I ve lost something called happiness! Ask for help .

This shows that you are an unsatisfied person.

The reason why you are now in a state of uncertainty is:

First, your own current development is not finalized, and there are many variables, resulting in uncertainty about your feelings. You are not satisfied with your current status quo (excluding feelings). And these seemingly inconspicuous external factors can often affect a person's emotional world.

It can be seen that you are a person who has high requirements for feelings and high hopes.

Second, your emotional experience is still shallow, and you have not yet learned the relationship between feelings and marriage. For feelings can not be found, for marriage, many times it cannot be the same as feelings.

Suggestion: If you don't have the intention of ending your singleness yet, then you can get along with your friends calmly, but not so vacillating. It is a hurt and injustice to two men, and it will also have an invisible effect on your own body and mind.

If you want to end your single life, then it is recommended that you do not rush, with your current psychological condition, it is not suitable to make such a decision.

They love you so much, I want to ask you: do you love them? How do you love them? Hurt them?

You can't pedal two boats like this, I'm in a similar situation to you, I don't want one, I'm alone. Maybe it's because I have other reasons, but it's better not to do neither.

It's really hard, it's hard to make the best choice. But you still have to face it, calm yourself down, try to leave them for a while, not too long for a week, cut off all contact with them, go into your own space and think about it and you will know what to do.

You're too greedy, aren't you, hey, do you know what pure love is? What a miserable man who loves you!

I don't know when I lost my happiness. It seems that there is only some short-term happiness when holding two babies at home, but at work, it is so unhappy.

I don't know how to live, and I don't know why there are joys, angers, and sorrows. Especially now at the stage of preparing for the exam, it seems that only by opening the book and opening the teaching** can there be some sense of existence and meaning.

I often call this state the lack of a fulcrum of life, without a fulcrum, just like a tree without roots, living, and not knowing how to live, how to be happy, how to be interesting, how to be a pursuit, and a fulcrum.

I often think that maybe the fulcrum is our outlook on life, my outlook on life, seems to be changing all the time, when I was a child, my family was poor, my parents were unable to stay around, I went to school, got out of school, and did my homework, it was all my own business. This life is like a spinning top, for whom it turns, how it turns, when and where it turns, I don't think so seriously. Once, I was also trapped by love, I thought that people live nothing more than for the world to be sensitive to family affection, for family, for friends, but now, is it because of a warm home, a lover, a child, emotionally has been satisfied, so, I am confused again, I don't know who to live for.

In the final analysis, I am still unhappy. Because I experienced a dismissal, I couldn't calm down for a long time, worried, scared, uneasy, careful at work, and then just careful, careful, and lost myself.