My parents didn t approve of my boyfriend and me, and we eloped

I'm 25, from Hubei, girlfriend 23, Hunan, her family doesn't agree with us dating, and even her family except her grandfather, others scold me when they see me, and they scold, and then they find a few cousins of her family, and my cousin wants to beat and kill, I still went to her house a few times, hoping to do the work of the elderly, several times unsuccessfully, and then we eloped, her family called ** to me, lied to me and said that since my girlfriend is so absolute, they agreed, and then we went back to her house, It turned out that after humiliating me, I locked my girlfriend at home for half a year, and then I found an opportunity to go to her house again, took her away again, and now we are very happy together and are ready to get married this year. To your question, what I want to say is, don't live for others, first of all, you must know whether he can take his share of responsibility after you leave with him, and then whether you really plan to live with him for the rest of your life. If these two answers are yes, I'll tell you, go with him!

I'm in the same situation as you, friend! Communicate with your family first! Time will change everything!

This kind of thing can't be solved in a day or two. It takes time. My family also didn't approve of us being together because of the same situation as you!

I just have to hold on now! Because neither side wants to lose! We can only be strong and face everything!

Think about it, what would happen to your parents if you were gone? How sad they would be, have you thought about it? Do you think you are right to hurt your parents who have worked hard to raise you for many years for the sake of someone you love?

Besides, your boyfriend brought it up! Don't you think he's a selfish person? For the sake of his own happiness, he hurts the parents of the so-called most loved ones!

Alas! Which is more important, go for yourself!

This kind of thing is really nerve-wracking, and some parents are like that, so let's cut it first and then beat it! I wish you all happiness!

Friend, listen to me, it is difficult to be happy in a marriage without the blessing of your family!

Parents are not at fault.

It's your choice.

Elopement is not realistic and is not the best option.

Both you and your boyfriend can live happily ever after.

I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

Today's parents all look at each other's conditions, and they don't talk about feelings at all, so how many innocents have been harmed. I know that parents are for the good of their daughters, but they also have to take care of their daughter's feelings, I don't know if they sell their daughters or marry their daughters, marriage is not free at all, there is no money to work together to earn it, do they have to break up their lovers to be happy, it's really helpless!

Elope? All right!

Have you figured out what your environment will be like after you elope?

Can you be self-reliant?

Can you be sure that he will be single-minded with you in the future?

I'm from here!

You are miserable now, and you will be happy for a while if you elope.

But what about your family?

They're your dearest!

People who are dozens of years old still elope, look at the world, and don't do those meaningless things.

Try to do the work of parents first, and you really shouldn't have to do it first.

Forget it if you die, the so-called can't be born in the same year, but I want to die at the same time.

Let's just say I'm pregnant. It's a bit of a loss, but it should be useful.

No parent is bad for their children.

It's all for the good of the kids.

Yes, adults have the right to choose their partner.

But first of all, we have the obligation to support our parents, how to do it is a little irresponsible, depending on the specific reasons why the parents do not agree, if the parents do not agree with the place is more reasonable, especially female friends should consider carefully.

Generally speaking, parents are a solid support after being wronged, if there is a conflict with the father and daughter, in case of unhappiness after marriage, they can only eat coptis dumbly, and they can't say what they are suffering from.

Therefore, it is not recommended to elope, discuss it with your parents, and keep your eyes open to see if it is really inappropriate or if your parents are too harsh.

Adults have the right to choose and are also responsible for their own choices.

It is definitely not good for your parents to elope if you don't agree with you, because if you don't have your parents to protect you and you don't have your parents' approval, most marriages are unhappy, and parents generally think about their children, so you still have to think twice, consult your parents more, and ask your parents for their opinions. Marriage is not child's play, so you must be cautious.

No. Parents do not agree to get along, there are other ways to solve it, and elopement will have serious consequences, especially for girls, and the price will be greater.

