friend, make friends and understand.

2. It is recommended that you read "The Power of the Moment", "Dialogue with God", and "The Law of Attraction Secrets" to fundamentally recognize life, sexes, psychology, thinking, mindfulness, and ego. Based on enriching oneself and using wisdom as the medium, we provide ideas for more in-depth communication with them.

Different people have different personalities. As a teacher, you must be strict first, and secondly, you must love your students, and no matter who makes mistakes in class, you must punish them harshly. If you don't want your children to care for them like their parents in the classroom, you need to do something so that they are respectful.

Naturally, you can communicate.

The eighth grader is in a rebellious period and is also facing the high school entrance examination, so the teacher should not think that the parents should be invited or anything.

To put it simply, respecting them appropriately is more effective than you might think and inviting parents to come.

The implementation of personalized education, now children have a special personality, each child is different, to use different methods for his character, such as a child lively and active if the use of a decent way, he must not like to listen, you have to drive his thinking, according to the book is difficult to make students interested. Let children feel that learning knowledge is interesting, which requires the accumulation of regular classes, as well as reading more books on the psychological aspects of adolescents.