What does it feel like to be rejected 3 times or more for chasing a girl?

It's sad, or it's getting less and less confident in yourself, because your own charm is not enough to be worthy of the person you like, but it will also stimulate your fighting spirit and make yourself better and better.

In the end, it must be painful, all kinds of lying on the playground to watch the stars all night, and writing some strange poems in the space, very uncomfortable, of course, now thinking about it, I am still very grateful to her, at least during the period of chasing her, her academic performance went from a lower level to the forefront, and finally went to a key high school, and was admitted to a good university.

Then give her a while, think about it, after a while, when everyone is no longer running away, no matter how real she is, if she is rejected again, then she can't do it, and she is desperate and destroys her self-confidence.

You should be glad that you didn't catch up and couldn't be together, because what you can't catch is always the best, and when you catch up and find out that she is also a mortal, you will be very disappointed, anyway, I'm like this, although I will be sad and sad.

The more abused, the more comfortable, the more abused, the cooler, if you can't always catch up, there is a sense of conquest, the feeling of chasing her into your hands, and occasionally there will be some frustration, because after all, she has been rejected so many times.

Is it wrong to like someone? There's nothing wrong, everyone has the right to pursue the person they like, there is no right or wrong, since you like it, please insist, even if it doesn't succeed, you can be worthy of your heart,

It is nothing more than three senses, the first, which henceforth becomes a stranger; The second is to eat and drink as if nothing happened. The third is unwillingness, constantly striving for and disturbing the other party.

You will feel very frustrated, you will feel that no one wants to like you if you are very bad, you will be afraid that no one will want to be with you in the future, you will be afraid that you will continue to be hurt, and you will not dare to like others easily.

Probably because he felt that he was no longer possible with her, because he didn't like me at all, otherwise why would he keep rejecting me and lose confidence in himself.

See if you like that kind very much, otherwise you will stop, let go very chicly, don't let yourself be too tired, and keep a little dignity for yourself.

Yes, if I had been rejected three times, I would have continued to work hard, after all, it was someone I liked. Perseverance, gold and stone can be carved! Of course, to pursue girls, you must have the courage to continue to pursue after Xian Qingna.

Of course, it is best not to be bothered to pursue girls, but to pursue them in a way and skillfully. So what to do if you are rejected three times by a girl?

1. Don't be discouraged if you are rejected three times by a girl. If you don't have too many rejections on your face, it means that he hasn't completely shut you out. But in the process of pursuing, we must establish a firm belief.

It's better to be cheeky. Boys pursuing girls must be polite.

Two. Even if the girl rejects me, I still need to keep in touch at this time. In fact, in the process of chatting, you can let the other person know about you, but in this case, be sure to show your best side and don't make people feel that you are lonely.

People with bad character, say your heart and let the other party know your heart for him.

3. If you still love the other person after being rejected three times, you should continue to associate with the other person. Do you want to surprise the other party, so that the other party slowly understands you in the process of pursuit. It shows that success is approaching.

Fourth, hit ** or block, in this case, it means that this girl is a real brother and doesn't like you, if this happens, you have to give up. If the girl is not so happy in the process of courtship, even if you refuse, it may be that he still does not understand you and does not know whether to agree, so in this case, you have to adjust your mentality.

Pursuing a girl takes effort, and if you give up and are rejected, it only means that you don't love each other enough, and of course you have to have a reasonable way to pursue it.

Although the saying goes, there are only three things, but the relationship is not something that can be explained clearly by the number of times, when a man meets the woman he likes, do you care if the other party refuses three times and does not continue to pursue? If you don't even say three times that you don't really like this woman, of course, there may be many other reasons for this. Let's analyze whether you have to stick to it after being rejected by a girl three times.

