What is it like to have a roommate who loves to complain?

It wasn't supposed to be a good experience, I personally found it quite annoying, and I was really tired of complaining about that kind of crumbling thoughts and all negative energy.

When I first entered college, the dormitory was chaotic at the beginning, that is, I didn't live with my own class or grade at the beginning, but according to the rule of whichever dormitory had a vacancy, I was assigned to a dormitory, that is, I was the only freshman in the dormitory, and the others were junior seniors.

The relationship between the three senior sisters is also very delicate, there are two people who never speak, and later I learned that they had a dispute before, and they didn't like each other, which created a situation where they didn't say a word while living under the same roof, I thought that anyway, I was new here, and I would just live my own life, just come back and sleep, there is no need to be too serious, I went out when there was a class, and I stayed in the dormitory less when there was no class.

But when summer came, I had absolutely no doubt that the city where my university was located was also a furnace, but it was ignored. I didn't dare to go out casually, so I had to stay in the dormitory obediently, and it was during that time that I had a little more contact with the senior sister who often stayed in the dormitory.

Originally, it was okay not to contact it, but after some contact, I completely understood! She is the kind of person who can complain about everything for a long time, she complains that her boyfriend is far away and doesn't come to see her often; She complained about how chaotic the other senior sister's life was, and she often didn't come back; She complained that her parents didn't approve of her and her boyfriend, she didn't know if the two of them would break up in the future, a whole bunch of balabala, anyway, as long as you were happy to listen, she could really go to school all morning.

At that time, I really felt that these things had nothing to do with me, I didn't need to listen, I didn't like to listen, I wasn't a particularly gossip person, even gossip I prefer gossip about things that I am interested in, rather than this kind of hazy gossip, anyway, it's uncomfortable to pretend to listen. When I can get out, I'll find an excuse to hide as soon as possible.

My top bunk is a girl who likes to complain, and I feel that sometimes I feel annoyed, but sometimes I think it's actually quite fun.

For example, every time we are in the dormitory at night, when we are doing homework, we don't know when the college students in other dormitories or other schools will finish their homework, anyway, we will definitely not choose to waste our time writing homework during the day.

I will definitely choose to complete the homework assigned by the teacher at night, when there is nothing to do, and then every time I write my homework in the evening, this roommate of mine starts to complain, saying oops, why do you have so much homework again, it's just a lot of negative emotions.

She will vent out and say it, so that when she says these words again and again, it will make us feel that it is actually quite irritable, after all, no one wants to do homework, right, it especially affects the learning atmosphere of our dormitory, at this time I think she is actually quite rude, quite unlikeable.

In addition, the position in our class is casual, and after we go, we can sit wherever we want. So we all sit with whoever we have a good relationship with, and the people in our dormitory all sit very close.

And then every time the teacher lectures, she will complain, not the kind of ordinary complaint, but the kind of teacher who will whisper a sentence below, and then let others not be able to do a good job.

But sometimes I think it's funny, because every time she goes to dinner, she says, "Oh, why is it so troublesome?" I still have to eat every day, and it would be nice to be able to gather the time to eat in one day, eat one day and sleep the other. Sometimes I can hear her say such ridiculous things, and I think it's funny, and life suddenly seems to have a little fun.

Some people already have roommates in high school or even junior high school, and I didn't have roommates until college. And if you can, if you don't get abrupt, you probably won't have roommates at the university. So I'm looking forward to meeting my roommates before school starts. <>

I imagine what my roommate is like. Lively, splattery, cute, sullen, etc., and what about my roommates! At that time, I had just finished the college entrance examination and was idle at home, so I was looking forward to it, and I often imagined it in my mind, and I often wanted to laugh at myself!

When I first arrived at the school, I thought they were all very good people, and there was no conflict in the division of labor. So, at that time, I felt that life was very good, and life was very nourishing.

However, after getting along for a long time, I can get acquainted with their temperament, and it has been nearly a month since the start of school, whether it is the feeling during military training or the feeling during class, I found that my roommate has a little complaint, of course I know that this is normal, people! It is impossible not to complain at all, and we are not people who are far away from the red dust. I have no objection to them using complaints to spice up life, or rather, to ridicule life, to be precise, college life.

But I think complaining is just a way to ridicule, and it can also be a way to vent. But if you catharsis for too long and too much, it will affect your quality of life. It will make you a person who spreads negative energy, and you will become more and more depressed, and it will also affect the people around you.

This is irresponsible to yourself and the people around you.

One of them is like this all the time, complaining when it's too hot, complaining when he's too sleepy, and complaining when class is too early. I'm speechless when I hear this every day, and since I can't change the status quo, why don't I try to improve myself.

Life has to go on, life has to live, rather than living a muddy life, it is better to live happily!

If you have a roommate who likes to complain, it is a rather awkward experience, because he will complain to you a lot of things in daily life and transmit negative energy to you.

This kind of roommate will only spread some negative energy, so stay away from such roommates.

1.Stay away from complaining.

Emotions are contagious to each other, with happy people, we are easy to be happy, with pessimistic people, we are more likely to be pessimistic. A bad environment will make us have a bad state of mind. Moving away from the complainer allows the brain not to be attacked by the complaining and get hurt.

