Why don t I dare to speak, why am I afraid to talk to others?

This is a form of resistance in interpersonal interactions, which may contain some feelings of inferiority. Leaders and rich people are also people, they have their scenery, and they also have their troubles, but you can't feel it when you're not in their position. If you think about it from another perspective, you will feel that they are ordinary people just like you, everyone is equal, and you should naturally face them.

This is a personal psychological problem, in fact, it is not a big deal, but if you can't get out of this misunderstanding, it will have a great impact on your future life and work.

You can try to report to the leaders around you first, and have a few words by the way. Slowly you will get to know the leader better, don't worry, don't feel pressure, just chat with friends.

Maybe you have a "sense of justice"! However, what is needed in today's society is communication, between parents and children, between co-workers, and between superiors. I suggest you buy a book, about communication, good at expressing yourself, just "Celadon"! It's good and worth watching.

Lack of courage to communicate with others ...

Try to regulate your emotions and make contact with people enjoyable, don't resist it, and... Wait, if you want to communicate with yourself.

I'm the same as you, it's not good, a classmate of mine loves to be with the leader, the rich are together, and everyone is driving a car now, so we're still like this, there's no way.

Introverted, timid and afraid, submissive, no assertiveness, slight social phobia, too sensitive, too concerned about other people's opinions, with an inferiority complex, and at the same time strong self-esteem, and fear of saying the wrong thing when communicating with others, which leads to not daring to talk to it, in the final analysis, it is a combination of inferiority and strong self-esteem at the same time, contradictory.

Start by understanding your mental activity.

If you have an obstacle in interacting with others, you can first understand your own mental activities, when talking to others, whether you dare not look directly at each other, or sit in front of each other is already very timid, understand your own psychological changes, and in what circumstances you feel safest, you can practice chatting more in the environment where you feel safe.

When you don't dare to speak in the face of others, it means that you are a person who is less courageous and does not dare to express yourself in front of strangers, and secondly, you are more inferior.

When I saw your topic, my first feeling was to think of myself, as I grew up, I became more and more reluctant to communicate with people, so I often locked myself at home alone, reading books alone, playing mobile phones, watching **, playing games, etc., sometimes I also like to write my thoughts on paper, but after going to society, you can't be like this anymore, after all, you have to find a job, you have to communicate with people at work, when you first meet strangers, you really dare not speak, I always feel embarrassed, and every time I open my mouth, my face will be red, and then I slowly get in touch with more, and everyone is familiar with it, so I slowly got rid of this habit of not daring to speak.

To overcome this kind of fear to speak, you should go out in the face of the quarrel, communicate with strangers more, slowly you will dare to speak more and more, slowly you dare to speak in front of anyone, in fact, there is nothing to communicate with people, don't think too high of yourself, don't think too low of yourself, treat anyone normally, and build up self-confidence.

Hello, there is no need to worry too much about your troubles.

Obviously, this is an introversion of the character, and to put it mildly, it is inferiority.

If it is really low self-esteem and introversion, it can be corrected the day after tomorrow.

First of all, find out the root cause of low self-esteem, because the family is poor and not as good as others, or the appearance is average, or the voice is hoarse and unpleasant, etc. Yamadanzen.

In short, after finding the reason, learn to face it, and at the same time don't deliberately compare with others, don't be jealous of others, so that you will not have a psychological gap.

Of course, not daring to speak may simply be afraid of saying something wrong, which is not a bad thing, and prudence is a virtue that many people lack and do not burn. So, you can speak after a lot of thought, and you can think about whether the wording is appropriate or something before you say it.

Finally, it may also be a lack of self-confidence, and it is advisable to develop one or two strengths. Dusting can be a sport, or it can be a study and work.

Because it's your introverted personality. Introverted people are more inferior than the royal front, and they dare not express their opinions. Don't dare to express your opinion or opinion. This needs to be changed slowly.

The reason is that you lack the skills to communicate with others, you don't know how to express yourself with others, and over time, when facing others, you are blind and afraid to speak. In fact, the communication between people, even between strangers, is not about some big truths, how many theories, but more about some homely shortcomings, or some topics of interest, such as people who meet by chance, have they eaten? Have you eaten it, watched the news...Blocking the silver banquet, have you heard of it?In fact, you don't need to think about the problem so complicated, you have the experience of chatting for the first time, then there will be countless times, whether it is a person you know or a stranger, it is the same.

When you are facing others, you are afraid to speak because you are afraid of being nervous, but you want to communicate with others in your heart, then you have to exercise more, don't feel embarrassed and embarrassed, as long as you are not embarrassed, the embarrassment is others, you must be calm and confident, focus on yourself, if it is because you get along with others, you feel that there is nothing to say, and there is a problem with your expression ability, then read more books, read more books, and output more, don't be afraid of being noticed; If your personal personality is not to talk to others and enjoy a quiet and quiet solitary environment, then there is no need to change yourself and feel happy.

Judging from your description of the silver companion, it is considered that it is related to the usual introverted personality, coupled with the usual lack of self-confidence, which causes the current psychological disorder. It is recommended to choose the psychological counseling department of a regular hospital for psychological counseling and counseling, study more, enhance your ability, and exercise more, such as running, playing ball, etc., to relieve your inner pressure. Usually, it also allows bettors to communicate with familiar people first, enhance Ketanhuai's psychological barriers, look at the eyes, and then strangers in the process.

You don't dare to speak in the face of others, probably because of your personality, your personality is more introverted, and you don't like to take the initiative to talk to others, and Wang Heng because you have a little inferiority, if you have enough self-confidence, you will not dare to speak with others in a loud voice.

