What should I do if I offend the customs of my girlfriend s house?

...It's not too big to kill people, and it will definitely have an effect if you all apologize like this, if you all get to the point of talking about marriage, but she insists on blowing it to you because of this matter, then buddy. Your girlfriend doesn't really love you either.

Be bold and admit your mistakes!

Don't be afraid to save face!

Your girlfriend is a bit of a pretext, have you offended her lately? Ha ha.

Since none of his family said anything

It's OK for you to coax her.

Hello. Just apologize to her and give her a small gift.

Maybe the newlywed is approaching, the woman will be more bored, more concerned and tolerant, and soon it will be fine.

Those who don't know are not guilty, just laugh it off, if her family likes you, you won't be deliberately embarrassed for you because of this little mistake, after all, parents should be measured in doing things, you don't have to care too much, you can ask your girlfriend to help you explain and explain, if such a little thing also makes you unable to get off the stage, then you will probably be difficult in the future, it's okay, this just looks at her family's reaction.

As the saying goes, 'follow the customs', but as the saying goes, 'those who don't know are not guilty', so what to do is to weigh it in your own heart.

Sincerely apologize to her family, and if you are sincere, you will definitely be forgiven.

Those who don't know are not guilty, speak clearly, and I am sure they will forgive you.

Generally, the first time I go, there is no red envelope, but if it is a quasi-boyfriend and girlfriend, it means that I will definitely get married and have the idea of getting married, in that case, I should give some red envelopes. And when you go, you have to remember to be polite and don't talk too much.

Generally, they will try to be considerate of each other... After all, the most important thing is the heart.

Red envelopes are not the turn of a boyfriend or girlfriend unless they are married.

It's best to bring a gift of indigo, and if it's too expensive, buy a few fruits. Vice versa.

New Year's is to eat lettuce and longevity vegetables and the like, please the head of longevity, remember to be polite when eating.

People in different places have different customs, but most people don't care about this, after all, meeting parents is just a way for everyone to get to know each other, and the most important thing is to make a good impression on each other.

Don't do disgusting gestures such as runny nose, throwing snot out, etc.

I think 600 is the most suitable to send.

Sixty-six Shunna.

Go better after the Spring Festival, if you prepare before the year, you may seem busy, and you have nothing to visit after the holiday.

Tobacco and alcohol, melons, fruits, pears, peaches can be used, or substitute for some local specialties.

Northeast people pay attention to the New Year lively, festive, and there are many New Year's customs.

Eat dumplings with coins for good luck.

Eating dumplings during the Chinese New Year is a custom of northerners. Northeast folk have the habit of keeping the New Year on Chinese New Year's Eve. On the evening of the Chinese New Year's Eve, you must eat dumplings, and only a few with coins are wrapped in many dumplings (now people pay attention to hygiene and use peanuts or other nuts instead). Whoever eats such dumplings is a sign of good luck and auspiciousness in the new year.

In addition, Northeast people must eat dumplings on the day of the "fifth day of the first month", also known as "breaking five", that is, biting the dumplings, meaning that all the unlucky things will be destroyed, and there is the meaning of driving away disasters and avoiding evil.

Eat frozen pears after Chinese New Year's Eve.

Due to the cold weather in the Northeast, some fruits have a different taste after they have been frozen. The most common are ice pears and frozen persimmons. It is understood that the purest is frozen autumn pear, there is a kind of pear called autumn pear in the north, this kind of pear is sour and astringent when it is just picked, so people pick this pear directly under the tree, cover it with a layer of leaves, after freezing, the autumn pear is sweet and sour, and the juice is sufficient.

Frozen pears should be thawed in water before eating, and eating this pear after a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner can relieve hangover and relieve oiliness.

Chinese New Year's Eve light longevity lamp.

Northeast people will light longevity lamps in the Chinese New Year's Eve, and the night will be bright. From the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve to the fifteenth Lantern Festival of the first month, every household must hang red lanterns, and at night they must light the lanterns, and they must stay overnight, and the lights cannot be turned off, which means that life is prolonged and incense is continuous.

I don't cut my head in the New Year.

Northeast people generally can't cut their hair before the first day of the second lunar month from the first day of the Lunar New Year, if they cut their hair, they will kill (die) their uncle, so Northeast people are very taboo about this, and no one will cut their hair in the first month. "On the second day of February, the dragon raises its head" This means that it will be very auspicious for people to cut their hair on the second day of February, so on this day, many people will compete to cut their hair and ask for good luck.

The first and second days of junior high school do not sweep the floor.

In the Northeast, the elderly have such a saying, the beginning of the new year.

In the first and second days of junior high school, if you don't sweep the floor, you don't want to sweep away your good luck and wealth. So you can only sweep the floor when you are in the third year of junior high school.

Hello, I'm a man from the Northeast, I've seen what you said, your girlfriend really dares to ask for it! I haven't experienced such a thing, but there is no custom of a boyfriend going to his girlfriend's house for the New Year, we have such a habit of giving four boxes of gifts to his girlfriend's house during the New Year, generally about 200-300, as for what the four boxes of gifts are, I don't know much because I haven't experienced it.

You should bring some gifts for her sister, some nutrition for her mom, and then 9,999 roses for your girlfriend. This saves a lot of money.

Just buy some intimate gifts, women like bags, buy a similar, or your hometown specialty, more suitable for women, the Northeast is not exquisite, don't be too restrained when talking or something.

Televisions aren't expensive either.

If you think this girlfriend is your marriage partner, buy it.

You can stay there for the New Year.

The suggestion of a gift is directly a thousand dollars.

I am from Shenyang. If you really can't afford to buy a TV. Let's put your girlfriend on the table and say that I can't buy a TV for the time being.

But is it the New Year. I don't know anywhere else. Northeast people are good to eat.

Don't buy oranges, black sesame paste, or anything like that. My friend's boyfriend bought more than 200 gifts for my friend's mother, and my friend's mother disliked it for a long time.

The people of the East Gate look at the façade. The main packaging should look good. Don't buy practical and economical packs. That's the end of it.

There are bird's nests that look good in packaging. (It's more than 100 a box) abalone or something. (Remember not to include unknown celebrities on the package.)

Looks cheap) If you drink alcohol, you can use Wuliangye. Even if he bought it, his family didn't eat it. But I am glad to look at it.

Otherwise, it's easy to get cash. Northeast people are happy when they see money.

Don't slam the door and let people look down on you.

I'm from Shenyang, don't slam the door and let people look down on you, just watch it.

Let go, manly man, don't let people underestimate you too much. But it is also necessary to stop talking. It's better not to talk nonsense. Ask your girlfriend about her family first, and learn more about her family. Isn't that what you have to say?

After getting married, you won't be unaccustomed.

If you like her, you will change to like her hobby, and etiquette is a very healthy career!

Material girls. She did it normally. You are a man who should do a man's business, if you can make a lot of money and can afford to support her, she doesn't have to find a job on her own.