When you like a woman, you have to ask yourself a few questions, first of all, what do you like about this woman, is it her appearance or her temper or her background, etc. If you don't know that you like each other, even if you catch up, you may still be separated after a long time of contact, if you just like each other's appearance and are rejected by the other party, then you don't have to stick to it, after all, there are many beautiful women, why waste time for a woman. So when you like a woman, you have to ask yourself what you like about her, don't just say that you like the other person based on feelings, this is too general, too irresponsible to yourself.

When you meet a woman you like, you have to ask yourself, can you change yourself for this woman, this is also the key to the acceptance of the wheel, if two people are in love, naturally there will be no other party to reject you, if not love, it is possible to change yourself for women, for example, girls like to eat spicy, and you can't eat, do you want to accompany her to eat spicy food, girls like to go shopping, and they don't like to go shopping, Will you change yourself because of the woman you like, accompany her to go shopping, of course, these changes are basically permanent, you can't say that you are willing to change for it when you pursue a girl, once you catch up with you, it's like a person who has changed the hole Chi Xin, hit back to the original form, think about whether you are different from before in the eyes of women, and people are still willing to be with you. Therefore, when you meet a woman you like, you should ask yourself if you are willing to change yourself for it.

Some people may say why do you always have to change yourself for women, why don't you let women change for men, don't forget, the topic we are discussing today is to be rejected by girls three times, is it necessary to persevere, have been rejected so many times, it must be that you like girls will do that, if girls like you believe it is the same, it depends on whether you are attractive or not. As for being rejected by a girl three times, is it necessary to insist on it, if you like this woman, of course, it is necessary, of course, here is the first thing to consider the above questions, whether you can do it on the premise, of course, the point to be explained here is that the persistence here does not refer to the kind of stalking, otherwise it will be counterproductive, you must ask your heart and then know what to do.

I don't think I'm going to chase anymore, after all, it's not more than three, and it feels too shameful to chase it again, and it's easy to be gossiped about.

Besides, since you have been rejected three times, you should think that maybe that person really doesn't like you, and since that person doesn't like you, then even if you continue to chase it, I'm afraid that the result will still be the same, so why spend that time and intensive training.

I think if you don't meet the criteria for choosing a girl's mate, then don't chase it anymore.

was rejected 3 times in a row by people who like Lu Huai, I will definitely not continue to chase it, but choose to give up, because the signal given to me by others is already obvious, that is, I don't agree to be with me, and I won't be cheeky to embarrass myself in this situation!

First, calm yourself down.

Everyone has their own self-esteem to defend. If you are rejected, you will definitely be sad, especially when you are rejected by someone you like, and it is especially uncomfortable in your heart. I like him with my heart and lungs, but he refuses ruthlessly, and anyone will be sad and angry, and some people will even be depressed from then on.

It's not terrible to be depressed for a while, it's terrible to be depressed all the time. You must know that no matter how sad, angry, or depressed you are, you will not be able to reverse the situation of "rejection". Since you can't change the status quo, it's better to calm down, adjust your mentality, and get yourself out of the ruined quagmire of frustration and pain.

Life goes on, and the warm sunshine is waiting for you to feel it to the fullest.

Secondly, it is necessary to analyze the reasons for the round.

As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success. It is impossible not to admit that rejection is also a failure, an emotional frustration. There's nothing to be embarrassed about, and it's also a kind of courage to face failure.

After calming down, analyze the reasons for failure, summarize lessons learned, and improve your own shortcomings. When the next time love comes, you won't repeat the mistakes of the past.

Then, try to improve yourself and make yourself better!

Someone once said that you can't change anyone, the only thing you can change is yourself. When you focus on managing yourself, you will naturally forget the pain of being "rejected". At the same time, as you get better and better, according to the law of attraction, you will slowly gather people who are also excellent.

Perhaps, at that time, you have quietly attracted others to start a truly yours love journey.

Emotional things are like this, two people need to love each other, understand each other, respect each other, such feelings are meaningful, unilateral efforts will not have any results, and there will be no happiness. So instead of insisting, it's better to give up and save yourself a little dignity and face.