Which one should I choose, new love or old love, which do you think is the best?

Since you know who you love, you should catch her (if you are sure that she loves you too), if you develop with the one you don't like, it will cause her more physical and mental damage, the so-called long pain is better than short pain!

Men always like nostalgic things, women are strong inside, but they all have a good side, so you should choose someone you love.

I will choose the current one, since it has begun, don't let people down, and learn to cherish it.

Bless you

If it were me, I would choose this one ... After all, the first love of the past is the most beautiful memory to keep... Some things some people miss and don't be nostalgic anymore ... CHERISHING WHAT IS IN FRONT OF YOU IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ...

Know that you will never forget your first love! But now you have a girlfriend with you! Listen to what you said, your relationship is also relatively good! I hope you don't do something that the other 3 people are sad about! Brother: Do you know how to do it?

Now this, cherish it well.

If you can't get it right, others will get along.

If it was my current girlfriend it was the obvious choice.

What about a first girlfriend? Thinking of you when you are separated from your boyfriend? So what are you?

There is nothing wrong with a man valuing feelings, but there is no need to lose a watermelon and pick up sesame seeds.

If it's monogamy, you don't have to worry. It's pathetic.

Which do you think is the best, new love or old love? Both new love and old love are a kind of love. Saying that this is important, I want to tell you that two old loves are heavier than new ones.

Because the time and emotion of old love is the longest. Even if you have a new love now, sometimes you will remember the time with your old love, crying and laughing because of you, and so on. In fact, it doesn't matter anymore.

The important thing is that you have loved once and understand what it feels like. If you're willing to ask questions, recognize the real "importance".

The people you love dearly are always humble. When you really love that person, it will really be low as dust. Knowing that he still loves someone else and knowing that he can't let go, he always comforts himself.

Never mind. They are a thing of the past. He will love me.

And then all the way down, black and blue. New love and old love are like emotional "white roses" and "red roses". In the eyes of men, I don't know how to choose.

The new love is your present, and the old love is your past. After a breakup, will the new love surpass the old one?

When a new love meets an old one, the obsessed person never forgets the past, but the determined person never looks back. For the most part, the new love is still at a disadvantage.

The new love may be very unconvinced. She is obviously her other half. Even if there is that person, she is the most important person to the other person.

Instead of being nostalgic for the past, cherish the present. But you should understand that what you don't get is the best. Things come first, they come first.

Xin Huan is destined to be an outsider in this relationship. Only by accepting this fact can you understand where you stand. There is a lyric in Eason Chan's "Red Rose" that reads:

What you don't get is always chaos, and those who are favored are confident. ”。In psychology, this phenomenon is known as the Genec effect, also known as the Chiconi effect.

It's a memory effect, which means that people are more impressed with what is unfinished than what is done. This explains why he always likes to choose between you and his ex.

Haruki Murakami mentions "Siberian hysteria" in "South of the Border, West of the Sun", saying that in distant Siberia, every day the sun rises over the eastern horizon, and the peasants start their day's work, and when the sun sets on the western horizon, they call it a day and go home to rest, day after day. Gradually, the peasant felt as if he had died, his body empty, and his soul seemed to have fled far away. So he ran frantically in the direction of the setting sun in the west, without eating or drinking, to recover his soul until he fell to the ground and died.

Of course, this is an allusive metaphor, and it also appropriately points out the state of the male protagonist in **. In fact, I was completely relieved until the end of the **, I was afraid that Haruki Murakami would fall into an unreasonable literary plot.

I mean, how could Chu, such a successful 37-year-old man, with a beautiful wife and daughter, and a luxury car, be so enchanted by the lame female classmate he loved when he was 12 years old that he had to abandon his wife and pursue the lost soul of his empty torso? Is he fed? - I can understand that Junichi Watanabe let the hero and heroine of "Paradise Lost" die in extreme love, but I can't believe that a man in this state at the beginning would abandon everything he has.

You know, this is not a fairy tale.

Fortunately, Chu finally returned to the family, although the reason was that the female classmate disappeared inexplicably. This is obviously much more true.

In reality, there are so many loves, can people be so obsessed? You must know that your new love now is just someone else's old love; And your old love is probably about to become someone else's new love.

On February 14, 1990, the Voyager 1 spacecraft turned around and photographed a group of planets from far away from outer space**, one of which happened to be photographed of Earth, which was just a tiny, tiny faint blue dot. And the famous American astronomer Karl. Sagan was inspired to write the book "The Dull Blue Dot".

He thinks we can get the following deep inspiration from this **:

After seeing this dim blue dot, let's go back and look at the so-called new love and old love, life and death love, isn't it boring?

Haruki Murakami said, "Everyone has their own piece of forest, maybe we have never walked it, but it has always been there and will always be there." Those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again. "I like to understand it to mean that everything is arranged, although you have your little thoughts, I have my little thoughts; But don't delay your work!