I want to fall in love, but I don t have any courage, what if I don t have it????

Most of your lack of confidence may come from thinking too much.

Let's just say that people don't eat with you, in fact, now your relationship with those girls is just ordinary friends, so who stipulates that ordinary friends must eat together? Maybe they are really too lazy to move or arrange other shows, and not eating with you doesn't mean that she doesn't want to eat with you.

Besides, it's impossible for you to pay attention to the person next to you while playing **, so it doesn't mean anything either.

In fact, if you have a girl you like, you can be friends with her first, and after everyone gets acquainted to a certain extent, it is naturally possible to develop in the direction of lovers, and it is impossible to become a couple as soon as you come up. Even if you have a fancy for it, but others are not interested in people, but you like people very much, then you have to take out the spirit of a dead pig who is not afraid of boiling water, it is your business that you like her, and whether she likes you or not is her business, let it go, although now you may feel very embarrassed and faceless for fear of being looked down upon, that is much better than making you regret it later, right? At least I've worked hard to win this relationship, and even if I don't succeed, I don't regret it, right?

One is without self-esteem, the other is a man who eats soft rice and can't be called a man A man must have self-confidence, no matter what kind of environment he lives in, he must be like a man Saying that a person has a temperament means that what is inside a person is self-confidence Come on, buddy, look down on everything, raise your head and hold your chest, everything doesn't matter, work hard, work hard, what should come will always come, what should be your own will always be your own, if you don't ask for it, you won't be happy, I'm three years older than you, and when I'm young, I will always be confused at many crossroads Believe in my brother If she loves you, you will cherish her if she doesn't love you, let her go and enlarge your heart Come on, buddy, bless you.

Sure, you have a serious inferiority complex? It's not good to go on like this.

Maybe it's something wrong if she doesn't go once, but what is there to ask for once? Invite her a few more times and she'll think you're very sincere! Hey.

In other words, she didn't look down on you when she chatted with other men's ** in front of you, maybe she was deliberately angry with you, haha. A lot of reasons, I won't look down on you anyway!

It's because of your own inferiority complex that you feel that anyone who doesn't talk to you and doesn't pay attention to you is looking down on you.

If you can, you can really go to a psychiatrist. It's effective.

Look down on yourself, fight for more, love is not something that waits, and you won't get low self-esteem.

You lack self-confidence, and men have to be confident to be attractive.

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

Let me introduce you, you ** person?

You can ask your friends to help you express it, and you can also care more about the other person, let the other person know your thoughts, the best thing is to change your state, if you don't even have the courage to do this, it will make the other party look down on you.

You must be courageous, you must learn to encourage yourself, and you must be very brave so that you do not miss the opportunity.

Then you should continue to improve yourself and make yourself better and more confident.

I want to fall in love, but I don't have the courage and I'm afraid of being rejected by others, so I never recover. It's a kind of love phobia.

If there should be these performances, you should pay attention to it, and you are afraid of falling in love with others. There are many excellent people around you who are suitable for you, but you just try to tell yourself that you can't fall in love with him, and you are afraid of falling in love with others, just like living in your own world, quietly in your own small world. Not known.

There is such a situation, you have a crush on someone for a long time, but you don't confess for a long time, it's not that you don't want to confess, it's that you don't have the courage, it's not just that you're afraid of being rejected and worried. After being rejected yourself, you don't know what to do? Three are afraid of being hurt, sometimes looking at the couple around them have also envied, in fact, they are not without this opportunity, but they have not dared to take this step forward, but they are afraid that they are playing a wounded role in love, and they are afraid that they will be hurt.

Fourth, women who are afraid of losing everything in love often seem to be isolated from the world when they are in love like this, and they don't want to fall in love, but they are afraid of losing their circle of friends after falling in love, and he can add people. I'm afraid of losing everything I originally had.

In fact, it is rejected in love. It's a normal thing, because if the person you like is particularly good, he will also be liked by others, so he sees more people, and he may not believe in feelings so much, sometimes he rejects you, it's just a test for you, he doesn't know how long you can like him, so when he is not sure how much affection you have for him, he doesn't want to take risks easily. But if you don't care what happens, you have to have a mindset of daring to try and a positive and optimistic mindset, so I believe.

Sooner or later, you will try to achieve your own happiness for yourself.

Thank you for the invitation, let's talk about my experience first, once I also had a brilliant life, from the age of fifteen to Fujian part-time career, at the age of seventeen I learned a craft, drove an excavator, made some money and began to build a house, play friends to fall in love, and get married. Later, he partnered with relatives to buy excavators, from one to two. However, five years of love and two years of marriage have not stood the test.

When his career was just starting, he encountered a marriage change. His wife was separated, and since then he has been in a state of collapse, and he has begun to give up on himself, and the whole person has been shrouded in the shadow of divorce for ten years. After squandering six or seven hundred thousand yuan, he is still in debt, and he owes more than 100,000 yuan to relatives and friends, but no matter how degenerate, or how he doesn't want to live, what he owes should be paid off first, in installments, or there is a better plan to pay it back.

Other people's money is also hard-won, why squander it for you? When I lend you money, it is a great help, not a should and a must. To be a man, you have to say a word, don't make empty promises.

I would also like to thank everyone who has helped me for their help and trust. Now that my foreign debts have basically been paid off, the sentence that touches me the most is: we are good brothers, and if you need to, come back to me at any time!

