I proposed to break up last night, but I didn t really want to break up at all

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal for him to be less and less willing to contact you, and although many boys will be very considerate, there are also many boys like your boyfriend. My boyfriend is the same, when we first started dating, he was also very active, we talked a lot every day, and then one a day, sometimes very brief, and then tried not to talk for two days. I also feel that he doesn't love me anymore, so I often quarrel with him, and he ignores him, saying that he is okay to break up.

    Hehe, he wasn't in a hurry for three days, and after three days, he started to act, and he called me crazy. After the novelty of love, it naturally starts to be cold, it's normal, as long as you like him, you can slowly get used to it, and then review yourself, whether you have done something bad, and correct it. It may also be that he is not good, but everyone has shortcomings, as long as he is generally good and not excessive, you try to tolerate it.

    You can't contact him too often, if a girl is too active, he won't cherish it, and don't take the initiative at all, seven points to satisfy him, three points to kill him. Some boys don't like to talk, and I often say ten words before he replies to me, but I know he loves me a lot, but it's just a little maddening. The mouth is sweet, and the boy is very coaxing.

    Occasionally, be coquettish. I don't know what you don't understand exactly? If you don't know, just ask me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Breakups don't stay. 2 possibilities. One is to be angry with you. The second is that I don't care.

    I had a lot of trouble with my boyfriend, and I started to be very coaxing, and then I didn't coax very much, and that's a change in attitude.

    And then the Cold War lasted for 2 days -- 1 week at most, and it came back to me, and the Cold War didn't last more than 21 days, because it took about 21 days to develop a habit.

    I've endured it for so long, and I'm probably going to blow it.

    My boyfriend is also quite face-saving, but he still cares about me and will still come to coax me. I also coaxed him twice to accommodate each other, and it would be better to live. But your boyfriend waits for you to accommodate and doesn't even contact you.

    Obviously I don't feel for you anymore. Giving up early doesn't hurt your body and heart. Otherwise, a nominal lover relationship will not be sweet to talk about!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are your first love, and your mood is understandable, but falling out of love is also part of love, and if you can't come together, you can gladly accept the reality of separation.

    I can tell you very clearly that he doesn't love you, at least not yet. "I don't know" means that he is embarrassed to tell you directly that he has no feelings for you.

    It is recommended that you break up, at least there are memories and dignity left for yourself. When you meet someone you love, you know how much difference there is between someone who cares about you and who doesn't.

    It's a good thing to stumble a little on the road to love, which will make you more and more mature. I believe you will be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you believe that others don't?

    I tell you from the experience of those who have come before:

    2. I guess you are not his first love, that is, the investment is completely disproportionate to you. Maybe he is still different from you and others, but he still invests too little (relatively), that is, he doesn't care enough about you, cares about you, and loves you.

    3. I suggest, don't get your hopes up too much, let's get together and disperse. Don't continue !!

    Listen to yourself or not, just give a reference.

    I wish you happiness

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can see that he has shown his attitude! When you say that you broke up, he said something you see, and you took the initiative to stay, but he said that he didn't know. If he still has you in his heart, will it be such an attitude Silly girl, it's not worth holding on to like this!

    Love you, he won't let you go. Maybe your reluctance to give up this relationship is because he is your first love! If you can afford to love and let go, it is worth it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How old are you? It shows that he doesn't care about you very much.

    This kind of man who doesn't know how to cherish you still gives up. If you chase him back, he'll be so self-righteous that he'll think he's great. It will hurt to give up on him for a while, but when you meet a man who knows how to cherish you and is worthy of your love, you will find how worthwhile the original choice was.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is a kind of love that makes me love more than you, there is a kind of regret that the person he loves is not you, and there is a kind of helplessness that he has to let go. Since love is no longer there, it is better to choose to let go and fulfill another truly perfect love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the premise is that you have already said that you don't want to break up, it may be that he doesn't care about the relationship, and you have to remember in the future, don't break up easily, because even if you say that you break up even if you are together in the future, this is a scar, and it is shocking ...... in your heart

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You better find another person who is really good to you, sometimes you should give up and give up, you have to think for yourself, whether this man is really worth keeping from you, in my opinion, he is not worth it at all, just to provide reference advice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can only see if he cares about you if you give up.,If you're always giving him a **,Maybe you're really finished.。。。

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A man treats emotional problems as if he doesn't know. Hehe, if he loves you too, he will keep it. But some men are dying to save face.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Give it up. At least from what you say. He really doesn't care about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's all a matter of face, let go of everything, work hard for love, and do what you think is right.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I said I don't know, I must have wanted to divide it, but it's not good to reject you clearly, alas.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When there is perfunctory and deception between two people, there is no need to be together again, even if they are barely together, will they continue to live like this?

    Finally, ask if you are a boy or a girl

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to live a beautiful life, and if he still loves you, he will take the initiative to contact you, instead of having such an attitude towards you.

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