The boy I suddenly liked for four years was a scumbag, what did he mean?

This boy is rejecting you euphemistically, but he is rejecting you in the form of pollution control, he may not be a scumbag, he is not embarrassed to say that he doesn't like you directly, he can only reject you in the form of his own heart. It's just that the refusal was very tactful, and pushed the director on himself to prove that this boy didn't have it in his heart, you are not your dish.

He's indirectly rejecting you, or he really likes you and hasn't thought about it yet. I confessed to a person before, and he said something similar. My friends said they were politely rejecting me.

As for whether you are a scumbag or not, it depends on how you usually get along. If it's just an ordinary friend, it's you who is tempted, and he's like this, I don't think it's a scumbag. If it's just that the performance is ambiguous, it's scum.

If you just look at this chat history, you think that this man just rejects you and just wants to be friends with you.

He may be afraid that he will hurt you, so he will explain this to you when you confess

Maybe you've encountered a high-level emotion** and you have to defend him.

He's rejecting you, what's the scum? He treats you as an ordinary friend, but you want to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, it's difficult! It's just that the goals are not the same, and there is no scum.

He said this very frankly, he even told you frankly! It shows that I am still responsible for you!

It's a clear refusal.

Be confident: This is a scumbag.

This is a rejection of you, don't you understand?

However, many girls don't think the same way I do, and this varies from person to person. Some girls may feel that they have paid so much affection and have not been loved by the other party, so it is a pity to give up, and the other party is indeed their own dish, and they always feel regretful if they don't eat it in their mouths, so even if they know that the other party is a scumbag, but because they like it too much, even if they take the risk of being deceived, they will choose to continue to like it, and if the other party confesses to themselves, they are likely to accept each other, which is called a willingness to fight and a willingness to suffer.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, but I can't do it if I give up my self-esteem because I like someone. If I knew that the other party was a scumbag, even if I liked it again, I would choose to give up and no longer have any thoughts. I won't be naïve to expect the other party to change, let alone wait there stupidly, I feel that my feelings should be used on more worthy people, and the scumbag is my shame, I can't accept it.

Some people say that it is normal for a woman to meet a scumbag on the road of affection, because a scumbag does not have any signs, and it is difficult for a woman to judge what kind of man will be a scumbag. There are also some men who were originally very good, but I don't know when they started to become scum, which is something that many women can't guard against. Therefore, don't feel that if you meet a scumbag, the emotional world will be clouded, and you won't dare to give your true feelings in front of your feelings.

There are a lot of men, and there are still a few scumbags, so there is no need to hold the mentality of being bitten by a snake for ten years and being afraid of the well rope, and shoot when it is time to shoot.

That experience is very distressing, I feel very blushing, I am worried that my vision is not good, and the boys I fancy are not good people

I guess I felt that I was blinded at the beginning, why did I like such a boy, and I would also think that how could such a thing happen to me.

I was very angry and annoyed, feeling that I was blind how could I like him, and I felt worthless for my previous efforts.