When a person reaches thirty, what words should not be put on his lips anymore?

Don't think you're young and don't care about anything, this sentence hangs on your lips.

It's the kind of particularly childish words that can't be put on the lips.

Don't talk about being young.

If two people can get married, it must be because of love.

Personally, I think age should be put on the lips.

It is very important for people to reach a middle-aged family and not to say something very excessive to their loved ones.

Don't say things that you regret and that are annoying.

In my opinion, don't say bad things about others, look at the strengths and weaknesses of others objectively, and don't say that there is no future for people, because everyone's experience is different.

One is to complain about society, about God, and about unfair words.

The second is to slander others, spread rumors about others, and maliciously slander others.

The third is self-pity and easy to give up.

Don't talk about complaining about things, that will make you more and more disappointed.

It is very comfortable to talk to people with high emotional intelligence, and we can summarize some of the things that people with high emotional intelligence would never say in some situations.

People with high emotional intelligence never say, "Do you understand?" Do you understand? And they'll say, "Did I make it clear?"

Am I making it clear? ”。Although the subject is just changed, the meaning is the same meaning, but the level of comfort is completely different.

When it is time to use the first person, people with high emotional intelligence will never use the first person. This doesn't make people feel too much about themselves and makes others feel valued. For example, if someone is asked for an opinion on an issue, people with high emotional intelligence will not emphasize how I feel about it, they will ask "What do you think?"

People with high emotional intelligence are also very tactful when they reject others, and they will not be difficult to accept. They seldom reject people with a categorical "no", they will say, "I'll try", "I'll think about it", "This may take a little time", "I need you to ask for other people's opinions before I get back to you".

People with high emotional intelligence often have a strong capacity for empathy. They will put themselves in the other person's point of view, and when the other person is in trouble or upset, they will never say, "What's so sad about this, cheer up!" And they'll say, "I know you must be very sad right now, and I'm sad too......."”

This is also very important in homeschooling. For adolescent children, parents must have high emotional intelligence and empathy. For example, if your child does not do well in the monthly exam, although you are also very anxious, but when you open your mouth to speak, you must not be furious, first of all, you should say "Dad knows that you are sad that you did not do well in the exam this time", "Mom knows that you have done your best" ......

In this way, you will be able to avoid conflicts with your adolescent children, and they will be willing to talk to you.

There are many, many more speaking skills of people with high emotional intelligence, you can pay attention to the observation at ordinary times, and then practice in real life, you will definitely be able to improve your speaking level.

It's not a hassle to talk to someone who understands you, and it's safe to work with you.

With high emotional intelligence, they won't put the mantra on their lips.

You can't have any conflict with someone with high emotional intelligence, and he will easily avoid him.

He won't put those words of some people with low emotional intelligence into his mouth.

People with high emotional intelligence will not say how others are, but will come to a problem from another perspective.

You may be smarter and won't say anything particularly hurtful.

Modest and polite words are on the lips, and they are not too annoying

The leader is wise, I understand the meaning of the leader, the leader is assured, the leader is wrong