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Yes, one cannot live without friends.
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It depends on what kind of friend it is.
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Depending on your own state of mind, different states of mind can make a big difference in how you view your friends.
1. You may be lonely and bored without friends;
It may be quieter without friends, and there may be less intrigue and a lot less contradictions without friends;
Not having friends may make you more independent.
2. There are benefits to having friends, there are benefits to not having friends, there is no right or wrong, the key is what you think. Thousands of people, thousands of people, thousands of tempers, everyone has everyone's personality and temperament, some people are cheerful and like to make friends, some people are introverted and don't like to make friends, so we have to respect everyone.
3. A person with few friends does not mean that he is unhappy, some people have few friends, but he loves to read, gain knowledge from books, get happiness, accompany books, and be friends with books. If you don't have friends, you have to take the initiative to make friends, think about others, pay more for others, and your friends will be more and more.
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Life without friendship is gray, just like everything has lost the light of the sun and has no brilliance. Life without friendship is boring, like a wet match, no matter how much you rub it, it can't ignite the flame of hope in life. A philosopher once said:
If two people share one pain, then there is only half pain; If two people share one happiness, they have two happiness. A life without friendship is incomplete and imperfect.
Facing each other calmly, just like with old friends, we talk about the past and the future; I will make my dreams come true, and you will chase your hopes. There are no longer admiring eyes and admiring love, and it is inconceivable that I can already do this, only to realize that time has long sublimated intermittent thoughts into the warmth of friendship.
In my spare time, invite three or five confidants and friends to have a drink, and I don't have to think about those worldly busyness, but friends tease each other and laugh together, which feels very good. I have also imagined that a few years later, when we are all dying and old, we are still together, in the afternoon sun, several gray-haired old people, holding hands to play, in the whistling wind, witness our friendship in this life.
The friendship that was once lost, step by step in the years of life, forgetting the bits and pieces of it once was. Looking back on the long road of life, I have had many friends, and we used to have fun and spend the ups and downs together. However, as time passed, few friends remained with me.
It's not because the distance makes people unfamiliar, nor because the estrangement between hearts makes people lonely, it's just because we're too busy, and each of us is addicted to a busy life and can't extricate ourselves. After being busy, when I have a gap, I occasionally think of my former friends, and I always want to pick up a pen to write a letter of greetings to my friends, and I always want to say a few warm words, but I can always find an excuse to say: "I am too busy and tired today, so let's do it tomorrow, and it is not too ......late to do it tomorrow.""That's it, it's been dragging on, tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much?
So many tomorrows inadvertently missed out on former friends.
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