The vast majority of parents are reasonable people who will not interfere in their children's marriage, and they are the ones who are most eager to see their children's happiness.

First of all, elopement is basically impossible to achieve in the modern society of the Internet, because there are all kinds of monitoring networks and various resources everywhere in modern society, and there are no opinions that you want to hear, as long as your parents are willing to look for them, you will always be able to find clues.

Secondly, from the perspective of your parents, since you don't agree with getting along, it means that your parents don't think it is suitable for you, and you can't think about many things yourself, and your parents have thought about it very well for you, so it's not wrong for parents to listen to their parents' opinions.

Hello, you ask, you don't agree with our deal, can we elope? You can't elope with this question. You're really in good shape, and you're in love.

People have to be good to the elderly. Look at your parents more. Over time, your parents will like her and will agree.

Theoretically, yes, but from the facts, from the emotion, from the life and other aspects, it is still necessary to get the consent and blessing of the parents, and have the opportunity to communicate with the parents more.

It's best not to, sometimes you will regret it, it's better to communicate with your parents, after all, even if you elope, you may not be happy.

Since your parents don't agree with you getting along, you have to ask your parents about their reasons, and if they are for your good, you should break up instead of elopement, and the consequences of elopement are often more tragic.

Parents must be for the sake of their children, there may be some reason for disagreeing with your object, it may be that you are still young and underage, maybe the other party's character is not good, etc., or it may be that the thinking is more traditional and conservative, you have to communicate with the family to discuss and solve, you can't run away from home and elope, the outside world is not as beautiful as you imagined, and daily expenses are also a problem, good luck.

If your parents don't agree with you being together, because your parents don't agree with the reason and solve the problem, if your parents always disagree, you don't have to tell your parents first, the two of you get along secretly, and when it's over, you can tell your parents at the right time.

If your parents don't agree with you getting along, you can't elope, because the more you do this, the more disgusted your parents will be, and the less they will agree to you being together. However, a more modest approach should be taken. Find ways to make your parents happy.

Let parents see each other's sincerity and strengths. See your determination too, so that parents will agree.

Don't elope, your parents will be very sad. You can't do this for the sake of your parents. You can tell your parents that you like him very much and want to be with him. I hope that parents can be fulfilled.

Parents don't agree, we get along, of course, we can elope, because the feelings belong to us, I believe that our parents will understand us.

Of course not, it will be very sad for your parents, and all you need to do is to convince them so that they can bless you. In fact, it is to tell them with actions that the other party loves you very much and can give you happiness.

It can be, but you have to think clearly, real life is not like the TV series, you have to bear a lot of things, from all sides, think about it yourself, it's best to find a way to solve the problem, avoiding the problem is not a long-term solution.

No. In the world, people must first have a sense of responsibility and learn to take responsibility. The power of love is great, and everything must be solved with love!

In the eyes of parents, their children are always the best, and the other half of the children should also be shining, so that they are worthy of their children. We need to understand the painstaking efforts of our parents! Since the two are in love, then the two of them together, face both parents together, let the parents feel your love, and the parents will eventually agree:

Because the happiness of children is the real happiness of parents!

If your parents don't let you get along, there must be a reason for him, and that reason also tells you, why don't you get along? You should understand in your heart, remember a sentence, all parents in the world are the same, let their children be good, no parent does not want their children to be good, if one day, when you encounter difficulties or dangers, your parents will definitely be the first time, come to your side, when you solve problems, if you elope, will make your parents anxious, now you don't understand the mood of your parents, after you become a family, what your parents do for you today, then you will all understand, because you don't raise children, don't know your parents' kindness, As you grow older, you will grow up slowly, and understand the hard work of your parents, and when you are old, to the age of your parents, you will understand, and it will be too late at that time, why not when you are young? Listen to your parents' advice and teachings?

Also remember to listen to your parents more, if you are particularly happy in the future, you will be grateful for everything that your parents have taught you today, there is a kind of love, no one can replace it, no one can match, only parents, cherish the time with your parents! Be filial to your parents!