Therefore, I think there are not many real old people in the world, no one wants to owe anyone, and more often than not, they are forced to be helpless. I hope that people who are forced by life will have the ability to do great things, know how to be grateful and be a responsible person! Thank you!

The problem is universal, I am an entrepreneur and I have also been in debt, and I choose.

What should you do when you have nothing and are in debt, and you are unable to repay them at present, and you are being called on every day? I think.

One, make a gesture.

Although there is no ability to repay at present, but actively work hard to let the creditor see hope, and give the creditor a repayment plan to look forward to, do not promise indiscriminately, do not repeatedly break the word, this will alleviate a lot, after all, the creditor is urging money, not urgency.

Second, take the initiative to contact.

Don't let creditors call you all day long, you can take the initiative to contact each creditor according to the plan, and tell them directly that you are temporarily unable to repay, what are you doing, and how to work hard to make money? In this way, the other party has a bottom in his heart, and he generally does not urge too hard.

Three, take action.

It's not terrible to be in debt, but it's terrible that you don't have the will to repay at all, blindly dodging, so it will be very troublesome, and each creditor will pay back a little bit every month, take practical actions to express the willingness to repay, which is also a way.

Fourth, change the environment.

If the above methods don't work, don't worry about it, find a place, change the environment, make money with peace of mind, and the creditor will not accept it directly, just keep it unblocked.

Hello, there is no shame in boldly pursuing love, and there is nothing to be afraid of, but you must dare to love and hate, and you can't be together and don't get entangled.

If you want to fall in love, you have to take the initiative to pursue it, don't be afraid of rejection, and how do you know the answer if you don't try.

When you fall in love, you have to muster up the courage to confess, and it is normal to be rejected, but it will not collapse all at once, maybe the person you want has not yet appeared, just continue to look for it.

It doesn't matter, if you want to succeed, you have to be not afraid of failure, failure is the mother of success, take the first step to start falling in love, first pursue girls, then get along slowly, and then confess, and then be able to be together. Absolutely.

Courage is not something that can be had in a day or two, and don't force yourself, what is your own is your own, not your own inability to get everything according to fate.3 Without courage, it's also because you haven't met the one you really are.

In this case, we still have to muster up courage. After all, if you don't try, you never know if you'll succeed or not. I missed out on a good marriage because of my timidity, and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

How do you know you're going to be rejected without even trying, right? And even if you are rejected, it is a kind of growth for yourself. So no matter what the result is, it is a process of growing and honing your mind, and it is good to face everything with a positive attitude.

If you want to fall in love, you don't have the courage, it's not right, if you like it, say it boldly, don't be afraid of rejection, just start over again if you refuse, what's right, there's no need to say that you will collapse if you refuse.

If you're afraid of rejection, there's no way to find the person you love the most, so don't always feel like you've been rejected. What if you didn't confess and someone snatched her away? Is there no chance at all in this life?

Recently, a netizen shared his feelings about falling in love with an idol, which attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. ......For the idol who is in the limelight, whether he has the courage to fall in love with him, different people have different choices for this issue. Specifically, it includes the idol is high up, he does not have the courage to fall in love with his chair, as long as he can pursue true love, no matter who he is for, he will be brave enough to pursue it, and he must be prepared for the complex situation of falling in love with an idol.

1. For some people, idols are high, and they don't have the courage to fall in love with them.

Idols belong to the existence of the high, and for ordinary people, they often have an unattainable feeling when facing idols. ......Therefore, for most people, when they face their idols, they will have the idea that they are not worthy of the other party, and therefore lack the courage to fall in love with them.

2. As long as you can pursue true love, no matter who the other party is, you will be brave enough to pursue it.

For some people, the purpose of falling in love is to pursue true love. ......Therefore, these people don't care too much about the identity of the other party when choosing a love partner, as long as they believe that they can pursue true love from the envy of the other party, they will be brave enough to pursue it. ......For these people, they are brave enough to fall in love with their idols.

3, falling in love with an idol needs to face a complicated situation, and you must be a brother to make relevant preparations.

Having the courage to fall in love with an idol and really falling in love with your idol are two completely different situations. ......Specifically, when you really fall in love with your idol, you will find that you will encounter a lot of problems and face very complex situations, which you usually can't encounter, or even imagine. ......Therefore, in the process of pursuing love with idols, you must be psychologically prepared to deal with complex situations and problems, only in this way can you properly deal with various problems, pursue true love, and obtain happy love.

It's just a sudden feeling that falling in love is just a matter of repeating one thing over and over again, and getting acquainted with a person of the opposite sex, but I can't fall in love anymore, maybe just stay at a certain distance, which can make me feel at ease. Too close, I'll panic, too far, I'll feel distant. Falling in love is just repeating the same things to different people, and no one of the opposite sex can make me feel safe anymore.

Maybe I'm thinking too much, but it's really good to be single.

Because of this experience, I have a deep shadow on this matter. But I know that when I completely let go,**, I will definitely be able to regain the courage of my lover, and I hope to be kind to myself. I also hope that everyone else is fine.

Once serious dedication, it is not a happy result. So it may not be fair to people in the future. Therefore, I feel that I have learned to love myself, know to work hard to make more money, love myself first, then love my family, and then love others.