How old is it to grow up As the title says, thank you

I remember a few years ago I have been asking adults like this, when will I grow up, day by day, from a yellow hair to grow into a college student, this is also a blink of an eye, the things of the hour are still vivid, as if it happened yesterday, grow up, not good, now I often say to my mother that I really want to be smaller, the pressure of life is ready to attack me before I can be independent, I can only giggle, it is not good to grow up, but also think that people are strange animals, When I was a child, I hope that I will grow up quickly but I hope that I will never grow up, facing the door of society, I can't help but be afraid, can I cope with such a society, or when I was a child, there is something to hide behind my mother, and now there is something to do, I can only solve it myself, my mother can only stand next to me and put forward opinions, and in the future, I will stand in front of my mother, and I will block it, this is the process of human growth, running from back to front, growing up is really bad, what is good about growing up, I want to grow up in the child who can understand the hardships of growing up, fall to get up by yourself, tears to swallow in the stomach, can not show their weakness to others, because it is an adult, to be a role model, injured, can not cry pain, or keep moving forward, even if the feet are worn out, the society does not allow us to stay too much, once we stay, it is backward to be abandoned, it is really bad to grow up, for the sake of life, everything is carried by yourself, tired can not say, can not fall, because there is still a person behind to protect, When I fall, it's the end of a person, and it's not good to grow up, but I still have to keep going. Because I want my future.

Actually, you've grown up, but in the eyes of adults, we're always children.

Growing up is divided into physiological and psychological growth and maturity, growing up is a natural law, but also everyone must experience, is a process of life, this process is irreversible, but also your mental journey, everyone in the process of growing up, always have to maintain some of their original nature, this nature is difficult to lose and change, do not deliberately change yourself to let yourself grow up, as you get older, you will face more things alone, Your thoughts are also more mature with the fingers, the thinking is also enriched, the desire is also expanded, at this time, your psychology will also mature, only the psychological maturity of you can be regarded as really growing up, but growing up is also relative, relative to your past, you are always thinking of growing, growth is a process, for you, is also the process of harvesting life, followed by of course the increase of troubles, responsibilities and obligations also increase, troubles are not a bad thing, the key depends on how you treat, When encountering troubles and troubles, it is not just to bear and accept, which is the so-called hard carrying, but to bear and accept at the same time, you should be able to effectively analyze and resolve it, so that you can constantly recharge yourself, so as to better replenish your energy, so as to enhance the elasticity of your own bearing force and the elasticity of your acceptance. In this way, we can make ourselves more courageous to face troubles and troubles, and make ourselves stronger and more resilient.

At the same time, you can also make your mind more mature, and you can make yourself grow faster and more stable, and you can also understand life, so that you can better understand life! Taste life and use your wisdom to harvest your life! Good luck with good health!