Why parents and teachers are against puppy love

Most parents and teachers oppose it for fear of affecting learning, and learning is the most important thing at this stage. There are quite a few negative examples, so the most common thing they say is worry. Nothing else.

And they are also from this age, and they are more experienced. Hehe, don't live up to your parents' worries! As long as it doesn't interfere with learning, I think they'll understand, can you do that?

Most teachers don't, of course, if it's particularly obvious, the kind that teachers are particularly worried about. When I was in school, I liked a boy in the class, from a secret crush to a bright love and finally to being together and then breaking up at the end, the movement was quite loud, and the teacher didn't find out until he graduated. It has a lot to do with the teacher's observation and age, although the young teachers have a common language with us, but most of the young teachers' attention is in the classroom, because they haven't commedied the ability to do two things (our high school teacher's original words), if it's older, some will see through it and not say it, and some teachers will follow the blind coaxing, we had it before the class, the teacher clearly saw it, but didn't say it, it was to engage the two of you, and they were delayed in arranging Shandan's head to become the same table.

However, there is such a thing as early love, and some teachers who like to find fault may ask parents or even let you go home to reflect. Most of the teachers I know, if your academic performance is not so bad, and the class does not destroy the classroom discipline, to put it bluntly, if it is not the kind of particularly bad student, the teacher will basically turn a blind eye and pass by, and even clap his hands to send blessings.

Parents are children's first and lifelong teachers, and most of the family education problems are parents' problems! Many parents use inappropriate and wrong education methods when their children have problems, resulting in their children's reluctance to communicate, rebellion, autism, skipping classes, etc., and even worse!

Parents are also out of the psychology of protecting their children, fearing that their children's early love will be mentally and even physically harmed, and hope that their children will study steadily, which is also in line with China's current mainstream values.

Because parents feel that early love will affect learning, and it will also affect their children's personality and development, they feel that early love is a very terrible thing.

The negative effects of puppy love are much higher than the positives, and puppy love can distract children from their studies, which can lead to a decline in academic performance.

That's because parents and teachers will think that early love will delay your studies and affect your grades, so it's scary.

It's a normal thing to fall in love, why should parents interfere? Many times, it is because of the age at which we are in love, or each other's situation, that our parents oppose it, so what should we do if our parents interfere? Let's take a look.

Fall in love at the right age.

The reason why many parents interfere is that their children start to fall in love when they are still very young, after all, they are still students, and they will inevitably miss each other when they are in love, so that the attention in class will be distracted and it is easy to affect learning.

Don't interfere with your own learning.

It is best to start dating after graduation, or when you are about to intern at university, and if it has already begun, you should also grasp the proportions of love, and at the same time do not affect your studies, academics are the most important.

Communicate rationally with your parents.

I have met a lot of friends, fell in love when I was young, was discovered by my parents, and then quarreled every day, in fact, both sides of the quarrel could not solve the problem, or spread out all the problems to communicate carefully, and each other took a step back.

Ask the parents about the reason for the objection

Sometimes there are other factors in the opposition of parents, after introducing their boyfriend and girlfriend to their parents, parents don't like it, don't guess the reason, or ask your parents directly, see what the boyfriend and girlfriend don't meet their minds.

Improve each other's shortcomings.

There may be a variety of reasons for the objection, and it may be very surprising to you, but if your parents ask for something that you can do with each other, then prove it to your parents and change what they think you are flawed.

Tell parents about the decision to stick with it.

The reason why many couples don't go to the end is because they gave up prematurely, after all, it's still up to you to get the marriage certificate, and tell everyone who opposes you that you will always stick to it and won't waver.

Be prepared to be incomprehensible.

Maybe in addition to your relatives and elders, your friends are not used to you being together, you must be prepared to accept their opposing eyes, have a certain psychological preparation, at first you may not be comfortable, but if you really love each other, slowly they will also accept.