Because you have the psychological barrier of fear of embarrassment, you are afraid that when you speak in Yezhou, you will not speak well, others will be unhappy, you will feel that you are very useless, and you are not willing to see yourself like this, so you pretend to be a person who does not like to talk and is cold, but you are also eager to become a person who is good at communication.

This situation should be a typical inferiority complex for Brother Raider. Be sure to believe in yourself. I am no worse than others.

You have to look down on yourself, and no one will look down on you. Be sure to believe that you are the best. Usually you should exercise more, improve your physical fitness, talk more with your classmates, and learn to learn from each other's strengths.

Generally, the slag bridge is not confident enough in himself, you can try to chat with familiar friends first and then slowly chat with less familiar friends, to accept the imitation that you are also unique, no worse than anyone else.

It may be because of your personality, of course, it may also be that you have low self-esteem, which is not a good sign in any case.

Don't be afraid, take a look at books that boost positive energy.

I'm the same way, because I lack self-confidence, I don't dare to let them hear my voice, or I don't know what to say when I get to voice chat, and I don't know if you're like that. Founder's first thing is to make your self-confidence stronger, first chat with people you are familiar with with by voice, and slowly get used to it; Talk to strangers, and besides, they don't know you, so it's okay. I believe you won't be afraid of voice chat anymore, be yourself and come on!

Hello, I am a high-quality answerer, I am very happy to serve you, I dare not talk to you, because your personality is more introverted, and even have social phobia, you should constantly remind yourself to enhance your confidence, and give yourself positive psychological hints: you are no worse than anyone else. Autosuggestion is a unique human psychological activity that can directly affect people's speech and behavior.

Know, "I can do it!" This sentence is more often dissipated than not for others but for oneself, this kind of positive self-suggestion can often help a person to complete a more difficult task. There is another layer of meaning, during the epidemic period, I dare not say to talk to others, this is normal, try not to go out during the epidemic, reduce communication with others, do a good job of personal protection, abide by the relevant regulations of epidemic prevention and control, I wish you a happy life, all the best, I hope mine can help you!

1. Poor eloquence, can't find a topic, don't know what to say;

2. Emotional intelligence is not high, and I am afraid of not paying attention to saying things that offend people;

3. The face is too thin, afraid of saying the wrong thing, being ridiculed and looked down upon;

4. Too inferior, thinking that others are too great, thinking that they are very capable and eloquent; I can't compare to others in all aspects, so I don't have an aura in front of others and don't dare to speak.

5. Mistakenly think that talking to others is to be better at speaking than others, and they are more able to speak, but their own eloquence is not good, and they can't speak to others, so they dare not speak.

Solution: 1. Actively train your eloquence and let your eloquence gradually improve. "Bad eloquence" is the most important reason for not daring to speak.

2. Improve emotional intelligence, learn social knowledge, and learn how to behave and deal with others. Know what not to say and what to say boldly.

3. Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing. It's that people make mistakes, they say a lot of wrong things, they do a lot of wrong things. People learn lessons from making mistakes, and then grow, progress, and slowly mature.

If you choose to run away and choose to do nothing because you are afraid of making a mistake, then this is the biggest mistake.

4. Don't think too much of others. In fact, most of us are very ordinary, very ordinary, we are all about the same, nothing remarkable.

5. Don't make the mistake of thinking that talking to others is to be better at speaking than others. In fact, the purpose of chatting is not to compare who is better at eloquence and who will speak. The purpose of chatting is generally to get closer, exchange feelings, promote understanding, increase trust, communicate information, exchange opinions, discuss problems, or pass the time and have fun.

If the other party's eloquence is worse than your own, then you don't need to be afraid to talk to him at all, because the other party is not as good as yourself, what is there to be afraid of!

If the other party's eloquence is similar to his own, then there is no need to be afraid to talk to him, because everyone is similar, the eldest brother is not smiling at the second brother!

If the other party's eloquence is better than your own, then you should learn from the other party, chat more with people with good eloquence, and learn more from each other's speaking skills and routines, so that your eloquence will get better and better. In fact, it will be easier to communicate with people who can talk and speak well, and you don't have to worry about the embarrassing situation if you don't have a topic to talk about. Because the other party will take the initiative to find a topic to talk to you.

This is mainly due to the fact that you are not familiar with it.

Because when you get along with strangers, you may not know what topic to start with.

But it is recommended that you still have to be a little bolder, no matter what kind of person you get along with, you just have to communicate with each other normally, there is no need to deliberately please the other party.

Not daring to speak shows that our character is very shy, but we must dare to take this step. As long as you sing a song in KTV, then there will be a second time, and you won't be very nervous next time, and you will get along with others, and when you get along with more people, we will become very relaxed and know what to say.

Singing in the song room is particularly embarrassing and afraid to speak. If it's an unnecessary round, then don't go to it. If it's necessary, then sit down.

You can find a friend with whom you have a better relationship. In fact, you can also think of it this way, this is the time to exercise your social skills.

Singing in the song room is particularly embarrassing, and I don't know what to say and don't dare to speak. It's mostly about your experience, it's about your personality. After going through this scene a few more times, you will slowly get used to the state. So don't dwell on it, because people are in the process of learning.

Remember, the next time you have such an occasion, you either choose not to go, or you must bring your familiar friends, otherwise it is really embarrassing to face strangers in an unfamiliar environment, and it takes a social savvy to break this ice, or you can try to sing, so that you don't have to communicate with others and don't make yourself visible.