Of course, you can't elope, elopement is to hurt yourself, it makes sense that your parents don't agree, they are from the past, you have to listen to their advice.

Don't elope, your parents don't agree, you have the truth of your parents, your parents are from the past, you have seen more of the world than you, he is from the good side of you, if you think that your parents think well, it's not like that, then you can make it clear to your parents, if it is indeed your parents, and then you still want to love yourself, you will encounter a lot of suffering in the future, you will regret it at that time, but we don't know the specific problem, you think about it yourself, anyway, elopement is not the best policy.

It's okay to elope. But the price is too heavy. This is not recommended. Adults are responsible for their actions. Talk to your parents. Impress them with your true feelings.

If your parents don't agree, don't elope. Because you have to face your parents in the future, they are the hearts and minds of your parents, and if you are an only child, you can't, because the only child is all your parents, and you must communicate with your parents to figure out why you oppose and what you are worried about? Put the problem on the table, solve the problem, let the relatives who agree with you to do the work, or you can write a letter of guarantee, generally because you are worried about divorce and guilt in the future, and the starting point is for the good of your children.

I recommend that it is best to take care of your parents easily.

If your parents don't agree, you get along with the object, you can't elope, if you elope, your parents can't find your parents will be very sad, you should consider your parents' feelings, do some work with your parents, if you really love each other, your parents will agree with you, if you elope, if you don't have a good time, you will feel that your parents are doing the right thing, don't be hot-headed for a while, you should stay with your parents to discuss.

Parents don't agree, we get along, can we elope? I think. No, I should say absolutely no.

Parents won't hurt you. Since he doesn't agree, you get along. They have a point.

Since you guys want to be together. should be with their parents. Communicate and discuss.

That is, you and your friends. Together, your mother and your father are likely to see. You will not be happy in the future.

That's why it's stopped. I suggest you want you to talk to your own parents. Lots of communication.

Such. Maybe your parents will change their minds.

Emotional counseling: My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time, and the two of us have been quite rough together, originally his family was against us being together, and now my family is beginning to oppose it, my mother also told me that if I am with him, it will be without me, and I have always been a very well-behaved child since I was a child, so I don't know what to do.

But my boyfriend told me that he wanted me to elope with him, so that my parents would agree to it, and time would change everything. Let's talk about our family background, my family is in the city, his family is in the suburbs, he is an only child, I have a younger sister in my family, in fact, at the beginning, my family asked him to come to our side, thinking that this is good for our future development, but he disagreed, he felt that this was a very faceless door.

I said no, he said that when he came to the city, he would at least live in my house first, and then slowly buy a house later, wouldn't that be an inverted door? And he only has a divorced mother, so it is impossible to lose his mother.

Then he began to convince me again, saying that my parents did not agree, and that they would agree when the time came, and let me elope with him, and that my parents would definitely forgive me and still agree to be together. But what he said is easy, on the one hand, it is family affection and on the other hand, it is love, and I can't do it on the other hand, and I can't do it, what should I do? Do you really want to elope?

My advice; I think you should think about it and don't be impulsive yet, after all, a marriage without the blessing of relatives is not safe! Also, your boyfriend is a bit selfish to be honest, why didn't he say take you away when his family didn't agree, and now that your family doesn't agree, he actually let you elope with him? It's selfish and irresponsible!

And you are facing feelings now, but if you are really together, what you will face in the future is life! If you get married, if you marry far away, you will quarrel with your boyfriend or something, or what your in-laws will do to you, you have no place to say if you have grievances! It's hard to belong to your mother's house and your mother-in-law's house, both inside and out!

And why don't your parents approve of you being together? You didn't say this, I think parents still have a certain amount of experience in their vision, you should think carefully about whether there is a certain reason, and then make a choice! In short, these can be solved and discussed before marriage, but if you elope, it will be passive, you can think about it yourself!