2.Steer. But sometimes, we avoid complaining about the complainer and we can't completely solve the problem, for example, when our relatives and friends complain to us, we choose to avoid it, which will affect the feelings between the two parties and hurt the other party. So at this time, we can try to guide him and guide him on how to solve the problem by himself, such as, "How do you think to solve this problem?" "Develop their minds, calm them down, and calm down with solutions.

3.Defense. Although the above two methods can be a good solution to the complaints of ourselves, but sometimes we will be very passive and unable to solve the above two ways, then we can try to build a psychological "firewall" for ourselves. Use some psychological techniques to block whining words from entering the brain and avoid damage to brain nerve cells. For example, when an athlete is playing away from home, some of the psychological techniques used when facing pressure from the home crowd are worth applying.

For the person around you who often complains, you must learn to stay away, if you really can't stay away, then you must learn to ignore him.

There is a good saying: "When you walk with healthy people, you will find that your life is more regular and your body is always healthy." Walking with people with diseases, you will find that over time, you will be irritable and will feel irritable. ”

So the influence of the people around us is actually very huge.

Learn to use positive energy to drive the people around you. Fill your life with health!

I always thought that my current roommate was actually a very strange person, and I really didn't like to get along with such a person, but slowly I realized that it was probably really my wrong idea. Because recently I thought about the person who really makes me angry that I can't live together, so what kind of person is this person. I really have a lot to say, because there are still a lot of people who hate him very much in his dormitory.

In the past, when we were in a dormitory, he always asked me to go to the Internet café to surf the Internet, because I just met him, so I would go to the Internet with him, but then slowly I found that this person was talking about one thing, but when doing things, it was a different thing, so I think this kind of thing is really uncomfortable.

Now I slowly think about it at that time, everyone in our dormitory actually didn't like him, but because one of the reasons why our dormitory people had a good temper, they also slowly endured his bad temper, and then I couldn't help it, that is, I found someone to change a dormitory, because I was afraid that I would become depressed after a long time, such a roommate didn't say that I didn't want to live with him, but I didn't want to see this person now.

To be honest, having a roommate who hates people really makes me particularly helpless, there is no way, who makes the dormitory room random? That's all I can get into here. This roommate of mine, when I first met him, he was sitting there with his phone in his hand.

I don't look at anything, I don't look at anything. The moment I walked in the door, he didn't even look up at me. My mood at the time was that another rich kid had come to school for his honeymoon.

His dad stood there directing his mom to make his bed and clean up the cupboards. At that time, I thought, why can't a child of this age clean up by himself? During the exchange, he didn't say a word to me, it was all his parents who told me.

Anyway, my first impression of this person was that he was a gentleman. There was no choice but to accept fate.

After all, everyone has to study under the same roof for several years. It can only be more communication and communication with each other. At the beginning, everyone was not particularly familiar with each other, and there was inevitably some friction with each other.

But do you know how much this person has been annoying? During the military training, I said that we would train together, but he couldn't get up for a long time. There's no way around that, and it's impossible to leave him in the dormitory when everyone first gets along.

I can only tell him about military training! Get up! It turned out that because of him, the four of us, we were all late for the first day.

I was punished by the instructor for doing push-ups, duck steps, oh my God, that feeling really made me feel very uncomfortable.

And this man at the beginning. The feeling of being above the top also caused a deep disbelief in my heart. What are you?

Why do you despise people? Everyone has one head and two nostrils. They all carry exactly the same thing on their shoulders.

Do you think you're a class above me? I'm sorry, I'm not going to give you face. There were even times when I was doing something, and he would show up at the right time and sneer at me.

This person may be unintentional, and he just hates him for being careful and careful. But he still takes great care of people in big things.

I really hated him at first. It's really annoying, everyone in our dormitory has cleaned up the dormitory, and the first thing he does when he comes back is to make the dormitory dirty and messy. He was the only one in the bedroom who had seen cockroaches.

What we told him was, didn't you see that we had just cleaned up the dorm? Can't you cherish it? But he answered, I'll clean it up for you later, can't I?

There's really no way to say. Although he said that he cleaned up the floor later, his tone at the time was also very annoying to us. Anyway, after getting along for a long time, his annoying nature has changed little by little, and even his parents told us that this kid actually knows how to clean up the house after returning home.

It's rare to see in a hundred years.

I feel very unhappy, in such a situation, I think you must not like to chat with him, but as a dormitory, you have no way not to live together.

I have a roommate like this, because her personality is completely different from my life, my personality is more generous, I will never care about money, but she belongs to the kind of person, a few cents will not let go, so the relationship between the two of us is very stiff, I also think that people like him are very annoying, but what is the way we have to be together every day, but in this environment our relationship is not good, it will make other people's relationships very embarrassing, So although I feel very uncomfortable, I can only endure it.

So the feeling is that you have to smile at people you don't like every day and say some perfunctory things. I think that's probably what people often call a feeling of being involuntarily. It was very uncomfortable, but I had to endure it.